I'm gay, and I read Yaoi not only because I enjoy it, but also because it's one of the few genres that showcase gay romance and sex. Representation is important.
But to answer your question - no. Reading yaoi as a guy does not mean you are gay. In fact, it makes me really happy to hear that you read about and appreciate gay romance even though it...... 1 reply
Hello there!
(first of all, I’m not that good in english, sooo here's a long answer in pretty bad english XD)
No it doesn’t make you gay. Sexuality isn't always the main reason why we like things or not. I wrote an essay for college about Yaoi and the reasons people like it. And there a many reasons why readers prefere BL. Some identify themse...... 1 reply
Well yaoi is made by straight women for other straight women. So my answer is no.
In fact the stories are only normal romances. You can mostly exchange the uke by a female lead and nothing would change (well sometimes even the drawing is very girlish). The only psychological advance of this stories for a women (in my opinion ) is that this is a kin...... 1 reply
Does reading Yaoi make you gay? A lot of people have that assumption. I mean people give me the –_– face if they see me reading BL. It's getting nerve wrecking. I support LGBT doesn't mean I practise well if that's my sexual orientation I wouldn't mind though cus for now I'm ¿.
I've been molested by a store employee when I was like 6 or 7 maybe, he felt my chest and was going to touch me down there too but thank God someone entered the store. I was also force kissed by my father's brother.. I always wanted to tell my parents about these things that happened to me but i couldn't bring myvself to say anything since i have ...... 1 reply
Welp, I guess I'm still a virgin at 17 is because I've never had that much attraction to sex before or have a person who'd I could actually trust , but still i am not looking for that person or any. I'm ace but if the person I love wants to do it and if I love that person enough, I'd lose it. reply
Well the time I lost my virginity was when I was 12yo, raped by my cousin (long and depressing story, nothing interesting to say about that). But since then I did have consensual sex (fortunately) and my first time was with my current and only girlfriend. I was 18 and she was 17. We were both virgins and it was great.
Really cool thing is, we both ...... reply
I remember like it was yesterday just kidding but I remember it. I was 17 (23 now) and the guy was 16 I believe anyways... All my friends well not one.. lost theirs before mine but I never got prepressuer into it, I told myself if I wanted to lose it, I will decide on my own. So I choose that guy , it was from a one night stand. Everyone says that ...... 1 reply
I'm a openly gay guy. I'm 38 and I can tell you its different for everyone.
Me,I knew before I was ten,and I never had any worries or angst over it either.
Not much help I know, but everyone is different 3 reply
