about question
dating "preferences"
[Answer]
3 days
on god, only on the internet will someone ever care why you don't want to date someone.
* all the internet has done is turn people's dating life into an ao3 fanfic that need to self-tag and the community regulate them to make sure they have the right tags, where you can filter the ones you dislike---and this goes beyond just lgbtq+, but thanks to...... 2 reply
about question
Would you date a bisexual guy?
[Answer]
3 days
As a straight man I can tell you from experience that bi sexual people are all bipolar they don't last long in relationships and its just a headache 5 reply
about question
is this account ragebait??
[Question]
3 days
i was wondering if you could ban people on this site and this account:
https://www.mangago.me/home/people/5242541/home/
pisses me off so much. i dont know if their ragebait or if they are being fr but its literally not funny and its so uncomfortable knowing that their account isnt banned. cherry on top their from israel so . the things they comment about and the lists they make are so disgusting and gross
https://www.mangago.me/home/people/5242541/home/
pisses me off so much. i dont know if their ragebait or if they are being fr but its literally not funny and its so uncomfortable knowing that their account isnt banned. cherry on top their from israel so . the things they comment about and the lists they make are so disgusting and gross
about question
dating "preferences"
[Question]
3 days
before i say anything I will preface this by saying I genuinely don't gaf who you wanna date or don't wanna date personally, and I don't think anyone should be forced to date anyone else for any reason.
This isn't what I'm talking abt, you already know it's not what I'm talking about. This is purely about the logistics of using blanket terms, especially when being outspoken about your "type".
Okay here it goes
I feel like at a certain point we have to accept something is no longer a "dating preference" and just a stereotype you believe.
Sure, there can be perfectly normal reasons why someone may be less inclined to pursue relationships with certain members of minority groups, even if they otherwise fit their standards. I can believe that for the most part.
But the inherent denial, the line in the sand that you draw and openly point at, that's not the same. Fkn hell, historically gay communities have had "no fats or fems", and we never act (or at least i hope none of you act) like it was anything other than misogyny and a blunt idolisation of eurocentric male beauty standards. There's a reason we disavow that kind of expression now.
But then when we have people sitting on the internet, signaling about how they would never date this group or that group, trans people, bisexual people, whoever tf. We somehow feel the need to have a discussion about "well who knows why that person has this opinion".
As if what someone hitting post on something where they talk about how they would "never date" so and so, is doing anything other than pointing a finger at a whole array of individuals and saying "you are like this. i dont like that". Usually to a minority group, sometimes making their romantic distaste for said group their whole personality.
I simply do not believe anyone coming online making such blanket statements has a single bone on them that cares for the group they're talking about at the most basic human level. And im tired of pretending it's okay to spew blatant hatred whole hiding behind personal taste
This isn't what I'm talking abt, you already know it's not what I'm talking about. This is purely about the logistics of using blanket terms, especially when being outspoken about your "type".
Okay here it goes
I feel like at a certain point we have to accept something is no longer a "dating preference" and just a stereotype you believe.
Sure, there can be perfectly normal reasons why someone may be less inclined to pursue relationships with certain members of minority groups, even if they otherwise fit their standards. I can believe that for the most part.
But the inherent denial, the line in the sand that you draw and openly point at, that's not the same. Fkn hell, historically gay communities have had "no fats or fems", and we never act (or at least i hope none of you act) like it was anything other than misogyny and a blunt idolisation of eurocentric male beauty standards. There's a reason we disavow that kind of expression now.
But then when we have people sitting on the internet, signaling about how they would never date this group or that group, trans people, bisexual people, whoever tf. We somehow feel the need to have a discussion about "well who knows why that person has this opinion".
As if what someone hitting post on something where they talk about how they would "never date" so and so, is doing anything other than pointing a finger at a whole array of individuals and saying "you are like this. i dont like that". Usually to a minority group, sometimes making their romantic distaste for said group their whole personality.
I simply do not believe anyone coming online making such blanket statements has a single bone on them that cares for the group they're talking about at the most basic human level. And im tired of pretending it's okay to spew blatant hatred whole hiding behind personal taste
about question
one more bug bite and I will nuke the universe
[Experience]
3 days
WE HAVE SO MANY BUGS ON EARTH WHY AREN'T MOSCQUITOS EXTINCT AT THIS POINT JUST DIE DIE DIED IDE DIE. If one mosquito even looks my way I will start a war, or just leave me alone I'm okay with the rest of humanity suffering just don't let me get bitten I feel like I'm dog with rabies itching those bites...
matter of fact make those bugs bite all t...... 2 reply
