Yes. Not cause I'm kind. Iam faking to be kind, smiling doesn't hurt but people's expectations of you does. Being friendly doesn't mean being friends. You just want to look good. You'll eventually understand if you grow older. Not smiling loses you income. Learn to fake and create a persona/mask. It's not an urge, it's more of a muscle memory for m...... reply
Is my artist name couple of years ago and. I started coming back. And recently finished one. I stopped picking up my pen for years due to discrimination of my art before... reply
It's stupid you moral police go attack people for reading what's fictional only. Doesn't harm anyone and y'all act like your whole families were murdered by somebody reading jinx. Hypocrites for what? Mind your own business if we read taboo series.
I tried during the covid times, but I just felt like I was being babied/patronized and quit pretty quick. Probably the right therapist would be helpful but for me right now it doesn't seem worth the money + hassle of searching for the right one reply
i tried, once. when the lady shushed me i got so pissed i never went back lmao
she was annoying anyway
if i found a decent therapist, one who understood autism, i'm sure i'd benefit from it. but one of my relatives is severely mentally ill and has gone through like 12 therapists that all fucking sucked so just from that one experience and watching ...... reply
If you have high EQ, possibility for therapy to work is probably low to none. But if you need emotional support, then go for it. One thing I like about going to therapy was because they're strangers thus they didn't know anything about me aside from what I told them and my mental illness, so I can speak or tell them pretty much anything.
For me t...... reply
Yeah it helped me out a lot and got me off my bad habits and harmful tendencies. It also made me reflect my own character cus I have the tendency to overreact to things emotionally first before logically. I also finally saw that not everyone likes to be spammed with messages cus I just do lol. It made me repair some friendships I had, some just mad...... reply
I tried for years (diagnosed with depression and anxiety). Only thing that worked for me was starting martial arts when I was 13. Not that I'm against therapy, but I improved a lot, even stopped taking medication. And I'm also an athlete rn haha (yeah this site is my top secret) reply
I never got into threrapy therapy, but i had couple sessions with a school councelor times ago. Because for therapy you would have to have money and well not underage to get it yourself.
Speaking to someone always helps escpecially if you feel like it, it can help when you are looking for answers or just wanting to vent.
The thing about the sess...... reply
Had a breakthrough with my therapy once I started taking meds. Struggled heavily with social anxiety and depression, nowadays I can actually wake up and get through the day without my mind and heartrate going haywire every fking second.
Can't recommend both enough, but I understand the difficulties of finding affordability and access. Also need a ...... reply
YES highly recommend and if you're gonna do it get someone specialized in cognitive behavioral therapy and trauma-informed therapy and not just talk therapy if you want to dig deep and really resolve issues. There are a ton of cool and effective techniques like brain spotting and EMDR that target specific memories/places in your brain that trauma i...... reply
I personally love one ok rock and mcr ! I also like some of AVX7 songs and I listen to some kpop/jpop music too. Idk how to sort them but I also love anime openings lol 1 reply
Some tips: (I am an older lesbian and have only strapped people with vaginas)
-depending on your bed height. Partner on bed, you standing on floor. I find the bed is hard to get grip on and thus no control. Or do it on the floor.
-i hold the base of the strap in my fist to make sure i dont go too deep too fast. Sometime im holding it for most of t...... 4 reply
Different positions and hip movement is how you go about it, and he should be trying to match your pace too
>.> that and setting mood. Good luck and uh be safe!!! Injuries take a bit to heal from personal experience >.> reply
Yes and vastly so. I highly suggest finding student programs in your area. Search counseling instead of therapy. Their prices tend to be cheaper and I didnt find their skills lacking. Actually their fresh enthusiasm was encouraging. Go once a month if thats all you can afford. And dont be afraid to try different people out
One thing that helped m...... reply
mostly genres that are loud and/or upbeat like rock, metal, hyperpop, breakcore, edm, shoegaze and some alternative; i also like jpop/jrock and vocaloid. but in all honesty im up for anything that sounds good to my ears 1 reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!