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I need some advice. Am I wrong for this one? So at the beginning of the year, I met these 2 girls and involved them in my friend group, which only had 3 people including me. (One being one of my friends since 2nd grade, and the other one being my twin sister.) My friend from 2nd grade, let's call her Sobbing. So this kinda all started when Sobbing went on a trip back to her home country for a month. These 2 new girls, Banana and Joy, suddenly got super close to Sobbing. At first, I didn't mind. But then we started getting into arguments. Our first one was because we left to go to the library, and they said they were coming but never came. Then after that, I had class with the 3 of them, and I had the WORST stomach ache, so I wasn't doing my best. The teacher called me out for it, so I told her I had food poisoning. When I went to work with them, I wasn't doing much because I felt like I wanted to vomit. They stopped talking to each other just to tell me to go home if I wasn't feeling well. As I left the room, I broke down in tears because a month ago they all would've dropped me off, and I felt like they only wanted me out. After that, for some reason, we started ignoring each other, which I didn't want, so obviously I was heartbroken. We had class together, and they completely ignored me. They finally talked to us when I asked them what the problem was and accidentally broke down in tears. I remember them telling me that they thought we wanted some space (we being me and my twin sister). While one of them comforted me, I glanced over and saw Sobbing not giving a care in the world. Things were casual for a while after that.
But recently, I walked away from them when they mentioned this TikTok. (It was the trend "These kids at my school. Awful. Have you seen The Outsiders? Call me Ponyboy.") I did this but with ORV and KDJ. So surprisingly, it landed on Joy's fyp, and they teased me for it. I got kinda pissed, so I walked away. (My bad lolol.) They then ignored me again. But then I decided to make up with them by writing a contract like Won Dae's so it'd lighten the mood. But when I got the contract back, they wrote that I had walked away from them 3 times mb homie and that we ignored them first. (We didn't. They sat next to us while we were playing Papa's Burgeria, and when we had to go to class, they just walked away together.) So on Wednesday, during the last lesson of the day, I tried to make up with them by apologising. But I guess God had different ideas that day because Sobbing and Banana asked if the teasing was the problem since I had walked away from them multiple times. So I made a joke trying to lighten the mood by saying, "Oh haha, sorry. That was the apex predator in me walking away from their prey." But they responded with, "That doesn't make any sense." I know damn well that if we weren't arguing, if it didn't make sense, they would've laughed at me because of how stupid it sounded. I got so pissed that I skipped class and did one of my revision maths papers instead. And now they completely ignore me. I'm really pissed because Sobbing over here isn't the best lad out there. She switches up on her day ones, as we can obviously see. Oh, now that I remember, I was asking them if they wanted to go to the mall. One of them said they didn't have money because they were saving up for a con. Totally cool. So I suggested Costco instead because they have really cheap meals there. (I was rejected.) So I even offered to go to the park together, but apparently enjoying nature is too boring now. Then Sobbing said she had no money, which was funny enough since her mum always gives her $50 when she goes out. (Sobbing is also on the greedy side. Once we all went to the library to "study" But there was a mall nearby that we wanted to go to. So my twin had spent her share on makeup, and I spent mine on the ORV novels 2 and 4 and Liptons.
Banana and Joy saw we had no money, so they offered to buy us a meal, which they did. :> So we felt bad and ordered ice cream for all of us except Banana since she's lactose intolerant. Funnily enough, Sobbing didn't pay for shit and just greedily tried to get the biggest serve while insisting she'd pay for the next meal.) P.S. Sobbing is racist! I remember going over to her house when she casually said a racist slur, and when I confronted her about it, she just said, "My house, my rules." Now I don't know what to do next. Can somebody please help?

