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10 02,2025
Looking for recs similar to dice : the cube that changes everything(WEBTOON), or caste heaven (no superpowers but there's a hierarchy), could also be similar to lookism but shouldn't take too long to complete
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10 02,2025
i bought a new phone *dies* pleeease my dumaess resetted my old one cuz i'll give it to my little bro n ion want him to see what not to see ╥﹏╥
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Valentines is coming in 4 days and it's my first valentines in uni, I already know there's gonna be red hearts flying everywhere but I still have classes to attend
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10 02,2025
manhwa/ga/hua with—
obsessive fe/male lead with no other weird stuff just purely obsessive and love for the fe/male lead
threesome or more like him&him&him
some slow burn or medium burn with or without hotstuff too!
thank you thank you ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
obsessive fe/male lead with no other weird stuff just purely obsessive and love for the fe/male lead
threesome or more like him&him&him
some slow burn or medium burn with or without hotstuff too!
thank you thank you ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
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10 02,2025
I'm an aromantic person, Like I hate dating so much it disgusts me, but for some reason I always think about dating/ doing it with a man or a woman, like I wanna bang both but I'd be scared shitless and probably be turned off if that ever happens in real life, Is this normal? I hate dating but I'd romanticize or dream about dating
+I never had a crush on anyone but I am kinda attracted to those who are my type, a few minutes go by and I'd forget about it like that feeling didn't exist
+I never had a crush on anyone but I am kinda attracted to those who are my type, a few minutes go by and I'd forget about it like that feeling didn't exist
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10 02,2025
(Sorry for yapping) I love how drawing and colors are able to make me feel different things and give off different vibes, a lot of times in BLS i'm unable to enjoy sex scenes because of of "cold" they seem they give off the vibes of a hospital. Other times a story gives me nostalgic and bittersweet vibes just by how lighting is used like https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/rumspringa_no_joukei/ and https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dear_gene/ it's awesome. I love stories that make me feel a sense of nostalgia
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10 02,2025
Y’all ever stalk yourself sometimes and wonder, why the fuck I say this or read this?
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10 02,2025
When I was fifteen, I discovered this site, now I'm twenty, anyway, I had this "Fujoshi" era back then, so cringry. Being so obsessed with Yaoi back then that I read every night and stuff. Now, I joined to FB BL group and saw this post that blew up before, "If my boyfriend cheated on me, I'll be okay if it's a guy" the post says, I looked at it with confusion/disgust when I saw the comments on how a lot of women would want their BF cheated on them with another guy, there's even other comments says, "If I can watch them do it, I'll enjoy it after I break up with him/Forgive him" that was kinda fucked up (THEY WERE GROWN ASS WOMEN. I WAS TEENAGER BACK THEN) I was very dumbfounded by this and disgusted, Did BL really ate your brain that you want your man to fuck another man to feed in your disgusting fantasies? There's also moments where people who reads too much BL, fetishize it so much that they'll straight up ask a gay couple about inappropriate questions and stuff? Tf? And the worst stuff is, When a Fujoshi becomes a mom, there's post that if they become a mom, they want their son to become a gay and wonder, ARE THEY GONNA BE A TOP OR BOTTOM!? Fetishizing your kids isn't good also! So yeah. Be a normal BL reader. Don't bring BL too much in real life by the way, I had that phase back then,
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10 02,2025
it’s a blonde beta and black hair alpha relationship in college and the beta turns into an omega, gets pregnant, hides the pregnancy until alpha sees the kid or something and they start living together because the kid is sick. Last chapter i remember the alphas dad was convincing the omega to break up with the alpha or something like that.
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10 02,2025
Feel free to correct me and share your own experiences!
I know that a lot of people who use this site are avid BL readers (no hate cuz I’m one too) and most of us are women. All this BL we read is written by women for women… but why?
