Fellow Muslim here, or more like ex-Muslim. I get what you’re saying. The situation was kind of the same where I lived. All the Islam dick riders in the comments seem to be living in delusion. I was literally told by my own family to marry my pedo grapist “for the family’s honour.” They said everything happens by Allah’s grace. This world...... 1 reply
Girl , i feel you fr . I dont hv a brother but this mf distant cousin of mine is really mooching of my grandma . He got married last 2 years and hv one kid now , i wasnt really close to him so i didnt attend hos wedding . But lately he's been visiting my grandma alot even when they live like w fricking hours away , that every week i visited my gram...... reply
I also live in a muslim majority country . But here it is a crime and a sin . In my country , muslim have religious class in the noon and non muslim who's interested to join the classes are allowed to but not forced . So even the non muslim knows that rape is a sin , no matter the status of the partners . Not to sound rude TwT .. but i think there'...... reply
No it's not, the worst is that when your husband pay the bride price, you are officially his property, you are "his". And in our society you can't refuse sex to your husband. If he raped you, it's normal , you are not supposed to refuse sex, he married you for that, he paid expensive money for you, if you run away some families will even chase you ...... reply
in the UK it is (although i'd like to argue that a lot of rape cases are dismissed unfortunately)
and in terms of Pakistan, rape is illegal with a law in 2015 also implementing a need for consent which could arguably cover marital rape
in terms of islamically however, marital rape is obviously a grave sin which deserves punishment. reply
It's not.... It's not criminalised in my country too. It's like a woman ceases to be human the moment she says her vows. I get enraged everytime I think about it reply
By they, you mean that IS consensus of the majority of Muslims there and not just some lunatic bunch??? Bcs I also live in a Muslim majority country and that sort of sentiment wouldn't fly without some repercussions 1 reply
It is criminalised where I live, but victims usually don't report it because they are groomed to believe by people in our fucked up society that "rape between spouses is not real," and most of the time those who do report it happening are pretty much ostracised by everyone, at least in rural communities where I grew up. It's disgusting, really. 1 reply
I Live in a Muslim majority country and they think a man has complete right to rape his wife once they're married and it shouldn't be considered rape even if it's forced. I feel disgusted and scared too. I wanna hear about what's it like for y'all,is marital criminalised in your country?
idc if they're friends or not personally, bc i wont date anyone w/ an ex lol.
in general, no. if you are friends with your ex, you either never loved them, or you still love them. only time it's understandable is when a gay person was dating another gender bc of comp het. reply
After my ex apologised for everything she’s done to me we somehow ended up as friends. We’re both in different countries so we often VC back then. But after she gets in a relationship the girlfriend wants me out of the picture . Anyway I step back because the current girl is bothered by our relationship. We just followed each other at IG and st...... reply
.....Been there, Done that. Fought over it and dramatised the forum for weeks on end. Months. Even years. Try it and see what happens!! Good Luck :))
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Nah , not really , it never worked tbh . Even if you forced it , it'll eventually wont work still -as close friends i mean . You'll eventually grow distant naturally . You can hv a chill break up , stay in touch/ctc from time to time. As Friends maybe , but as close friends ? Nahh . reply
Don't fucking join any "mangago Discord servers" for the love of God, they're all crap filled with mentally unstable degenerates.
There is a mangago subreddit if you want it, they usually post about BLs and shit like that but they do also have notifications for when the site is down or whatever. Just check out r/mangago. reply
In my opinion, yes. I do think its a good thing to have some distance after breaking up, even if you split up on good terms, because you need time to process all the feelings. And if both people are over it, they can totally be friends again. Of course it won't be the same as before, but it can still be a good friendship.
I am still friends with my...... reply
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Nah , my mom is the cheater . She still thinks we all didnt know lol and is bad talking abt my dad to us and her side of the family . She really think we'd listen ? Lol. Fucking clown . Maybe she thinks it'll make her less hateful if we hated our dad when she confessed her cheating . Pft . And funny thing is ? Her family is taking her side eventho ...... reply
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