“lesbian” fujoshi r just bisexuals plain n simple. sayin otherwise is messed up coz lesbians dont like men at all even if its just fictional guys thats still attraction to men duh.

n same goes fr “gay” himedanshi too. they r actually bisexuals. “straight” himejoshi? also bisexual. “straight” fudanshi? also bisexual fr. stop lyin bout urselfs.


likin fictional still means u got attraction to it no matter how much u try deny it

why alpha women always need a dick or strap just to knock someone up??? this is omegaverse, u can just use the logic scissors n biology logic works same way like how omegaverse bl does duh. i want more yuri omegaverse where alpha gals get other gals preggers just like that no extra stuff needed. anyone want to sign petition??????????

n to whoever mad rn. not everyone likes dick or straps ok?? bl gets to have their whole thing their way but yuri always gotta add that?? it’s actually so sad bein lesbian

Anyone who disagrees with meeeee literally just hates lesbians n wants us to end up with men ..

fujoshit opinions dont count we dont care bout that ur male centered bs.（￣へ￣）

stop shipping straight chars together in straight gacha. Yuri games r failin coz yall prefer headcanon two gals who barely talk n hav bare minimum interaction than actualy play stuff made 4 yuri

implied subtext coded the holy trio of yuribait smh. meanwhile im watchin thai gl n suddenly seeing yuri fans gettin all hate and being called yuritards. its wild yall hype yuribait in games. we need suport underrated yuri so games n manga dont get axed, not waste time on chars who literally got ex husbands lmao.

n why i get hate in 2025 4 sayin 1x½ better than green yuri?? same green yuri that masc bait us if u so obsssed wit femxfem dont ever label fl masc again fr.

anyways suport actual yuri. n lets slander rangrarii too while we at it. go off queen love how u givin homophobes more reason to hate yuri fans n u aint comin back ever. go make straight slop mreee insted u want their money so bad dont care bout us. n yeah we love rangrarii!!!! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

What should I do? I've already taken a dog off from school because of my friends. If you haven'tread my post from before, it was how my (ex??)friends started to distance themselves from me, ignoring me, talking shit abt me and leaving me out. Earlier this week I found out they had another gc without me and started talking shit about me there. I'm more angry than upset cause they keep on saying flowery stuff about me to my face but behind my back they call me stuff like "whore" or "slut" when they always say they'd rather confront the person. I restoried one insta post about confrontation in my close friends and somebody sent me a screenshot of one of them saying "idk why she wants us to confront her when we did nothing wrong" LIKE WHATT THE FUCK DO YOU MEAN U DID NOTHING WRONG. Esp this one girl "Nicole". I trusted her sm, I told her most of how I felt and my secrets only to find out she was sending OUR CONVERSATION SCREENSHOTS TO THE PEOPLE I WAS TALKING ABT WHEN SHE HERSELF WAS ALSO TALKING SHIT ABT THEM. I'm glad I'm out of that toxic ass friend group where everybody js talks shit about each other's back. Eu, ik you're reading this, but next time try not to be too male centered and actually focus on your studies. Jeo, you fuck ass gay man, if u have a problem w me say it to my face. Lia, suck my hairy dick and call me john. Cole, I hope karma gets u. You all need to grow tf up cuz everything I said was all true. Eu, you ARE normalizing whatever those weird trope games you're playing, even if you "hate" what they're doing CAUSE YOURE STILL PLAYING THE GAME. Suck my 3 dicks and choke on my pubes.










Edit: this just turned into a whole rant, I'm sorry; but please do give me advice on what I should do, cause I'm afraid I can't think rationally as of now. Open to all advice!(◕ᴗ◕✿)

Can we all finally agree on this? Stop hating and dogpiling on “problematic BL” like the ones with heavy themes like abuse, non‑con, toxic dynamics and all that and especially stop dragging it into Jaxx drama like they’re the exact same thing. Non con and racism is not the same. Like stop with the “why are you against Jaxx but okay with noncon BL?” because once again it’s not the same thing at all!