Some people say that it’s because women who read BL are fetishizers but I don’t really think that at all— I just think readers are women who are actually kind of uncomfortable or even less inclined reading a story with a female MC because of multiple reasons:
1) a good majority of female MCs in romance are plain, boring, lack something (at least in the past, we see way more diverse and interesting female MCs and characters now)
2) I feel like misogyny is a big part no matter how I play it, women are taught to hate themselves from a very young age and act a certain way so it’s easier to read a story with a MC you don’t connect as much to
3) women see men as subjects while we see female characters (other women) as objects
4) majority of canon straight couples in most works actually don’t have a lot of chemistry since ppl don’t really contribute to writing a well written straight romance anymore
I just find it kind of crazy because I know a good majority isn’t really fetishizing mlm, just trying to be comfortable in their own skin so I never hate on any fujoshi or BL reader who even says they read fucked up shit cuz I know that a woman or a girl is in there who is probably uncomfortable in her own skin
I also find it crazy that we find a way to hate on women. I see other BL readers saying that they hate OTHER bl readers who call themselves “fujoshis” (and the reasoning behind it is smth stupid like ohhh but they ONLY read BL while I read everythinggg) like girl I know that’s you too don’t play.
I remember being swayed by hatred and generalizations too, that I never wanted to be called a fujoshi until I learned what the word meant and the history behind it
Even the history behind the word came from men hating on women reading BL and shaming them for it— calling women who read BL, “fujoshis” or rotten girls, it was a literal slur that these BL readers reclaim only for us to use it against each other again. That’s really sad.
I hope we can come to a point where we just stop hating on women for trying to exist.
Anyways feel free to share your own opinion on this :) I’m just sharing my observations cuz this is one of those topics that keep me awake at night
I know that a lot of people who use this site are avid BL readers (no hate cuz I’m one too) and most of us are women. All this BL we read is written by women for women… but why?
Some people say that it’s because women who read BL are fetishizers but I don’t really think that at all— I just think readers are women who are actually kind of uncomfortable or even less inclined reading a story with a female MC because of multiple reasons:
1) a good majority of female MCs in romance are plain, boring, lack something (at least in the past, we see way more diverse and interesting female MCs and characters now)
2) I feel like misogyny is a big part no matter how I play it, women are taught to hate themselves from a very young age and act a certain way so it’s easier to read a story with a MC you don’t connect as much to
3) women see men as subjects while we see female characters (other women) as objects
4) majority of canon straight couples in most works actually don’t have a lot of chemistry since ppl don’t really contribute to writing a well written straight romance anymore
I just find it kind of crazy because I know a good majority isn’t really fetishizing mlm, just trying to be comfortable in their own skin so I never hate on any fujoshi or BL reader who even says they read fucked up shit cuz I know that a woman or a girl is in there who is probably uncomfortable in her own skin
I also find it crazy that we find a way to hate on women. I see other BL readers saying that they hate OTHER bl readers who call themselves “fujoshis” (and the reasoning behind it is smth stupid like ohhh but they ONLY read BL while I read everythinggg) like girl I know that’s you too don’t play.
I remember being swayed by hatred and generalizations too, that I never wanted to be called a fujoshi until I learned what the word meant and the history behind it
Even the history behind the word came from men hating on women reading BL and shaming them for it— calling women who read BL, “fujoshis” or rotten girls, it was a literal slur that these BL readers reclaim only for us to use it against each other again. That’s really sad.
I hope we can come to a point where we just stop hating on women for trying to exist.
Anyways feel free to share your own opinion on this :) I’m just sharing my observations cuz this is one of those topics that keep me awake at night
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09 02,2025
has anyone watched that video where two mfs cooked recipes with their semen
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09 02,2025
I just realized today that I joined this site in 2018. Damn it has been 7 years. I have been on this site almost everyday for the last 7 years!!! That is really crazy. God bless to the creators of this site. You literally were there for a big chunk of my life. Cheers to 7 more years
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09 02,2025
Dude, I fucking hate "loser" posers. And I know this sounds so pathetic, like it’s some kind of competition, but hear me out.
