I've read lots of dumb, lots of fucked up stuff.. but really, this has GOT to be the worst. I would rather set myself on fire than ever read this shit again. I liked Jamil a lot, and then that stupid trash bitch fucked him over, in the most vile outrageous way.. I especially hate Pray.. he really forced his way into their relationship, and after jan just ALLOWED IT?? LIKE YOU LET THIS MF BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF YOUR BOYFRIEND AND TAKE YOU???? I FUCKING HATE NTR.
Are you telling me... He made himself upset by jumping to conclusions... decided to break up with him because of nonexistent issues... and to top it all off he pushed him down the stairs and sent him to the hospital... all this for what? he knows he's going right back to him
No? Uke was disowned by his family for being gay and saw how happy seme was when he was around kids. He didn't want him to lose the chance of having a family from being in a same sex relationship (which is literally what happened to uke himself) so he broke up with him because he wanted him to be happy. They got back together and seme told him that that's not gonna happen with him
I thought the comment above this was wrong but scrolling down proved me wrong. DID WE READ THE SAME MANGA?? he did NOTTTT jump into conclusions, he did NOTTTT. MC was scared of the thought of separation because they can't do what opposite sex couples are able to do, and this is honestly a valid response fter being disowned by your parents after coming out as gay. Mc did not mean to push him off the stairs, did you not see him try to grab ml??? He was stressed and overthinking, overthinking the limitations he'll give to ML if they eventually did get married(assuming that they're already engaged). Same sex couples handles marriage a lot differently than the opposite sex couples because of the society, that's what MC was afraid of, not for himself, but for ml!!!! He was not jumping into conclusions and such, it's the cause of society's prejudiced thoughts!!!
he was still... jumping to conclusions. no matter what his intentions were, he still pushed him away instead of just voicing his fears, when the WHOLE conflict would not have existed if he had just communicated... not to mention, he made completely ungrounded assumptions out of THIN AIR and ran with them to the point where he was hurting both him and his bf.. when there was no REAL problem in the first place.. he was never gonna get left for a woman, and they had already came out.
I enjoy seeing other's perspectives too. I know uke could've just communicated but I think he got deep rooted issues. He got disowned by his parents. The people he trusted most. Imagine your family, the people you trusted most can turn their back on you in the blink of an eye, I think anyone would be traumatized by this. I know I do. He voiced his sexuality and got disowned. He had assumptions that his parents would accept him and he's wrong. Yes it could be communicated but he never had that epiphany. He thought his parents loved him the most and then they disowned him. So even if seme loved him the most, the fear didn't dissapear because it happened before.
So yeah, communication is key but when all previous communication with his former family failed uke, he can't help but hesitate.
naw cuz he moment leewon said "break up" I KNEW caesar was not finna let shit slide.. I could tell he was gon do something to himself instead of leewon, but I was not expecting THAT
I can't believe mfs actually thought he would change.. are there really people who still have hope for that man?? bro got yall brainwashed
Matthew CLEARLY wasn't in his right mind.. at ALL. he had literally JUST been taken advantage of, while high out of his mind because his drink was spiked.. that girl was doing whatever to him, but he was completely unaware. after that, he managed to get out of there, but he was clearly VERY messed up, still.. It was a messed up situation, but he was not in his right mind.??? like why are yall calling him a rapist?
It was rape, but Matthew is not a rapist. Do you understand how hard drugs work?
Cocaine affects the part of the brain which makes decisions, and degrades a persons rationality. Meth causes people to also become violent and wild. So even the most gentle soul with no bad intentions, someone who wouldn't even hurt a fly, could become a psychotic and violent person on meth.
Plenty other drugs affect the brain itself. Our morals, rationality, decisions, etc, are thrown out the window. It's null.
So, the situation was indeed rape. But Matthew is NOT a rapist, because he did not choose to take the drug, and he would have not done this in any other case where he was himself. They are both victims in this situation. Already he has to live with the fact that he did this while he was out of control, completely against his will, and in delirium.
do you know the millions of people who take drugs and don’t commit rape. drugs don’t throw out your morals they just show you don’t have any. you can’t take drugs rape people and say “sorry i was on drugs” because if that was excusable don’t u think millions of people would be getting raped. being a rapist defender is disgusting. mathew said it himself he thought it was a dream the fact he could do something like that even in a dream is disgusting. keep the same energy because if you got raped and ppl said you didn’t get raped because he was on drugs it’s would be a different story
are you slow? drugs can DEFINITELY make you do things you wouldn't naturally do.. they can DEFINITELY make someone commit a crime.. you should really do some research before you come talking shit to me. What Matthew did was messed up, and shouldn't have happened.. but that doesn't make him a rapist. Calling me a rapist defender because I have common sense is really crazy..
If someone is on drugs, they cannot consent to sex... if someone is drunk, they cannot consent to sex... how do you not know this? people commit crimes while inebriated ALL the time.. be forreal.
Did you forget the part where his mind was playing tricks on him? Where it showed Jin telling him to slow down / stop (something along those lines) but what Matthew saw was him telling him he wanted more?
Mathew didn’t take the drug willingly. He was in delirium due to the drug, and didn’t even willingly commit rape through his dream. In his dream he thought Jin was consenting. AND, Jin told Matthew in the recent chapter that it was not rape, that he willingly “spread his legs” for him. While I do still consider the consent itself to be an issue still, with Jin’s statement this would be classified as “dubious” now. He’s decided that he was okay with the violent sex.
Many of us here are completely anti-rape, and while I should not have to mention this, I myself am a CSA survivor. This situation is touchy and nuanced, that is for sure, but at the end of the day; Matthew is not a rapist.
Read my first comment on the thread and do some research. Drugs are not made equal. PLENTY wipe out your morals and rationality whilst you are on them. I mentioned in another thread how a woman tore her fucking eyes out while on Meth. Look that case up. Even alcoholics begin to lose their morality over time, though, all of these cases are where people willing took the drug in the first place. Matthew did not.
I’m tired of this misinformation bullshit.
Is the bl in the room with us?
Do we need the bl in the room with us? Dont think so LOL lets the strory flow it self
it was a joke.