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Saphieer June 15, 2019 1:38 am

I grew up in a christian family and my first encounter with bl was completely accidental however, it opened my eyes to the fact that other than hetero relationships, there were other kinds of relationships out there and it made me more openminded to accepting those people who are different to the point that I could've been a confidante to a classmate of mine in highschool, which was amazing.

People often use God and the bible as a reason to justify why homosexuality is wrong, but the bible also says not to judge others and that salvation is something personal between eachn person and God and as long as they are clear of their faith in their own hearts then no one has the right to criticize them because its their choice.

God gave everyone the right of 'free will' ans what they choose is their business, no one has the right to criticize them for it; this is what I believe.

However believing it and being able to stand up for it are two completely different things.

It completely eats me out inside when I hear my family talk about gays like they aren't even human but I hate myself more for not being able to speak up against their prejudices.

    Yukii June 15, 2019 2:13 am

    Speak up when you feel that you are ready and safe! Dont think its your responsability to do so, at the end of the day your state of mind and safety goes before anything else.

    Keiki June 15, 2019 3:11 am

    It's great that you've come to this realization. I think you understand what religion is supposed to be. More than the practices and teachings of religion, the end goal really is becoming a better person making a better world for others. Speaking out against your family will be hard, so start off with other people you feel comfortable with, maybe friends who seem to have a more open mind. And whatever prejudice your family has, just make sure it stops with you. Not passing it on is already a big thing

    1evis1ittlea$$hole June 15, 2019 4:54 am

    I'm glad you're are growing as a person. I can see you're trying but I can also see some more growth is needed. Being gay is not a choice, I hear a lot of seemingly open-minded Christians say that to defend us but it's actually really harmful to say being gay has anything to do with free will, or a choice, or a lifestyle. It's not a choice.

    It's because of people's belief that it's a choice that no one wants to accept our existence in the first place. They think we choose to "sin" when it's not a sin and God literally made us this way. It's not about respecting a choice, it's about understanding it's not a choice and accepting our very existence. Believe me I wouldn't choose to be persecuted for the way I love, no one would. I was born like this.

    Anyways sorry for rambling. I can see that you are growing into a good ally but it is important to go deeper than BL (which is honestly pretty problematic, heteronormative and even homophobic at times lol) and try to divorce the idea of queerness being a lifestyle. I hope you can help your family change one day though.

    Keiki June 15, 2019 12:29 pm

    Also would reiterate what person above said. It's great that BL introduced you to this perspective, but don't base everything you know off of BL. While I would say that BL is able to portray some of the real-life problems (harsh judgement by society and/or own families, not having the legal benefits that heteronormative couples enjoy), it also has its problematic portrayals such as limiting characters to seme/uke. This is not how it is in real life, but I think the reason why this prevails is because people try to understand them as a straight couple. They look for who does the guy role and the girl role, which is not the case.

Saphieer May 21, 2019 3:17 pm

Calling one calling all!! For those BL that we love with the scary faced-soft hearted uke X angel faced-black bellied seme.

Drop em all, lets start a list!! ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ

Saphieer May 20, 2019 7:46 pm

Read this before, suddenly have the urge to read it again but can't find it; its a yaoi.

The seme is super popular in university, Tall Rich and Handsome but he has an attention span of 3 hours (?) like seriously; he started dating a girl during lunch and broke up with her by the time the bell rang.

So, apparently the seme made a dating sim game when he was younger and his brother's company was launching it as a VR full immersive game. He was beta testing it and looking for bugs when he met a weird NPC with a broken setting.

He falls in love but the game gets shut down due to some complications then he finds out that the NPC was actually someone in his class that hacked in and set up a false identity.

I'd really like to find this back. Please!!! ╥﹏╥

Saphieer May 17, 2019 12:03 am

Calling one, calling all! Requesting titles of any and all 'seke yaoi' titles!