I’m the type of person who’s into anime, weeb shit, always got my headphones on, wearing black—your stereotypical “loser” type. And I have some friends at uni who like the same stuff as me, right? And this is never outright said or anything, but they also consider themselves losers.
But that’s the problem. They’re not losers.
They’re always going out, have a ton of friends, constantly on their phones, part of clubs like dance and shit. And like, I wouldn’t wanna change them or anything—we’re friends for a reason, you know?
I just wish I had some actual “loser” friends. I like being alone, I really do, but I wish I had someone who could just be a loser with me. Someone to chill, read manga/manhwa, watch anime, and enjoy dumb shit with. But I guess that’s the thing about real losers—you can’t just find them. They’re so secluded, so in their own world, that they’re basically impossible to befriend unless you somehow stumble into each other’s orbit.
Once in high school, I had a friend like that. Honestly, I think she was my soulmate. We just matched—same weird energy, same loser tendencies. She was so cool in the uncoolest way. But she didn’t end up going to university, and we just kinda drifted. I guess that’s life, but damn, I miss her.
Maybe this is all just a huge projection because I miss my soulmate.
I’m the type of person who’s into anime, weeb shit, always got my headphones on, wearing black—your stereotypical “loser” type. And I have some friends at uni who like the same stuff as me, right? And this is never outright said or anything, but they also consider themselves losers.
But that’s the problem. They’re not losers.
They’re always going out, have a ton of friends, constantly on their phones, part of clubs like dance and shit. And like, I wouldn’t wanna change them or anything—we’re friends for a reason, you know?
I just wish I had some actual “loser” friends. I like being alone, I really do, but I wish I had someone who could just be a loser with me. Someone to chill, read manga/manhwa, watch anime, and enjoy dumb shit with. But I guess that’s the thing about real losers—you can’t just find them. They’re so secluded, so in their own world, that they’re basically impossible to befriend unless you somehow stumble into each other’s orbit.
Once in high school, I had a friend like that. Honestly, I think she was my soulmate. We just matched—same weird energy, same loser tendencies. She was so cool in the uncoolest way. But she didn’t end up going to university, and we just kinda drifted. I guess that’s life, but damn, I miss her.
Maybe this is all just a huge projection because I miss my soulmate.
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I feel like if i see any pro shipper shipping one of my child characters with one of my adult characters id have such a big mental breakdown i wouldn't be allowed outside anymore...
about become gay
09 02,2025
Like chat I’m not even lying. I was going on amigo because I’m bored not really expecting anything and then this weird guy showed up on the screen and I was going to skip, but he seemed normal enough so I didn’t and a few minutes into a conversation, he said OK let me go pass you over to my cousin.AND IT WAS MY COUSINS EX BF and the thing is I really only talk to him very briefly like two times but somehow he knew everything about me and my family and he told me that my cousin always talked about us to him in a good way of course and then he told me that they were back together, but I was confused cause my cousin told me nothing of this so then I called her later on that day and I was like girl what’s going on are you guys back together and guess What HE WAS LYING AND IS GOING AROUND SAYING THERE STILL TOGETHER LIKE BITCH HUH?!!
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09 02,2025
My gender is Female, I like both
women and beautiful gay men.
I've wished I was male so
I could date women without gender
complications, but I also want to
date beautiful gay men. I'm a crazy?
Is anyone here experience
this feelings as me?
(I can still post this bcoz its still
about being a gay)
women and beautiful gay men.
I've wished I was male so
I could date women without gender
complications, but I also want to
date beautiful gay men. I'm a crazy?
Is anyone here experience
this feelings as me?
(I can still post this bcoz its still
about being a gay)
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09 02,2025
The few black people I’ve seen irl had too flawless of a skin is it a race thing or it depends on geography?
