Don't use oil unless it's made for that purpose!! Or a homemade dildo! Have clean hands and make sure to trim your nails back. You don't need to reach deep there's a spongy texture you can feel about an inch and a half/ 2inches in. Massage the outside until you're wet and find your clit. Chances are you won't get off just by fingering yourself- the...... 1 reply
I've had many disgusting dreams and after looking it up it told me my brain was telling me I wanted to be better friends with them. Idk if that's true or not but the dreams weren't pleasant so I feel you there! The killing part I've had somewhat and I have no clue what it means (￣∇￣"). I haven't figured out what to do either but good luck reply
You don't have to insert your finger into yourself to get pleasure, you know? I don't know what everything's called but there is an area at the top that if you rub it right it feels good. Just keep feeling around and don't do it aggressively or you'll get hurt. Make sure you don't have sharp nails because you could scratch yourself. Best of luck
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HOLDUP- first WHAT OIL.
Make sure you buy actual lube, and a real dildo. Otherwise you can really hurt yourself and/or make yourself infertile. I would suggest using your fingers first- there's a lot you can do with them OWO
Second, something blocking your fingers? It could be your hymen if you're still a virign. OR you might have a condition ca...... reply
you're 22 on you not only have not popped your cherry, you didn't even know it existed?
bite down on a stick and go to town, or just talk to your gynecologist 2 reply
i think a lot of it is based on fear i guess. it always hurts the first time (for most people) and bc it's not someone else but yourself that's doing it, you might be too scared to push it in all the way. also there was that comment about foreplay which is also 1000% relevant bc nothing's gonna work unless u horny enough reply
Um, girl?? If your finger can't fit then don't use a dildo? This sounds like vaginismus so speak to your ob/gyn. Don't hurt yourself. Btw::: if this is not a medical problem then try to get horny and wet down there before any insertion. Maybe flick the bean a bit? 7 reply
