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People giving negative amount of advice
Idk if it's just me but sometimes I gen feel like on this website whenever someone talks about feeling sad that they can't find a date or they aren't experiencing romance there is always like an array of people giving the most nothing replies.
Always things like "focus on loving yourself first" and "relationships arent that special anyway" and "love will find you when you're not looking for it".
It's the most live laugh love type response ever, do you genuinely think the op hasn't heard all of that before?
And honestly that whole mentality isnt even like real. Like, I was in more relationships and getting hit on more when i was actively suicidal than after i stopped hating myself. Love in fact did not find me when i stopped searching. Genuinely if you have nothing real to say why say anything
Love DID find me when I stopped looking for it, that's my experience, and that's why I tell people to truly find themselves before finding a piece to complete them. To be frank this is also literally an illegal website to read pirated shit on how do you expect minors / young adults to give you a phenomenal paragraph on how to get hit on by somebody...... reply
Im sorry but what else can ppl do? Read yaoi together and run off into a field of sunflowers while holding hands? Bffr .Yall expect too much from strangers LMFAO , ppl are not here to be someone's therapist. 1 reply
Girl you expect too much on a illegal piracy site. Be grateful enough some people even bothered to reply with positive comments. Y'all are getting way too dependent on this site. 1 reply
The top comment answered this question pretty well. On that note, I will only encourage people to talk about their problems on the forum. It's not just an archive, it's also a community, poorly managed as it may be. As it is, most people who make such posts often lament they don't have anywhere else to talk about these things. More often than not, ...... reply
They do that because people don’t want to ignore someone in need, but they might not know what to say. And you know what, some people will appreciate the fact someone just replied to them cause it means they heard them, and some people don’t get that in their daily life. Plus, if someone really wants advice, they’d be better off on another si...... reply
GIRL YES HOLY SHITT IM TWEAKING OUT!!!…
it’s genuinely so freaking annoying when someone asks for advices or vent/rant and people who have NEVER experienced this kind of situation will reply and talk abt their own experience. this is not about u . i wish the people who actually relate to these kind of posts would reply and give their opinions...... 3 reply
Your arrogance (let me be sure you understand this word....( the quality of having an exaggerated sense of one's own importance or abilities) is blinding. You are not the person posting for advice so for you to assume just cause you mistakenly feel you understand their individual depth of their issue, you don't. Even same type traumas can never ...... reply
Some people just want to stay miserable huh. Same goes with venting, just don't vent if you're gonna nitpick people who are going out of their way to help or atleast try to. Alternatively, you can still vent, choose to ignore what you don't want to hear and not bitch about not getting the response you want because that's something you get from prof...... reply
