The top comment answered this question pretty well. On that note, I will only encourage people to talk about their problems on the forum. It's not just an archive, it's also a community, poorly managed as it may be. As it is, most people who make such posts often lament they don't have anywhere else to talk about these things. More often than not, ...... reply
Im sorry but what else can ppl do? Read yaoi together and run off into a field of sunflowers while holding hands? Bffr .Yall expect too much from strangers LMFAO , ppl are not here to be someone's therapist. 1 reply
Love DID find me when I stopped looking for it, that's my experience, and that's why I tell people to truly find themselves before finding a piece to complete them. To be frank this is also literally an illegal website to read pirated shit on how do you expect minors / young adults to give you a phenomenal paragraph on how to get hit on by somebody...... reply
im sorry but we are taking forums way too seriously. you're expecting ppl pirating manga to suddenly become therapists or some shit like that nobody here is obligated to give life changing advice. Most users would rather try to make someone feel a little better with generic encouragement than give advice that could make them overthink even more or ...... reply
Yeah this is what real misery looks like.
What the heck exactly do you expect strangers online to do? Hand you a list of potential partners? Pragmatically speaking there isn't much advice to give beyond the things you're complaining about. Just because someone says "focus on yourself" or tries to be encouraging doesn't mean they're dismissing your...... reply
I get it, but its better than letting them drown in self misery. If every reply on my vents was saying shit like 'yeah it never gets better you hopeless fuck' then I would've jumped off a cliff along time ago loll reply
then what are they supposed to say to a stranger? yeah, you're an ugly bitch, that's why you don't have a boyfriend? i don't get why people are so obsessed with random people's opinions online or act like their advice is going to fix anything reply
but it's true though? and i think their intention is genuinely good whenever they comment that. but just bcs it's true doesn't mean it's applicable to everyone. but heyy no harm done with that reply
But what do you expect them to say? “Yeah, you’re right, you’ll be alone forever and die alone”? There are always people who give stupid replies to posts like this. Personally, I don’t mind replies from others who are trying to offer "encouraging words", even though at that moment it might make me feel better to read from people going thr...... reply
so flashlight is coming back soon, and tbh it's not abt it but just in general cus i got reminded of this when i saw that it's coming back
like whenever a bl manhwa comes back after a long hiatus or new season and ik there will be some kind of angst storyline, i lwk get scared that it will have some kind of unnecessary rape scene, or bullshit like ...... reply
and did those relationships help u w ur suicidal ideation or? the amount of women who get into a relationship bc they hate themselves then let their boyfriends treat them like complete shit is exactly why that corny ass advice is given bfr 1 reply
Yeah but also wtf else are people supposed to say . Noo don't feel bad you'll find someone but not if you're ugly and have a shit personality! People can say much else to people they don't know 2 reply
Idk if it's just me but sometimes I gen feel like on this website whenever someone talks about feeling sad that they can't find a date or they aren't experiencing romance there is always like an array of people giving the most nothing replies.
Always things like "focus on loving yourself first" and "relationships arent that special anyway" and "love will find you when you're not looking for it".
It's the most live laugh love type response ever, do you genuinely think the op hasn't heard all of that before?
And honestly that whole mentality isnt even like real. Like, I was in more relationships and getting hit on more when i was actively suicidal than after i stopped hating myself. Love in fact did not find me when i stopped searching. Genuinely if you have nothing real to say why say anything
Lately, this girl in my class started inserting herself into my friend group eating at the same table as us, going everywhere we go, that type of stuff. I mean, I wouldn't really mind since this has happened before within our friend group. The difference is, those people were at least close friends with someone already in our circle. This girl just popped out of nowhere.Now, there's a reason why I don't like her, and neither do the others in my friend group. She's boy crazy and such a pick me. The worst thing she's done was make a fake account pretending to be the new transfer student we had, making it seem like he liked her back when he actually didn't. He eventually found out about it and felt deeply uncomfortable.She also made up a story about me and one of my friends and told it to someone else, which ended up causing a whole misunderstanding. We literally had to clear everything up because of the bullshit she made up, and it was so unnecessary.She's also constantly trying to compete with one of my friends who's in our circle, which is honestly shitty because she's trying so hard to insert herself while bad eyeing someone who's already part of the group. Not only that, but she keeps making uncomfortable jokes towards us. She told my friend, who was with her girlfriend at the time, that she must have thick hair down there, which was just weird and inappropriate. Then earlier at lunch, while we were waiting for the gate to open, she joked that I should fuck the guard. That pissed me off because I was already having a bad day because of her, and then she added that bullshit joke on top of it.
ill be so real w u i cycled like 4 situationships, a weird guy and a strange phase w a friend throughout my uni career, I genuinely don't think ppl r finding the love of their life at uni, everyone's too drunk for it reply
Yeah, that's pretty reasonable. Closeness requires a process. It is natural for us to be closer to people we have known for a long time or who have the same frequency of thought. You two became close for a reason, and that reason is what allows you to get to know each other more deeply. Not everyone has friends with whom they can talk about anythin...... reply
maybe ur just not in the right environment. most classes are boring and isolating but then i went somewhere and met new people that actually let me make deeper relationships; friendships and all. reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
