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I think people misunderstand what "fujoshi"/"fudanshi" is. As a teen I used to call myself a fujoshi for reading BL even though I was watching harem seinen/shonen romance more than reading BL. For now I don't use this label for myself, like I play video games for more than 3 hours, and I don't call myself a gamer, never mind a label that has a nega......   reply
18 05,2026
women are shamed for everything huh. let's go commit the majority of crimes instead?   3 reply
18 05,2026
Fujoshi, like anything else related to women, is a term made "sad" and wrong by men. Women started writing fan fiction based on male characters that were drawn in a feminine way to specifically appeal to female audiences. The sexual tension between male characters where over exaggerated, too. Also to appeal to female audiences. But official BL c......   reply
18 05,2026
I guess at first I also kinda felt like this about reading bl, but if you really think about it even when you consume other types of stories(be it manga or anime etc) that don’t involve bl you don’t always get some deep understanding about something or some kind of knowledge, sometimes you just want entertainment. I also feel like bl is my fir......   reply
18 05,2026
this is so me, but occasionally I do enjoy a really good non-bl story, if it enters my standards   reply
18 05,2026
girl so real. i want a bit of homoerotic tension at LEAST in a story for me to enjoy it. i can't watch a 100% straight story now, esp if it's romance. recently i was watching "off campus" an amazon prime series and it's so shit T_T. i am kind of excited for dean and allie but i dont get why they gave allie a bf if they want her to be paired w dean ......   3 reply
18 05,2026
I think it depends on each person’s definition of what a fujoshi means but personally I characterise anyone as one when they start watching BL anime and ship boyxboy in non-yaoi anime/manga or any media rlly I.e. I dont rlly consider the term as sth negative so long as it doesn’t hurt anyone else But anw my opinion to OP: you don’t have to ......   1 reply
18 05,2026
like i lowkey have been reading bl for the past 3 years almost everday

yknow at first ive always been like a manga type of person, yknow into anime and shit. so the fact that i read bl like a hobby itself never occurred to me. i just reading manga and shit.

i mean reading bl isnt really the problem, its just the fact that I dont read non-bl manga anymore that puzzles me. Its not like i cant stomach it anymore, like from time to time i do actually pick up a non-bl manga/manhwa and genuinely enjoy it. its just that reading bl has become so natural for me its worrying.

cause like im not really "benefiting" from reading this much bl. theyre all really the same plots and dynamics and character, nevermind the fact that some of them may have an interesting story line since if it involve porn, i cant really talk to others about it.

also i dont really like the idea of being a fujoshi, its not a proud term. its sad. what do you guys think?
18 05,2026
Why tho? [Experience]
Arysa 10 04,2025
Damn not people here removing my comment about getting bullied for being Bi, damn wtf But seriously, the amount of times I have been bullied for being bi online is horrible (I think in real life it will be worse if I ever came out cause my family and everyone is literally homophobic   1 reply
10 04,2025
yes [Answer]
ji9star
29 02,2024
Totally   reply
29 02,2024

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