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23 05,2026
I dont like it when a romantic story is only built because mc and ml are both really reaaaalllyy attractive and the relationship makes sense just because of that…,, come on these are stories meant to be interesting because of the characterization, backgrounds, setting and how they are really meant for each other and not how “oh my god she’s the prettiest girl I’ve ever met and that’s literally it no sauce no toppings”
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23 05,2026
Do u guys have any controversial opinion(s)? If so, please share it.
My controversial opinion is that u can't ever have kids(by birthing or adopting) if ur not stable financially. No, I don't mean that u have to be rich, but u have enough to feed them 3 times a day, have shelter, provide any medical needs(like checkups with the dentist, u don't know how bad teeth can literally fk u up so bad), fun activities(such as school trips. I've seen wayyy to many of my peers feeling so embarrassed not being able to go somewhere because they can't afford to spend 5 dollars), and necessities such as clothes, shoes, and any school supplies.
AND anyone who wants to be a parent should be investigated. Do they have any mental illness?? Health issues? Debts?? (And more.)
Apparently, this is a very controversial opinion to have.. but I don't think so. This is such a normal opinion, imo. And I don't mean that u HAVE to be rich, nobody is saying that. But u have to have the means of doing the bare minimum, cuz being poor can affect kids tremendously. That's alll
My controversial opinion is that u can't ever have kids(by birthing or adopting) if ur not stable financially. No, I don't mean that u have to be rich, but u have enough to feed them 3 times a day, have shelter, provide any medical needs(like checkups with the dentist, u don't know how bad teeth can literally fk u up so bad), fun activities(such as school trips. I've seen wayyy to many of my peers feeling so embarrassed not being able to go somewhere because they can't afford to spend 5 dollars), and necessities such as clothes, shoes, and any school supplies.
AND anyone who wants to be a parent should be investigated. Do they have any mental illness?? Health issues? Debts?? (And more.)
Apparently, this is a very controversial opinion to have.. but I don't think so. This is such a normal opinion, imo. And I don't mean that u HAVE to be rich, nobody is saying that. But u have to have the means of doing the bare minimum, cuz being poor can affect kids tremendously. That's alll
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23 05,2026
Just got rage baited on TikTok, I’m so annoyed be careful out there the yaoi/yuri larpers r multiplying claiming ybc is peak
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22 05,2026
whats everyone’s favourite dessert? mine is red velvet cake bc i stan red velvet
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22 05,2026
would you rather eat five hundred hot dogs or dig to the core of the earth and harness the warmth to melt all plastic and garbage on earth before eliminating all your political allies
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22 05,2026
manhwa/manga/manhua or any form of media pls i need yuri recs so bad (❀≧◡≦)ノ✧ rec me your favs *2 girls kissing emoji bc this site doesn't show it properly*
nsfw welcome btw
nsfw welcome btw
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like, you'll always know whether your child is a boy or a girl apparently you can just not look but like if you do want to look you do you get me
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Me, Che Guevara, Fidel Castro and Thomas Sankara in a room with oil and candles...that's would be heaven
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22 05,2026
what's ur spirit animal /animal u most identify with. and dont say deer or fawn because thats everyone and their grandmas spirit animal apparently
about yall ever just feel sad
22 05,2026
so like i really need a job bc im poor and broke but im under age and i gotta wait 2 years till i can get a jobbbb, i might aswell sell some feet pics T-T (ill do close up too if thats ur thing) I NEED MONEY PLZ TTT-TTT
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22 05,2026
Idk guys but after I've graduated and tried picking up some new recs and unfinished read, I grew tired of reading this type of genre. I find it so odd since I never had a day where I didn't read romance, may it be a hell day at the univ, a personal or family problem arrives, or any event, I never failed to read one. I still read some but rarely for now. What I meant by rarely was because back then I read it every day, but now, I can only get pass 2 chapters then drop it.
There's only three reasons that I know for now as to why I became uninterested. First was the plots are all the same and too problematic for me to consume, especially the new recs that I see since most of them contains unnecessary plots and scenes. Second, there's no more romance plot than can beat the last stories I've read so far that's why I don't see the reason to read anymore. And lastly was because life is getting serious and I find reading not so important unlike when I'm still learning.
There's only three reasons that I know for now as to why I became uninterested. First was the plots are all the same and too problematic for me to consume, especially the new recs that I see since most of them contains unnecessary plots and scenes. Second, there's no more romance plot than can beat the last stories I've read so far that's why I don't see the reason to read anymore. And lastly was because life is getting serious and I find reading not so important unlike when I'm still learning.
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22 05,2026
it happened with "protect your purity" and it's happening with "love order" again. i dont think i can do it, im getting ptsd, my retroactive jealousy OCD is getting triggered so hard, i don't blame anyone either, it's a me problem. idk why im like this. i have 0 idea. virgin X experienced dynamic makes me nauseous, it's giving me so much anxiety, and overall such bad feeling. one part of it is power imbalance, as i dont like power imbalances, but there's another part, idk. i cant pinpoint what exactly it is, but I js can't digest a trope like this. i cant shake it off. even seeing the cover of the story (in updates) gives me anxiety and a flood of bad nauseous feeling. it feels like i have to emotionally cut myself off and distance myself. this problem makes it harder to engage with any story. i mean what's the point of reading a story if im not even reading it with my heart in it? and ofcourse i stop reading these stories (if i can, i avoid these stories at the first place like a plague) but the fact that i even started those in first place is enough to make me attached to the story and now everytime i will see the cover i get reminded of story and it triggers my anxiety so bad. it's driving me insane. i think i need to stop reading for a while. this is not normal, i know, but i js cant seem to escape this cage. it's giving me so much palpitations and nausea. like im being cheated on or something.
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22 05,2026
I feel like every newer bl is the same shit over and over like it's always been kind of a cookie cutter genre but its genuinely getting worse and worse
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