Twink top, Buff Top, Twink Bottom, Buff Bottom all men.
Pretty top, Handsome top, Pretty bottom, handsome bottom all men.
At the end of the day, I don't understand the discourse we're all here for men.
Sad though there's many factors like looking for heteronormativity in yaoi, something most fans don't want to agree, something internalized we shou...... 1 reply
idk bruh, i don't understand it. what's the point of sexualizing and romanticizing, for lack of a better word, actual crimes? what's the point of wanting to turn traumatic experiences that have happened and continue to happen to millions of people around the world into your fantasy?? i don't find anything enjoyable or desirable about someone forcin...... reply
That’s literally just a word. Sexism.
that type of thinking reflects a very old sexist idea (and one that still prevails among some people with shit in their brains) that femininity = passivity and masculinity = dominance. in many works, the seme is portrayed as the dominant, masculine and protective one, while the bottom is delicate, smaller co...... reply
I get that it's consensual, I get that it's two grown adults doing what they like in their own bedroom but honestly....i feel like misogyny is too ingrained in these kinks to look past reply
Well it’s consensual roleplay so it’s fine imo. as someone thats somewhat into CNC, I get really icked out by non-con. That is to say, non-con and CNC are very different.
I think CNC (among other things) is just a niche way people safely experiment with complex emotions, unusual scenarios and unconventional ways of feeling good. At the end of ...... reply
personally I just don't find it to be a real kink. like if you're willingly doing CNC then you are ALREADY consenting, I don't understand its logic, nor do I find it pleasurable or consumable. plus I find it disrespectful towards actual victims of SA since the way I see it is that you're just romanticizing a crime, like bffr we both KNOW no one fin...... 4 reply
Bc authors do give them a "look". Is also why a lot of people say "BL bottom"/"BL top" when talking abt yaoi, bc they look and behave a specific way and you can usually tell which one is which by their character design alone. And this dynamics specially are very heteronormative and misogynistic too
Now if youre referring to those fujos who look a...... reply
I’ve been wondering this for a while and talked to a few people about it but I still don’t have a solid opinion on cnc, so please tell me what you think about it. Ik it’s a very controversial kink and I’ve seen people say that it’s fine since it’s just more of an extreme subcategory or whatever of S&M/BDSM and others just finding it gross.
Like they genuinely get online and write "well this man is fem that obviously means he's a bottom!" Guys... that's not how it works it just about liking it up the butt
I don’t have any asses to show you but i have a question, why does all uke have a plump and nice looking ass while the seme always flat as hell? I thought it was because of the muscles but i have seen buff uke too and they still have plump looking ass
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Yeah, if earth is possible then in the vast universe no matter how rare it is it’s just impossible that there won’t be any other living beings to exist. reply
From the Manga I was just reading From the Manga I was just reading https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hentai_shinshi_to_kisekae_dansho/uu/ibx_chapter-5/pg-5/ 1 reply
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