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Im aroace and feel you so hard omg. I used to try and at least do casual stuff before but it literally feels like im tricking people ╥﹏╥
I have about absolutely zero gender preference so as long as theyre a decent person im good but like how do you explain to someone you want to do it but also you feel as much arousal over them as you do for ...... reply
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Motivation found dead in the Bronx
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11 05,2026
Semesters ending but I can't for the life of me squeeze out an ounce of will to do what I should be doing so dead w this one brochachos
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Aroace and learned that I have literally no libido but I am a pervert like make that make sense 1 reply
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About two weeks ago this guy at uni confessed to me. I'm aroace and I barely know him so I was caught of guard but I just told him that I'm not interested and he seemed to understand. We did not have any classes for the rest of the week so I didn't meet him again until last Tuesday were I tried acting normal despite feeling akward since I don't think he did anything wrong.
On Wednesday I actually got kind of mad since he asked me to talk about what had happened. I didn't find anything wrong in discussing it but he kept analysing the way I behaved on Tuesday, asking me about things I didn't even do due to feeling uncomfortable. I explained that I always do the things he mentioned and thought that since he obviously also felt uncomfortable I should just rip the bandaid and tell him that I feel akward after what happened. He kept repeating himself, saying stuff I had already explained so I just kept telling him that the situation is akward. I had told him that four times before he asked to keep hanging out as friends and do a project together. I told him that I don't mind simply talking a bit while at uni and tried avoiding agreeing to the project since I don't have a partner but do not feel comfortable doing it with him. That only led to him pressuring me to answer. I should mention that I did not see him as a friend even before everything that happened.
It's Monday again and he sat in a different seat further away from me. I appreciate the fact that he probably realised how uncomfortable I feel hanging out alone with him but I can't help but feel a bit guilty. I was trying to be nice but I wonder if I should have just straight up said that I don't want to be friends
On Wednesday I actually got kind of mad since he asked me to talk about what had happened. I didn't find anything wrong in discussing it but he kept analysing the way I behaved on Tuesday, asking me about things I didn't even do due to feeling uncomfortable. I explained that I always do the things he mentioned and thought that since he obviously also felt uncomfortable I should just rip the bandaid and tell him that I feel akward after what happened. He kept repeating himself, saying stuff I had already explained so I just kept telling him that the situation is akward. I had told him that four times before he asked to keep hanging out as friends and do a project together. I told him that I don't mind simply talking a bit while at uni and tried avoiding agreeing to the project since I don't have a partner but do not feel comfortable doing it with him. That only led to him pressuring me to answer. I should mention that I did not see him as a friend even before everything that happened.
It's Monday again and he sat in a different seat further away from me. I appreciate the fact that he probably realised how uncomfortable I feel hanging out alone with him but I can't help but feel a bit guilty. I was trying to be nice but I wonder if I should have just straight up said that I don't want to be friends
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it's frustrating being asexual sometimes
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11 05,2026
it's seriously so difficult sometimes to be on the asexual spectrum. because firstly, majority don't even understand you T_T. they think asexual=no libido. while it can be true for some of the aces, it's not true for ALL of them. it's like saying all gay men like feminine stuff. might be true, but not really. also, they just do not understand that just because aces don't feel sexual attraction, they don't have libido.
secondly, it's so DIFFICULT managing your libido as an asexual. it's frustrating. it's like you're hungry and no food looks eatable. genuinely. and you're literally crying bc you're so hungry but the thought of eating borderline make you want to puke. going through my ovulation week rn (probably) AND ITS HELL. please stop!
and i cant even express this frustration to anyone, bc i genuinely do not even feel like masturbating. like seriously, it doesn't even get me off T_T. it just builds and builds and no peak is reached. great! now i'm even more frustrated.
having said that, i dont know about allosexual experience. what do they feel, how it is for them, how hell ovulation week is for them or menstruation week, i don't know. im not saying allosexuals have it easy, not my intention. but AGH, sometimes i wish i felt sexual attraction so i could just be "normal" T_T. (i know aces are normal as well, but i mean it in a present society's amatonormative heteronormative sense)
like seriously, i cant even read yaoi or yuri or even straight stories with romance or smut rn bc it's frustrating me T_T.
secondly, it's so DIFFICULT managing your libido as an asexual. it's frustrating. it's like you're hungry and no food looks eatable. genuinely. and you're literally crying bc you're so hungry but the thought of eating borderline make you want to puke. going through my ovulation week rn (probably) AND ITS HELL. please stop!
and i cant even express this frustration to anyone, bc i genuinely do not even feel like masturbating. like seriously, it doesn't even get me off T_T. it just builds and builds and no peak is reached. great! now i'm even more frustrated.
having said that, i dont know about allosexual experience. what do they feel, how it is for them, how hell ovulation week is for them or menstruation week, i don't know. im not saying allosexuals have it easy, not my intention. but AGH, sometimes i wish i felt sexual attraction so i could just be "normal" T_T. (i know aces are normal as well, but i mean it in a present society's amatonormative heteronormative sense)
like seriously, i cant even read yaoi or yuri or even straight stories with romance or smut rn bc it's frustrating me T_T.
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Hot Takes on Manhwas/Mangas
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11 05,2026
There’s been an increase in stories that are romanticizing slavery. I’m so confused, because the master-butler/servant/maid dynamic already exists. Why make the MC or love interest a slave? That’s weird. To have a slave character is okay if it’s necessary for the plot like, Nontua. But it’s weird when they made it a romance thing. It’s ...... 2 reply