Once both holes are in use, gimme! ヾ(☆▽☆)

    Rhaat May 17, 2019 12:09 am

    Liebling
    Haru wo dite ita
    Dark Heaven

    cleo May 17, 2019 12:28 am

    the man of tango
    haito diamond

    Saphieer May 17, 2019 2:53 am
    the man of tangohaito diamond cleo

    I just read 'The Man of Tango', it was delish! Haito Diamond looks like it'll give me the 'uwu's, but imma check it out too.

    Graci!!

Saphieer May 13, 2019 2:00 am

Looking for a short shoujo manga.
Set in a trade school that the locals call 'Jail School', she's the only girl in the mechanics class.
Coming from a family of soldiers, although she's cute and bubbly when she gets angry it triggers a violent persona.
The manga starts with her trying to persuade the new transfer student (a guy) to join her team in building cars... something like that.
In the end they enter a contest with their finished product and win.

Help, really wanna find back this manga. ╥﹏╥

Saphieer January 16, 2019 3:48 am

Army setting, seme, Steve, is a soldier who rescued uke, Eric, who is a doctor. Eric is gay and falls in love with with Steve, admiring him as his hero, Steve is a aware of Eric's feelings but they remain friends until Steve has a near death experience that causes his to realize his own feelings. I really wanna find this back, please help! >-<

Saphire December 12, 2018 5:02 am

Shounen Ai manga... can't say yaoi because they never touch last base... I think.
MC's name means 'treasure'.
All boys school, his roommate is super handsome and arrogant and likes him.
MC is tiny and cute so people try to bully him but he's good at fighting.
Most of his family is dead, I think his dad is his only living relative but he's always traveling.
There was an arc in the manga where MC and the the roommate went to africa with MC's dad and the two of them plus this girl who wanted to hook up with the roommate got trapped in a jeep for one night with a lion outside.

I don't remember the name, but I really wanna read this manga again. Help! ╥﹏╥

Saphire July 17, 2018 4:02 am

There's a manga with two brothers who are born years apart but same day and same time.

Ever since he was little the older brother would always inexplicably get hurt or suffer injuries and after meeting, he finds out that he had been suffering his little brother's pain all along and they later find out that the little brother can experience the older brother's pleasure. It's yaoi.

Please help.

Saphire February 16, 2018 2:38 pm

I'm looking for a yaoi manga that I read before.

While on a lunch break, MC fed a kid he met in the park with his bento the the kid's dad showed up and offered him a job as a nanny and house keeper.

The dad id a pilot and never really around so MC has to take care of the kid. The kid grows to like MC a lot and makes MC promise not to fall in love with his dad because whenever the other house keepers (all women) fell in love with his dad they had to leave.

Of course, MC fell in love with the dad and dad fell in love with MC too... you can guess how it unfolds from there.

Anyhoo, I really wanna see this manga again. Please help. ┗( T﹏T )┛

Saphire December 29, 2017 9:34 pm

I'm looking for a manga about a guy who was treated as a girl since birth. Like literally, when his dad saw him and was like 'oh, we have another cute little boy' his mum was like 'what are you saying papa, obviously it's a girl' and the father who was completely dominated by his hanya wife completely agreed with her, dooming the MC to live forever as a girl.

I think he has like three or four older brothers and his mother was desperate for a daughter. No one outside of his family knows that he's a guy. He's seen as his high school's goddess even.

When his mother saw a wedding dress in a store one day, she suddenly wanted to see her 'daughter' in in and made plans with one of her high school friends for their kids to get married.

The two people meet, knowing that they are both guys and connect over the mutual frustration and helplessness they feel toward their mothers. They start living together and the ML starts helping the MC who has always lived as a 'proper young lady' act like a man little by little and his kindness makes the MC start to fall in love with him.

I read up to where the ML bought the MC his first pair of jeans then I lost the story. I reeeeally wanna find back this story. Please help!!

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