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Day FOURTEEN of telling you to read No More Eurydice
[Experience]
18 07,2026
about question
how to stop cringing
[Question]
18 07,2026
I'm watching prosecutor's proposal rn and I feel so homophobic everytime the bl elements appear I'd look away or close my eyes, then I'd feel homophobic for cringing lmfao
but /gen how do ppl watch K-drama without cringing. not just the bl but also the straight one.
but I don't feel cringe when watching Hell is Other People and whatever is happening between Yim si wan and Lee dong Wook in that show
but /gen how do ppl watch K-drama without cringing. not just the bl but also the straight one.
but I don't feel cringe when watching Hell is Other People and whatever is happening between Yim si wan and Lee dong Wook in that show
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That incest trope...
[Question]
18 07,2026
So, I've been thinking about different YAOI tropes that doesn't fly with me. You know, the rapey, non-con, violent, and unhealthy stuff, etc. But also another trope I feel like I see very often: incest.
Now, I try to avoid being judgmental. I don't always succeed, but I do try. And it got me thinking, why do I actually dislike incest-stories?
Like, I do understand WHY family members shouldn't Fuck. The consequences and dangers of inbreeding has been documented several times already.
But, in stories on here, it's rare that the incest/reinvest stories lead to reproduction. Of course, we have the mpreg stories, but I have noticed far more stories where the siblings just... Compete / share with each other.
At the same time, incest and incest-like stories with sibling/step siblings often do show up as 'forbidden' but still consensual relations.
Yet, I find it easier to ignore dubcon and non-con than incest.
And when I realized that it made me stop and think.
Like, why would I struggle more with sex between consenting adults/no minors where there is no inbreeding, than with rape? And like, why do we have laws against it in so many places?
Again, I get the inbreeding part. And I fully agree with it. Not just because of the potential dangers, but also because of how it exist so close to eugenics.
My guess is that it is because I come from a large family, and I simply can't imagine myself being attracted to any of my siblings.
Now, I try to avoid being judgmental. I don't always succeed, but I do try. And it got me thinking, why do I actually dislike incest-stories?
Like, I do understand WHY family members shouldn't Fuck. The consequences and dangers of inbreeding has been documented several times already.
But, in stories on here, it's rare that the incest/reinvest stories lead to reproduction. Of course, we have the mpreg stories, but I have noticed far more stories where the siblings just... Compete / share with each other.
At the same time, incest and incest-like stories with sibling/step siblings often do show up as 'forbidden' but still consensual relations.
Yet, I find it easier to ignore dubcon and non-con than incest.
And when I realized that it made me stop and think.
Like, why would I struggle more with sex between consenting adults/no minors where there is no inbreeding, than with rape? And like, why do we have laws against it in so many places?
Again, I get the inbreeding part. And I fully agree with it. Not just because of the potential dangers, but also because of how it exist so close to eugenics.
My guess is that it is because I come from a large family, and I simply can't imagine myself being attracted to any of my siblings.
