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As a South East Asian
Can I have black's hair styles?
Is that disrespectful to your culture?
Because I'm fall in love with your culture so much.
I wish I will born as a black in another life.
Can I have black's hair styles?
Is that disrespectful to your culture?
Because I'm fall in love with your culture so much.
I wish I will born as a black in another life.
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So my little sister is attached to my mom okay whatever but it's going better but here's a problems she started to become clingy towards me and even calls me mom it's a problem cause it's not really that new that she calls me mom the problem is she become to clingy it's becoming a problem
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my family knows I'm pansexual and they are fine with it but when my sister came out as bi my parents said she was offending the LGBTQ+ community for wanting to be bisexual like how does that make sense and then they said at least she was half straight so she was somewhat normal. But they allow me to be pansexual I don't understand like pls explain.
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Have you ever get caught watch yaoi or porn, if so, what was their reaction and what did you do.
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Show my little sister is really attached to my mom okay whatever she cries when she sorry but it's getting better but here's your problems she started to become cliquey to me now and she calls me mom it's not a new thing but still what do I do I love her and everything but it's becoming a bit of a problem:(
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YALL I WAS CRUSHING ON THIS REALLY CUTE MANGA CHARACTER, BUT THEN SOMEONE REALLY HAD TO MAKE ME FEEL GUILTY AND QUESTION MYSELF WHEN THEY SAID SHE LOOKS LIKE A KID.
no but fr, does she look like a kid to yall?? Imma poat the picture below, i feel like those creepy lolicon attracted weebs
no but fr, does she look like a kid to yall?? Imma poat the picture below, i feel like those creepy lolicon attracted weebs
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Welcome to magic school make your witches and become the top student https://picrew.me/image_maker/22819
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2014 (b4 I created my account) : chill af, no forum, no nothing, just ppl minding their own business
2015: just like 2014, but ppl started to actually interact with each other, at the beginning it was tame i guess
2016: feels like a fever dream to me. Weird af ppl, the year, ks came out and sexualisation of minors, sexualisation of mlm, sexualisation of anything even a tree. The beaustiality Santa Claus song, the dick cutting manga, the going after each other cause you like this character and i don't, irl shipping.
2017: the omegaverse obsession begins, started out cute but somehow at the end of 2017 it became like rape focused
Shout out to the person that gave away their 1st kiss for candy. You're a legend
And to the one that gave all their love to Natsu just for him to run away from home
2018: rape, toxic Fandoms. And discord joint obsession
2019: way too many fucking Rape manga and like wtf is wrong with yall
2020: during covid, some of yall were hella toxic coming after ppl. Especially the ones who created discords, the things that were shared on the ones I join will forever scar me
2021: picrews, weird and nasty ass stories created for reactions, and justice warriors, and bringing old shits back
2015: just like 2014, but ppl started to actually interact with each other, at the beginning it was tame i guess
2016: feels like a fever dream to me. Weird af ppl, the year, ks came out and sexualisation of minors, sexualisation of mlm, sexualisation of anything even a tree. The beaustiality Santa Claus song, the dick cutting manga, the going after each other cause you like this character and i don't, irl shipping.
2017: the omegaverse obsession begins, started out cute but somehow at the end of 2017 it became like rape focused
Shout out to the person that gave away their 1st kiss for candy. You're a legend
And to the one that gave all their love to Natsu just for him to run away from home
2018: rape, toxic Fandoms. And discord joint obsession
2019: way too many fucking Rape manga and like wtf is wrong with yall
2020: during covid, some of yall were hella toxic coming after ppl. Especially the ones who created discords, the things that were shared on the ones I join will forever scar me
2021: picrews, weird and nasty ass stories created for reactions, and justice warriors, and bringing old shits back
Am I the only one that feels stupid when you screw up the captchas or the things where you have to verify that your human.
Like, sometimes it’s just a mistake, but then on the robot ones you’re like “does that qualify as this or that” and so you don’t know if you should click it or not and then you get it wrong and you feel more pathetic than usual.
Also, why do they spell qualify with a q, like, why not a C or a K or something? Why do Qs even exist? Is there a point to them? Like why substitute a letter for another letter when they sound the same? Like how do you expect me to spell well when half the words can sound one way or the other? I mean, at least we don’t cut off like half the word when pronouncing them but for some reason keep the ending of some of them just because (I’m not talking with you, French, I’m talking about you). Though really there is no point for putting an e at the end of a lot of English words. Like, I could cut off the e of the of “the” to make it “th” and it would still sound the same, considering context. Where did the big debate of caramel come from anyway. Like, are you a believer in car-mal or care-a-mel? When did it become such a strong and big debate? Did two people really decide to argue on how a word is pronounced just because? The same thing with gif, is it jif or gif? See? Why have one letter have the sound of two? It would have been simpler in the rules if you just make G sound like “ga” and J sound like “Ja” or “Je”. Like why make G have both of the sounds when you have J? Why have J if G can do it’s job for it? Why doesn’t it have and accent or something so you know how to pronounce it? Why have two letters if one can handle both the jobs? Why have one letter sound like two letters when there is already another letter that sounds like that? I dunno, it just doesn’t make since.
Like, sometimes it’s just a mistake, but then on the robot ones you’re like “does that qualify as this or that” and so you don’t know if you should click it or not and then you get it wrong and you feel more pathetic than usual.
