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Just met this dude like 2 days ago and he is being hyper attentive, nice, voice messaging and wanting to call n all. And sending me reels on instgram where im suppose to rate him to specific qs/first impression and stuff.
Chat wat do i do lowkey do
Mind u i only wn be friends n this seems veryyyyyyy sus lol

im not a redditor. ok well i am but only for about 4 years and i just ask about clothes, club acitivities, college, that kind of stuff you know? but occasionally, i go on there to rant/vent.

ive known for a while that reddit has a huge problem, so i dont know why this is getting to me so bad, but i HATE when people perceive me as something that is just not true!! so, i will share a post i contributed to r/vent, and follow with my problem.

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why is it... that when someone is interested in me and i become interested in them, and our doomed relationship inevitably fails (because im like material but never love material but i digress) THEY ALWAYS GO... "i like pale guys" OR, trying to discretely reject me just say some bullshit about some character trope they like but add "white" before it...?

WHY ARE YOU EVEN SPEAKING TO ME... ofc i have distanced myself from everyone who has said this to me already BUT WHY.... when a black person rejects a white person i assume theyd say outright if they have a preference for their own race before they have some kind of will they wont they, "ill flirt with you most days despite there being something so OFF about you i cant even see you past our 6th monthiversary" shenanigan situationship. or is it just a test run to see if you can handle someone of my complexion long term or if just the sight of something black alone will always make you SICK TO YOUR STOMACH!!!!

sure, there are plenty of things wrong with me, all of which i am aware of and do my best not to burden the people i care about, unless i am venting like i am now, and only with explicit permission. but i do not put that standard on everyone. for those i care about i am EXTREMELY tolerant. and sometimes people are like baby birds, delicate and need to be treated softly, and so i do not mind doing just that. but never.... NEVER.... in my life have i encountered someone who is just so sad, so miserable, so sensitive, and so STUCK in their ways yet STILL have the audacity to take my kindness, my generosity, my TAME TEMPER FOR GRANTED!!! you treat me like im hideous, and sometimes even like im dumb? i have a diploma and degree at the age of 18, leaving to the top university in the state on a full ride, and what do you have? oh youre working on your ged? good good.... youre applying to more jobs so you can leave the one where everyone is an bitch and you take it up the ass cuz youre a pushover? oh my goodness im so proud of you...

maybe my struggle of a life was a gift, once compared to the coddled, rapunzel treatment a homeschooler gets. i know how to be alone. i know how to go into a store and by stuff on my own. i dont get overly stressed and upset all the time like a fucking fish!!! and maybe if instead of telling me how you dont listen to me, how i make you mad, how much i annoy you, or maybe if you couldve come to see me just once when i needed you most... or at the bare minimum, treated me like the friend you say i am..... then i wouldve supported you, just like i did before.
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following posting this, one of the first few comments I received was calling me racist. now, BELIEVE ME.... I am not denying the fact of whether i am or am not racist. but BEING racist and having racist views, are 2 different things. i need to know what they thought of me because it is driving me crazy!!!! i will add screenshots below of the rest of the comment thread. but please im so stressed im shaking over this

Favorite memes?

You read that right.

It's hilarious.

Especially if they're in the middle of fucking.

No “It's too big!”

No “It won't it!”

But as Yang Euijoo once said, “Damn it, just cut it off...”--that is the true way.

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So how do y'all maintain long distance friendship with huge time differences I mean I know people will say online friendship doesn't work or whatever but it can be different right and I wanna make our friendship work I don't want to leave them bec of silly reasons so I'll do whatever I can but can someone gimme some ideas on how I should do ╥﹏╥

Y'all, I was off this website (off and on but mostly off in the past 3 years) due to life getting a little too lifing and when I came back... to my pleasant surprise some of my old mangas were ongoing still. To my shock my comments with the chapter I was left at were wiped out

Do you want to have kids? I was thinking of adopting a child when I’m financially stable. But that’s just a dream I have. I don’t think I will ever have a kid because I probably wouldn’t be an ideal parent

I uploaded two bl mangas on Kagane and then deleted my account to remove the uploads. Now my uploads have been reposted on Comix tf.
HOW DO I REMOVE THEM FROM COMIX NOW.

