It's cliche but I love this rubbish. It's awful but I enjoy the drama, the obsession. It's like legs that wont walk. That bit where he also chains him to the bed for trying to get away from him. Unhinged and crazy SoB. It could have all been do simple and easy.
I don't really understand why yujin ran but the response is insane.
He's a condescending douchebag, I kind of hate him. Break his heart girl!
Not the buttons on the nips while accepting her boyf doesn't want to marry her (≧∀≦)
I can understand that getting married truly has no bearing on his capability to work and run the company successfully so being frustrated his family wants it for him to be 'complete' or to gain an 'heir' is understandable. Having your future dictated and the idea of falling into their expectations for him must be very suffocating and frustrating so I can see why he would want to avoid it to 'save face' and prove them wrong.
The issue is when he'll hurt the one he 'loves' to stick it to his parents. He'll only end up hurting himself. Cutting off his nose to spite his face will leave him without her again, unless she's happy to just be his secret girlfriend all her life, which... I mean i wouldn't be happy with that but we're all different eh.
I could understand him always refusing arranged marriages, but now he apparently loves her, to not even entertain bringing her into the family properly, the fact he doesn't want to consider including her in all aspects of his life, does he really love her? Too soon to tell maybe.
I love my fiancé. We have two kids, and we’ve been living together for 10 years. But despite how much I love him, I’ve refused to marry him not once, but twice. The idea of getting married causes me a lot of stress and anxiety. We’ve talked about this many times, but I still can’t stand the idea... I don’t know why. Maybe my family has something to do with it, but I just don’t want to get married.
Sorry this sounds shitty, but do you think it's normal to be anxious about the concept of marriage? Not something that maybe needs to be looked at in therapy? Where that fear comes from? If you're both happy of course it doesn't matter, so many don't get married anymore but if it's anxiety inducing, that's disordered thinking and could be worked on, not with the goal of getting married, just... not being scared of it? Thinking about being married shouldn't cause upset in a relationship. Again, I'm not saying you should want it or should be married. Then I remember you say you're engaged which must be stressful for you.
Honestly, what is the point of getting married? It's a useless contract, IMO. I mean, I don't need a contract to prove I'm the mother of my children (And that I love them), so why should I need one to prove I’m with their father?
I see it as an unnecessary constraint. In the country where I live (I’m Italian), we are already considered a family by the state, and we are registered as such. So why do I need to get married? Why should I sign a piece of paper, spend money, and sign contracts that will only lead to more problems and more expenses if things ever go wrong between us in the future?
I already know my anxiety comes from my parents: they got married and then, for financial reasons, were never able to separate. Now they live together without love and with so much hatred.
All for what? A contract. No, thank you.
Fair enough.. it's all very legally different everywhere isn't it? Sorry to say in my country you kind of do need paperwork to prove you're their mother - and if anything were to happen to your boyfriend/fiance, you wouldn't necessarily be next of kin and if you were not on good terms with his family there could be situations you have no rights or access to anything from him (I'm not just talking money I'm talking funeral plans, what is done with the body etc) . This is all very circumstantial and hypothetical and if bad things happen. It's also not the same in every country.
I tried to be very clear I don't personally think anyone needs marriage to prove their love etc, it just makes things easier in my country if you are married, not impossible of course, just easier for certain legal purposes.
"If it's just a piece of paper why do we need it", it's not just a piece of paper, it's peace of mind, it's security should the worst things happen. This can of course be achieved with a different kind of contract without the 'marriage' label but it can be short sighted to just assume everything will be ok should the worst things happen. Surely if you ever break up you would still have trouble untangling finances etc?
Whatever i wont go on, I totally understand where you're coming from.
In the context of the guy in this story, he seems to not want to love with her or have kids with her, just date forever? I don't think that's what she wants but it's also not clear. It's not fair for her to give up what she wants for him when he wont entertain giving up what he wants for her. Just shows they shouldn't be together and she should have been honest about it.
So taeyoung is a half sibling? Did he leave his mum to go with the rich dad? Or was he taken away... fell sorry for him that he can't do acting... should just do it anyway, eff them (presume that is what he'll do eventually, making our own choices for our own happiness being the theme)
Love the jealousy, surprised at the honesty around liking him, but I guess it's the casual type like.
Author had me... I thought it might possibly have been ok but yeah... more fool me ey.
Im on chapter 10 and have no idea what's gping on why are they being told to keep having sex and everyone is like 'yeah makes sense' wtf? Why was it all so blasé? It all felt so lame the first time, I've read so many of this stype of story and I'm used to more resistance or more intense need, just more than 'oh we're in heat, I'm gonna just do it' just felt so non urgent... I see it doesn't exactly get better but I'm just confused.
This is how it mostly works in omegaverse, sadly
It's the nonchalant nature of it that threw me. I'm used to more drama or more chill, it all just feels so rushed!
In what world are we so cautious of her because she's pregnant that you wont let her walk or undress and wash herself but you will throw her in to the sink to rub yourself on her? So uncomfortable for her! At times she looked like she was holding herself up out of it too? What a terrible idea for a sex scene. Also, why did they drain the bath to wash her? I skimmed the whole thing once the sink was involved, so stupid. But he got the bed for his hand job? Ridiculous!
As an aside, sex during pregnancy is fine unless specified otherwise by your dr/midwife. Best avoided in the first 12 weeks too.
that sink scene made me so anxious
Have a feeling he's not actually been sleeping with anyone else... dudes that obsessed don't do that and 'assuming he is my son' is kind of all the hinting proof I need. Get the vibe it's all lies and facade. Obvs could be wrong though.
Yeah!!! I Think the same