i cut things off with my bsf of 6 years and life has never been better after that. sure, she did know lots about me and i know lots about her as well. our parents know each other and yet, she was draining my energy and becoming toxic. it's not worth it to care about someone so much that we're neglecting ourselves. if you think she's bad for you, le...... reply
There is plenty of bad queer people, and I don't really believe that someone could 'just' hate someone, it's always projected from the inside, so the person must hate themselves for something, and then they project it on someone else. And often it's because they hate themselves for secretly having some queer tendencies. Though I don't believe this ...... 1 reply
THANK YOU, like no straight woman number 41 your boyfriend doing you wrong doesn't mean he's secretly gay and dl, straight man are in misogynistic. 2 reply
[is it really okay for a legal adult to read smut about minors?]
Idk, do you focus on the fact that they're minors or young people when you read it? I think when it comes to being your inner thought/moral police, what part is morally incorrect is based on your values, discernment, judgement and perspective. Like why do you read it, what's the comp...... reply
Ok hear me out but I'm actually really tired that almost every time I see something online about yet another attack on queer people there's always someone claiming something like "oh, the attacker must be jealous because they'll never be able to accept themselves" or some other flavour of saying an attack must've been caused by internalised homophobia or something.
Why does it always have to be our own people hurting us? Like, even if they're not saying it as an excuse, why do we always have to assume someone that is displaying their hatred for us must be like us.
Maybe some straight people are just evil. Maybe they just fucking hate us because they feel they have nothing in common with us.
I wish "Clear and Muddy Loss of Love" (baihe/GL novel) got a manhua adaptation, the novel is a masterpiece but I would like to see it made into a manhua format, too. ️
And I also wish "Centuria" and "Madan No Ichi" got anime adaptations.
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It's not like teenagers don't fuck. I find it somehow weird when romance stories pretend to be extra chaste when for a lot of people a physical and romantic relationship go hand in hand, teens being no exception.
Does it have to be that explicit in a comic? In my opinion no (but that's just me), I read BL for the romance and not for the smut, and ...... 2 reply
Y'all so weird about this... I mean, I don't like when highschoolers get freaky in BLs, but telling this to a 18 y o when it's literally the age of some high schoolers?? Y'all think you are righteous by proudly stating this bullshit but you are weird as fuck and you don't even realize it
Btw if you are so pre-occupied with this topic it could only...... 3 reply
wdym by larpers? i see this word used but idk what it means in these contexts ik it means live action role play but in this sense i never know.
as i was reading in zombie stories i paused to check if there was a manhwa bc it would be so interesting seeing how literally everything is portrayed. a gritty, dark kinda art would be nice but also brigh...... 2 reply
The very fact that you're concerned about this and chose to ask the question speaks well of you. It's always refreshing to see people question things that have become normalized or are often overlooked. That's an attitude I genuinely appreciate!
To answer the question I'd say no. It's not okay but then again, I think sex is overrated and it's be...... 1 reply
No it's not okay but I'm pretty sure most hg bls with smut make the characters 18, i still think it's iffy but I'm also not that into smut or sex scenes so i always skip them (unless they got shit that's actually important to the plot) 1 reply
To be fair, those works were for adults anyway. Morally, those works shouldn't exist to begin with. There is no smut for people under 18. I mean, you were doing something wrong even if you were a minor. 1 reply
Call me woke, but reading smut between 2 minor is weird no matter of the age, but ngl I don’t blame you since it’s been normalized in yaoi to put smut in high school romance. Also I low key should be the last person to do the moral police cause most of my reading are pure slop 1 reply
I thinks it’s like insanely weird to read smut about underage characters (assuming the high scholars are below 18) in the first place.
But specifically in your case that’s not the ninja way datebiyo. Like I actually cannot fathom asking if it’s okay for an adult to read about minors fucking . Of course it’s not holy moly if you keep follo...... 1 reply
Depends on who you ask, I think reading romance stories set in high-school is fine but reading straight up smut featuring high-schoolers is disgusting imo and just goes to show how people these days really don't gaf about any romantic aspect of the story but rather the sexual ones instead (saying this about any type of pairing, gay or lesbian or st...... 2 reply
To be honest, I don't see why you "need" to be "different" from the rest. You just are. Does that need some validation?
Revolving around these ideas and distinctions means you're still pretty much hung up around these ideas and labels.
If i'm going to be completely honest, i really don't care what other people have to say about how i look/seem ...... 1 reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
