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As a transgender genderfluid person myself, you need to seperate the fiction from reality. One helpful tip I learned is to imagine yourself on a deserted island with no one around. Now, what gender would you present as on that island? Would you be female, male, both, neither? What gender would you want to present as, even if no one is around to jud......   reply
13 05,2026
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Forgiveness is letting go of a grudge and being willing to move forward with someone. It doesn’t mean pretending it never happened though. Like if someone steals things from you, then repents and gives them back, you can forgive them and still put your valuables away when they come over, or not invite them over at all until you’re positive it�......   reply
13 05,2026
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Hmm ( ̄へ ̄)it depends on the context. How long has it been? How severe was the mistake? have you moved on or did it leave a permanent mark? how much accountability are they willing to take? can you go through all that again keeping in mind it could be painful? what your relation was with that person? the matter of forgiveness also depends ......   2 reply
13 05,2026
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i think forgiveness is the inexplicable ability to see the good in people. forgiveness is ALWAYS a virtue, but it's not an obligation!!! imo i def would hear out someone who has hurt me once because everyone has different circumstances and theres no black and white way fo determine how people act. not many people agree on having an open mind and ex......   reply
13 05,2026
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Title says it all. Could you really forgive someone who hurt you once. In the past. But now is willing to take accountability for it.
Chat would you hear them out one last time?
what really is forgiveness?
13 05,2026
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Gues thats what i get for staying in the house alot lol but happy for her and sad at the same time cuz i dont got no game
13 05,2026
Guys please I made this question like two years ago maybe almost 3 please leave it alone   3 reply
13 05,2026
lowk same, i stopped reading yaoi as much cuz its mostly rape rape rape and also cuz i prefer yuri so much more than yaoi now   reply
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Akumaneko 13 05,2026
sounds tough. in a big group it can be hard but try asking people how they are doing or ask them about themselves related to the club or something. shift it from you worrying about being left out, to you engaging to be interested in others and see if anything changes. usually being interested in others is a way to make better friends, like this i......   reply
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Rahrah 13 05,2026
It seems like this definitely isn't the first time you've felt out of place with these people, and as someone who has gone through this kinda stuff, I promise it's not your fault, especially if no other group seems to have a problem with you. Maybe try getting some one on one time with the nicest person from thus group and see if you can get some i......   reply
13 05,2026
Fuck it [Experience]
Yaoi 13 05,2026
Honestly sometimes u have to say f and say how u feel and if they don't understand remove ya self slowly .If you feel like the outcast like you don't belong it's best u leave . If you need a friend I'm more than happy to be a friend .   1 reply
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SHEEP1 13 05,2026
That sounds tough. If they didn't ask you questions most likely they forgot or did not care about you especially a big group, from my perspective. I think give it keep trying and see if it was a misunderstanding after you try to get to know people individually in the club to determine if it's a fit for you. Goof luck though   reply
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ArtsyP
13 05,2026
You're definitely not a failure! Life can be so insanely unpredictable that it may feel like everything is falling apart. One outlook you can consider is that: You Can Take Your Time I know people around you seemingly "getting ahead in life" while you're being left behind may seem daunting, but everyone works at different paces. I know someone w......   1 reply
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Nobody 13 05,2026
Ok, so who are your favorite female characters , male characters, animal characters, sidekicks, friends, couples, etc for any and all media.


Females:
Kiri- Beauty Pop
Sakura- Kyoukai no Rinne
Prentiss, JJ, Tara & Garcia- Criminal Minds

Males:
Byakuya & Hitsugaya- Bleach
Matoba- Natsume Yuujincho
Kaiser Ryo- Yugioh GX
Bakura & Thief King Bakura- Yugioh
The Winter Soldier
Gambit
Rossi & Reid- Criminal Minds
Ye Xiu, Deception/Mo Fan, Fang Rui- The King’s Avatar

Animals-
Charmeleon
Silver- Hello! Veterinarian!
Nyanko-sensei- Natsume Yuujincho

Couples-
Ceylin & Ilgaz-Yargı


Right now those are all I remember.

Your turn.
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Rynrunner04 13 05,2026
I'm in this club at my uni and it seemed great at first. I like what we do and it's my passion. Here's the thing: I've always had this weird vibe about some of the ppl in the club. Like we do all these bonding events, which are fun, but sometimes I feel invisible. A lot of them are in different sororities, so maybe it's that commonality? It's weird like I'll try to say something and they'll either just stare like I spoke a different language or talk over me as if I'm not there. It used to really drive me crazy and I started to dread being there. It's gotten better as ppl graduated and stuff, but it's still a select group of people that i feel odd around. I don't think it's me, because in every other club, people seem to enjoy talking to me.

I got dinner with a bunch of them tonight, and i swear they were all asking each other about summer plans, EXCEPT ME. I sat in the corner and barely said anything at all. I responded to other ppl's stories, but never was asked anything. I really felt like i was invisible. I don't know if this is crazy or what. I'm going to stay in the club because im not going to give up what i love, but I don't want to feel like an outsider anymore.
13 05,2026
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Lonnie
13 05,2026
Hey. The fact that you wrote all of that down, shows that somewhere in you, there’s something worth protecting, encouraging, empowering, and defending. You have strength, but don’t know how to put it into something that you believe you can trust, because you can’t trust yourself. Take small steps. Organize your goals first so that you can’t......   1 reply
13 05,2026
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Rynrunner04 13 05,2026
Wow you seem to be going through a lot. First of all, I wouldn't say you're a failure. You had other priorities and that's often how life turns out. Taking care of your family is important and I think explaining your situation could help. There are probably organizations out there that can help? I don't know exactly how to help, but there are alway......   1 reply
13 05,2026
We gonna find out by the end of the week, Already took my exams I’m not worried about my other classes except calc 3 cuz that determines If I can graduate or have to wait till 2028 Fuck schools that only offer classes every other year   2 reply
13 05,2026
i also found extra money in my jacket pocket. life is goodddd   1 reply
13 05,2026
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Lotus flower - Radiohead The power of love - Frankie goes to Hollywood A pillow of winds - Pink Floyd How can I? - Nina Simone Their eyes - Midnight Sister Bless the telephone - Labi Siffre Middle names - Devendra Banhart Trouble - Metronomy Niño - Milo J White winter hymnal - Fleet Foxes The great pretender - Freddie Mercury Sweet dreams, TN - Th......   reply
13 05,2026

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