Also, why do they spell qualify with a q, like, why not a C or a K or something? Why do Qs even exist? Is there a point to them? Like why substitute a letter for another letter when they sound the same? Like how do you expect me to spell well when half the words can sound one way or the other? I mean, at least we don’t cut off like half the word when pronouncing them but for some reason keep the ending of some of them just because (I’m not talking with you, French, I’m talking about you). Though really there is no point for putting an e at the end of a lot of English words. Like, I could cut off the e of the of “the” to make it “th” and it would still sound the same, considering context. Where did the big debate of caramel come from anyway. Like, are you a believer in car-mal or care-a-mel? When did it become such a strong and big debate? Did two people really decide to argue on how a word is pronounced just because? The same thing with gif, is it jif or gif? See? Why have one letter have the sound of two? It would have been simpler in the rules if you just make G sound like “ga” and J sound like “Ja” or “Je”. Like why make G have both of the sounds when you have J? Why have J if G can do it’s job for it? Why doesn’t it have and accent or something so you know how to pronounce it? Why have two letters if one can handle both the jobs? Why have one letter sound like two letters when there is already another letter that sounds like that? I dunno, it just doesn’t make since.
that person is a stranger.
I’ve been sitting on the toilet for a good 30 minutes and I keep on peeing a lot then waiting a couple minutes and having to pee again. Anyways what ur opinion on Disney adults and stuff, hello Curtis town if you are there. I also found a really effective way to piss of horny men in Omegle, say your female and then half way through the conversation say “can I confess something?” and then either say ur a lesbian or say ur a guy with a massive shlong. It’s really fun, you should try it.
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about talk to yourself
If someone misgendering you causes you to have a mental breakdown you need to go to therapy. Someone misgendering you doesn't mean that they need to start referring to everyone they meet as "they/ them"
Some people don't want to be called "they/them" and are comfortable enough in their own identity to be able to accept being called anything. If they are misgendered they will correct the person and that's all.
Dealing with your own trauma is hard but you still need to take care of that yourself. The people of this world are not here to make sure you never get hurt in your life, they are here to live. They want to live freely. They don't want to live attempting to account for the feelings of those that struggle to deal with their own emotions. Words offend people no matter how much you try and make it so that they do not. There is no "one-size-fits-all" solution to any problem. Someone will always be offended and to truly be "inclusive" is to understand that fact. I personally wouldn't like it if someone started calling me "they/them" and someone else would be delighted to be called "they/them". That solution has become a problem to me but it still makes someone else feel better. This is what I mean by there is someone who will always get offended by what you decide to do. Your solution may not have had the intentions of harming someone but regardless it still did and that is just how the world works.
It is inherently not inclusive to disregard the feelings of others in order to make yourself feel better. Let people say what they want. We as humans just need to do our best to not get so pressed over these things. There are way too many people in the world for everyone to be accounting for your feelings. What may make you feel better may make someone else feel like shit.
People need to realize that the root of their issues with others comes from within so the solutions to those problems also will naturally come from within. You can't expect random people that don't care about you to fix those problems for you. It is why when people experience trauma they go to therapy. If some guy molested you and you've developed a fear of men, you can't just kill all men. You have to deal with that trauma through therapy and other means. Solutions don't come from other people, they come from YOU.
By the way, I only used the misgendering scenario as an example because someone brought it up but really this applies to anything dealing with emotions.
Some people don't want to be called "they/them" and are comfortable enough in their own identity to be able to accept being called anything. If they are misgendered they will correct the person and that's all.
Dealing with your own trauma is hard but you still need to take care of that yourself. The people of this world are not here to make sure you never get hurt in your life, they are here to live. They want to live freely. They don't want to live attempting to account for the feelings of those that struggle to deal with their own emotions. Words offend people no matter how much you try and make it so that they do not. There is no "one-size-fits-all" solution to any problem. Someone will always be offended and to truly be "inclusive" is to understand that fact. I personally wouldn't like it if someone started calling me "they/them" and someone else would be delighted to be called "they/them". That solution has become a problem to me but it still makes someone else feel better. This is what I mean by there is someone who will always get offended by what you decide to do. Your solution may not have had the intentions of harming someone but regardless it still did and that is just how the world works.
It is inherently not inclusive to disregard the feelings of others in order to make yourself feel better. Let people say what they want. We as humans just need to do our best to not get so pressed over these things. There are way too many people in the world for everyone to be accounting for your feelings. What may make you feel better may make someone else feel like shit.
People need to realize that the root of their issues with others comes from within so the solutions to those problems also will naturally come from within. You can't expect random people that don't care about you to fix those problems for you. It is why when people experience trauma they go to therapy. If some guy molested you and you've developed a fear of men, you can't just kill all men. You have to deal with that trauma through therapy and other means. Solutions don't come from other people, they come from YOU.
By the way, I only used the misgendering scenario as an example because someone brought it up but really this applies to anything dealing with emotions.
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Okay uhm. So I'm a straight guy I think BUT I got into bl webtoons and things of that sort after reading some of the straight things on this site for a while. And I mean I like the bl WAY more then I ever liked the straight webtoons and now I have trouble reading the straight webtoons because every guy seems so shitty. And when I shared bl with some of my friends just recommending it to them because of the good plotlines, everyone kinda thought I was gay and questioned me for a while. And well now I'm kind of questioning it as well. I haven't felt anything for a girl and I'm not into anything straight anymore I find guys a lot more arousing then I do girls now and i just wanna know from some people if I'm still straight and it's just kind of like a phase of some sorts or if I'm actually gay, being gay kind of makes me scared not because I'm homophobic or anything but because I hang around a friend group that seems like they could be homophobic. I dont really know I just need to know if I'm gay or not.
