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as an mlm, i can agree to an extent. i do think that other people should have a say in what counts as fetishizing though. if an lgbt woman were to say "i think reading yaoi for the gay sex is fetishizing" and an mlm went "no it's not. im mlm, and only i can say what's fetishizing" (i saw this a few years back on another mangago post, but this is wo......   2 reply
06 01,2021
Girl I- If a horse was stuck in a barn that was on fire would their first thought be, “Oh the poor trees are burning,” It’s not just humans who think of saving their lives rather than a plants health... yeezus....   reply
06 01,2021
That Vegan Teacher? I didn't know you read manga   reply
06 01,2021
bruhh, i agree. Can someone from the MLM community say me what counts as fetishizing?   2 reply
06 01,2021
The amount of women on this site giving lists of “what counts as fetishizing” is insane   reply
06 01,2021
Y'all say being gay/lesbian isn't a choice right? Same thing with being straight. If you read it respectfully then read it, most gay men actually don't care just as long as you're not creepy. Keep on reading :)   reply
06 01,2021
Wonder what batshit things I'll get called this time...   1 reply
06 01,2021
As much as y'all love to say that men don't get a say on women's issues, or that white people don't get a say on poc's issues (both of which are true), y'all, at least on here, do that exact thing to mlm people.

Non-mlm people, *including lgbt+ women*, do *not* and will *never* have a say in what constitutes as fetishizing mlm people, or a say in what does or doesn't affect us and how. You do not get to have a seat at the table for things that pertain to a group of people you aren't even a part of.

And yes, that extends to discourse on and around yaoi/bl.
06 01,2021
exactly, like if you were different from the others you would listen to the people trying to educate you that, people are uncomfy by y@oi and how the mlm community says it portrays them not in the best way. and i think its stupid how some fujos will say "im not homophobic i read y@oi", some homophobic straight men watch lesbian p0rn, they are still......   reply
06 01,2021

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