I think that if I'd be in your shoes, I'd try to say to the other party that they might be interested in guys too~
I mean, if you'll talk about it as a possibility, a chance, they might talk about gay relationships and discover each others interest (out of your advice, like saying- hey, do you want me to find out if he's interested in guys? idk).
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It happened yesterday, wjere i was doing community service subject in my uni, and he is the one who responsible to look afyer us, i was walking to my friends and suddenly my heart beat so fast and i feel uncomfortable being there because of him. I then walk out from the place. Maybe it's crazy for me to say, i dont hope to meet him again. I don't h...... reply
Yep i've been in your position before, I got one of them to confess to the other and the next day the bastards started dating #－.－) I was like FINALLY.
Ok so they both like each other and your sure about their feelings between each other so there's no problem there really(〜￣△￣)〜. Consider that on obstacle out of the way. I'd say yeah ...... 1 reply
Hi,
It's only my personal opinion, but I think you have right to say something and more importantly to be honest to them. If they ask your opinion and come for advice and things like that, then it's just normal to me that it works in both ways. Just be honest without being rude.
Hope this helps you a bit.
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Hi guys, well I really need an advice about something. My best friend ex boyfriend is in love with my cousin the problem is my cousin have a crush on him too buuuut both of them are closets bi? I wouldn’t say gay because they likes girls at least the ex boyfriend concerning my cousin I think he’s dating girls in order to hide his true self, I’m so sad for him but this is not the question. They both know I looove yaoi and I’m always supportative for all gay couple in our circle of acquaintances. It’s been already 2 years since my cousin told me about his crush and just few weeks after that my bf ex boyfriend who’s also my friend told me he is in love with my cousin seeking for advice , the two of them makes me promise to never tell. I’m kind of pissed now because I think they’re engaging in short pointless relashionship and always come to me to ask what the other’s doing. Do you think I have the right to say something? Or at least set something to make them moves? Did you ever face this kind of situation?(〜￣△￣)〜
I'm gay, and I read Yaoi not only because I enjoy it, but also because it's one of the few genres that showcase gay romance and sex. Representation is important.
But to answer your question - no. Reading yaoi as a guy does not mean you are gay. In fact, it makes me really happy to hear that you read about and appreciate gay romance even though it...... 1 reply
Hello there!
(first of all, I’m not that good in english, sooo here's a long answer in pretty bad english XD)
No it doesn’t make you gay. Sexuality isn't always the main reason why we like things or not. I wrote an essay for college about Yaoi and the reasons people like it. And there a many reasons why readers prefere BL. Some identify themse...... 1 reply
Well yaoi is made by straight women for other straight women. So my answer is no.
In fact the stories are only normal romances. You can mostly exchange the uke by a female lead and nothing would change (well sometimes even the drawing is very girlish). The only psychological advance of this stories for a women (in my opinion ) is that this is a kin...... 1 reply