Dawg can y'all stop checking that shit out so it'll disappear from the opening page

Aesthetic are overall meaningless and just something people use as a way to give themselves a clear identity but idc i like frutiger aero

I just want more song recommendations with the artist just screaming into the mic a bit if not for the entire track, thank you. Examples:

Pluto - Bjork
Drunk walk home (live) - Mitski
You Might Think He Loves You for Your Money but I Know What He Really Loves You for It’s Your Brand New Leopard Skin Pillbox Hat - Death grips
Uckers - Shygirl

Because it's not just sickness, it's always unexpected and can be like final destination or a gruesome murder or even in sleep. It is something beyond people's control cause I've seen a news of a guy who went jogging like he usually did and a driver who's sleepy, suddenly ran over him and it wasn't even that killed him, it was the fact that he went flying to a grilled chicken cooking station and got impaled. (Idk how to explain this in English, but it's the shawarma type of rod)

The incest freaks being open about being incest freaks and people being mean to that one user that was obviously being jokingly over dramatic....did everybody woke up on the wrong side of the bed??? Like what's going on

Guys can we drop some murim/martial arts lists or recs here, I wish there was a different tag for it on here because they get lost with all the royalty manhwa under the historical tag and I find the plots more entertaining than the same royal/nobility plots (no offense ofc I love all slop) I just wish it was easier to find these martial arts manhwa, I’ll read just about anything like romance, father-daughter, no romance, op mc, revenge plot, system plot, literally anything but they are SO scarce i can barely find any it’s like a 1-10 ratio of martial art compared to other historical

I knew what the 2 girls 1 cup was but I never watched it and today my curious self searched it up and it was pretty traumatizing but not that bad, just poop and vomit, fine, i can just imagine it's fake. But some user on reddit said 1 guy 1 cup is worse and again, my curious self searched it up and I actually feel like barfing WHY THE BLOOD why did his ass have weird things on them ugh the bloody glass shards is too much I fucking HATE ALL OF YOU I HATE HUMANS WHAT THE FUCK AND WHY THE FUCK DID HE HAVE WEIRD GREY THINGS ON HIS ASS AND DON'T ANSWER ME I MIGHT THROW UP FUCK!!! I HATE YOU ALL

Hello everybody through my 4 almost 5 years with yaoi I noticed 4 things I hate when it comes to yaoi that makes me gag or throw up and people might not agree with it but this is just from my opinion from the amount of yaoi I consumed.
1: the needle, (idk the real name of it it’s just what I call it) that goes inside of the tip for BDSM
2: blood, the only blood that triggers me is when the uses asshole starts to bleed from objects poking inside of their ass or from rough sex and blood from the seems cum like it makes me wanna throw up
3: piss, when the seme refuses the uke to pee they pee during sex or just when the seme dick is good but it fucks up the ukes bladder leading them to pee while having sex
4: when the ukes throw up in general when they sees something disturbing or when they drink to much alcohol where its actual throw up and not rainbow and glitter

Ya so these make me gag or throw up in the middle of the night so yeah pretty bad but what are y’all’s cons????

I don't think about this enough, but every so often it hits me, I'm just walking around, breathing, thinking, and none of it takes any effort. My heart's been beating all day and I haven't given it a single thought. We just get to exist like that's a normal thing to be handed.

And then there's the other part, all of us are separate people, each one built out of a completely different set of experiences, and somehow we still sit down and talk to each other about what we believe. Argue about it. Debate it out loud, in public, like it's nothing.

I could listen to people go back and forth on psychology or philosophy for hours. Not because I'm looking for a winner, I don't think there usually is one. Most of the time nobody's actually right or wrong, they're just standing in different places looking at the same thing. I don't find that discouraging. If anything it says something decent about people, that there's no one correct way to live, and we still manage to understand each other most of the time anyway.

I just think it's worth noticing sometimes how strange it is that we get to be here at all, thinking, walking, talking to each other, and most days I don't even register that.

Anyway, what do you think? Am I overthinking this or does anyone else feel this way too?

Does anyone here also watch bl drama? Or do y'all just read yaoi? If yes then what's your favourite bl drama? And please don't recommend thai bl cause most of the times they're cringe and the language sounds weird too. Any other bl dramas or series are fine. I am curious. Recently i watched the prosecutor's proposal and double helix and Sammy's children day and they were good.

Thanks