Dark themes are just dark themes. Graphic violence, gore, murder, abuse, even depictions of sexual assault whether you encounter them in BL, in games like GTA, in massive hit shows like Game of Thrones, anywhere at all reading, watching or enjoying these things once again does not mean you support or condone them in real life. They do not actively target real people, and they do not cause tangible, direct harm to anyone living and breathing. Fictionis fiction. Separate it from reality. At the end of the day, it is literally just entertainment.

If we are seriously going to run with you all logic that “if you write rpe / read rpe stuff / enjoy it that means you’re a bad person” then let’s be 100% consistent about it, shall we? Should we cancel, ban and erase every single story ever written that features an evil serial killer? Should we never again be allowed to have main characters who are absolutely terrible human beings, who do unspeakable things, who get away with every single crime and come out on top every time without ever facing a single consequence? Of course we wouldn’t because we all understand perfectly fine in those cases, it’s just a story. It’s just entertainment.

Like there is absolutely absurd double standard here what exactly makes murder so much more “acceptable” to depict and enjoy than noncon is? Take Alice in Borderland for example like Banda is canonically a serial killer even in real world not just in borderland. He is objectively, far more evil than Niragi And yet people will come for Niragi fans throat ten times harder and act like his fandon is the worst thing to ever exist because on top of being a murderer, he is also written as a rpst but Banda is not a rpist, just a murderer. I’m not even a Niragi fan myself, I'm a Chishiya and I just rewatch a day ago and now I'm a Banda fan too but I'm always gonna be depending Niragi fandom because Niragi is nowhere near as purely evil or dangerous as Banda is, yet no one clocking Banda fans. Or if look at AO3 and fanfics in general, why is everyone swarming in packs to hate, report and scream about any fic that contains non‑con but total radio silence when the if there ks fics romanticizing, making the fictional murderers charming, and fanfics where they face absolutely zero consequences for killing people, the exact thing everyone claims they demand for consequences that rpist characters should get. The hypocrisy is actually painful to watch.

Nobody wakes up wanting to kill people just because they enjoy violent games and people get that perfectly fine, and defend it when governments try to ban this stuff, that “it’s just fiction, it doesn’t make us violent.” So why do people automatically side‑eye, call out, and assume anyone who reads or writes non‑con content actually supports or wants that in real life? It’s the exact same logic. We all understand fictional violence doesn’t equal real‑life violence so why hold sexual dark themes to this totally different, impossible standard. It's just entertainment thats all

However there is a huge non negotiable difference between between all of that and RACISM (HOMOPHOBIA TOO, especially that garbage shit where writers deliberately “turn” canon gay or lesbian characters into straight just to “fix” them). These cannot be fiction is fiction shit. These are use to encourage discrimination on marginalized people. This stuff actively hurt real people. Because once again It fuels real‑life discrimination, real prejudice, real violence and real harm, and it actively reinforces the unfair structures that were built to hold people down. That is the line. Discriminatory propaganda.

And while we’re here can we also finally agree to stop generalizing bl genre as whole as nothing but problematic garbage, and acting like abuse and toxicity is literally all BL is ever about, just so you have a convenient excuse to hate the whole category outright? Because let’s be brutally honest what you all doing that is just homophobia. You never see anyone treat shoujo, josei, or any kind of straight‑centred romance or drama this way. Nobody looks at dark romance and goes “oh so ALL straight romance is just abuse and toxicity right?”. Its just once again scream homophobia. You also certainly don’t see women who read and enjoy dark romance getting harassed and hated on 24/7 to the same degree bl fans get for what for consuming the exact same kind of story. Gay people, queer people, BL fans we deserve fuck up stories like straight do. We normalize gay people in media when we don't treat them like we need to have pure cuteyyy rep all the time.

Normalizing gay people in media means we stop treating us like we always need to be pure, sweet, perfect little “cute” representation all the time. Gay characters need to be messy, complicated, flawed, even terrible characters just like straight does. We don’t always have to be soft, wholesome, or “good role models” or characters need to have consequences deserve to exist in stories. Letting us be dark, weird, evil, or anything else is how we actually become normal, not just wanting pure gay rep. You understand right the balance.