Idk why but i think in bl ppl tend to ignore when the bottom is the one doing the SA/rape like some of them would do things to the top while they're unconscious and u wouldn't see anyone talk about it
They also tend to ignore when the seme does that
I think people who genuinely gets bothered by sa/rape criticize both
The ones who don't probably don't really care
Once I left a comment criticizing a manhwa for a sex scene were the character was clearly intoxicated and people where saying it was his fault for getting drunk at a gay bar. I legit think their brains are too full of porn lol
Like I understand it as a kink the problem is that most authors don't write it as a kink or with the proper warnings "author recognizes the action as something terrible" instead is something just brushed under the carpet no consequences and to never be brought back and discussed by the characters few do (and some that do kinda do it really badly too "seme: back then what i did was rape wasn't it?please forgive me? Uke: I won't forgive because there's nothing to forgive I never thought of it as rape" uke was literally blackmailed into a relationship, real scene from an yaoi) It's tiring
SO TRUE!! SA by semes is kinda brushed under the rug simply because it happens so often we're desensitized (it's now stranger if it doesn't happen, authors loooove it...), but SA by ukes is often not even recognized as such (sometimes they even depict it as comic relief wtf??), not even by readers. Unpopular opinion but it personally makes me a bit sicker when the rapist is the uke, because he's usually the main character and we're supposed to at least TOLERATE the main character aren't we?! If the seme SA's the uke I can hate him together with other readers and hope for revenge or something to cope, but if the main character does it then why am I even reading a story from the POV of a sexual offender? (yes, as you may have guessed, I'm the type that self-inserts :D) Ok I went off on a tangent but still, you're right, when it happens I only ever see a few people at most talking about it in the comments, is it an extension of how reverse rape is often not treated seriously in real life? Or maybe in a lot of such stories the seme is usually worse so the uke doesn't have to be accountable
been debating abt this but I just kept getting attacked or ignored when I point it out, ridiculous.
I agree with Naty Hunter that I have seen many people criticize it, but they're mostly going to get flak for it. In my opinion, people treat the bottom like the 'woman' of the relationship and many people still have the belief woman cannot rape or vice versa, men cannot be raped by women, so when you see the bottom partake in SA/rape, many people just sweep it under the rug because they don't view the top as having been victimized.
Exactly, it's probably an extension of the toxic mentality "a man can't have been raped by a woman, he must have liked it" (I see people saying this bullshit even when a male teenager gets victimized by an older woman irl and it makes me puke) and indeed, most of the times I saw an uke SA the seme, the seme 'ended up liking it' and became even more passionate than the uke as a sort of way to justify the uke's actions
Recommend me something where the top is submissive
I wish we can put pictures or gifs as comments on this site
And I really want comments under every chapter
Same would be fun to see ppl reaction and edits of random characters
No, this would end like tik tok with insensitive and unfunny ppl
Exactly I miss it so much
Boo
It's genuinely pisses me off when a character play the biggest bird and have no self respect
Do u guys know any stories where both of them are obsessed with each other? Like stalking eo or literally just obsessed. mlm or yuri only :P
Idk if it counts but "Under the greenlight"?
My friend told me s/a, incest and those other weird stuff adds flavor to the manhwa
Punch your friend, add flavor in her life (▰˘◡˘▰)
You're so right but can we talk about your username
I was never into mpreg, omega stuff and ppl who make ff of mlm and making them have puh
I love this opinion
Not sure why you said it twice but I sorta agree
I don't mind them having a kid exactly but when the creator feels the need to make them pregnant, make the process long and slow and then make everything a woman would go through with pregnancy and just copy and paste it on a man makes me uncomfy.
Oh there's mpreg? No big deal, at least we get to see cute kids that look like the mc.
Oh he has to magically get a woman's privates...? His chests suddenly look enlarged...? Oh you're also gonna show us the entire delivery scene where they have to cut him open..? Eugh..
I remember saying I hated mpreg and someone accused me of being anti-trans.
Funny thing is omegaverse is full of assault. The heat initiates a situation where the omega has to go through something traumatic. They either get saved before it happens or they are already getting assaulted and 1. They're saved by the alpha or 2. It is their alpha who assaults them. Now if the point is to have mpreg, then a story can definitely be created without omegaverse. A fictional world where science can make it possible for men to get pregnant seems way more enticing then a world where people are labeled with a b or o and get dumb heats. Omegaverse is just such a turd genre.
BYEEEE why are you not giving the full story
I really wish I remember what manhwa this was about because I remember seeing that entire thing go down, I don't think I commented cause I was tried to find it and couldn't but you did MORE than say you hated mpreg.
Your username is not one to forget
And you're practically some kind of smut troll idk what to call you
I assume it's like an internet personality you have or something
Mpreg isn't only in omegaverse that's the thing
That's honestly why seeing it outside of omegaverse makes it extra uncomfy for me anyway.
I forget the name atm but have you read the one with the snake and the guy who saved said snake from dying and the snake used him to have his kid/descendant? No omegaverse, no assault, mutual agreement
This is honestly why I didn't want to say this here LMFAO
what was the first bl/gl manhwa, manhua or manga you've read?
heaven officials blessings
Dasadanan !
GL manga: Citrus
GL manhua: Perfect Heroine Wants to Possess Me
GL manhwa: I think it was What Does The Fox Say? not sure tho
Killing stalking. Traumatized to this day
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/takane_no_hana_wa_chirasaretai/
Not the best first bl
Hitorijime my hero and Citrus….
dakaretai otoko forgot the rest and tame de gushi
Yuuutsu na asa (my life become blue cuz of that manga too)
Seven Days (Rihito Takarai)
BL manhwa: bj alex..
BL manga: the tyrants fall in love..
BL manhua: To be or not to be(i think)
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