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i saw this cute ass car volt straight at me imma brjng the cute kitty some yummy treats tomorrow im excited to see the xat again
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i currently own a bread maker (Rosewill RHBM-15001) but it broke and i'm trying to fix it myself, but if i have no luck, what are some good brands you guys recommend?
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I have a friend (28F) recently got into her first relationship after meeting a guy on a dating app. I’m genuinely happy for her, but everything happened extremely fast. Within about a month of knowing each other, they already became official. They were going on back-to-back dates almost immediately. For example, one on Friday and another on Saturday.
Personally, it felt rushed and unnatural to me, but at the end of the day, it’s her life and her decision. She would often tell us about him and how they talked constantly, day and night, almost every day. However, before they officially became a couple, I warned her to slow down and really get to know him first because I had a bad feeling about the situation. I wasn’t trying to attack her or ruin her happiness. I just wanted her to be careful and make safe decisions.
Unfortunately, after I gave that advice, she started acting distant toward me. It felt like she interpreted my concern as criticism of her or her boyfriend, even though that was never my intention.
Since getting into the relationship, it feels like she has started prioritizing her boyfriend over her friendships. It’s not just me who feels this way, the rest of our friend group has noticed it too. We’ve considered talking to her about it, but we feel like she wouldn’t be open to hearing our concerns right now and would instead see it as an “attack.”
Even though they’ve only been dating for about a month, she stayed at his place for five days straight, and now it already seems like they’re unofficially living together between both apartments. She recently got a new apartment, and his belongings are already there.
Another issue is that whenever our friend group plans a hangout, she automatically brings her boyfriend without asking anyone if we’re comfortable with it. She just assumes it’s okay, which has made some of us uncomfortable. It’s gotten to the point where some of us are wondering whether she still sees us as important friends or if her entire focus is now on her boyfriend.
I’ve also noticed a major shift in her personality and behavior since entering the relationship. Some of the things she says or does now completely contradict opinions she strongly held before dating him. Sometimes she agrees with our advice and says she understands, but then she ignores it and does whatever she wants anyway.
There was also an incident involving a farewell hangout for one of our friends who is moving away. She initially chose a Sunday for the gathering even though two people in the group already couldn’t attend Sundays. She didn’t really check whether they were okay with the date, which made those friends feel excluded and unimportant.
Later, the date changed, which stressed her out because she had already booked a room in her apartment building. Since she couldn’t rebook it, we decided to move the gathering to another friend’s house instead.
During the group discussion, most of her responses centered around concerns about her boyfriend’s schedule. Like how he would have to rearrange things or drive her back and forth. But originally, this was meant to be a friend-focused gathering, so many of us didn’t understand why her boyfriend needed to be involved at all.
At the actual hangout, she brought him along and introduced him to everyone. Maybe I’m being overly critical, but the two of them mostly stayed in their own bubble. There was a noticeable separation between them and the rest of the group.
They didn’t really engage in conversations or make much effort to connect with everyone, which made the atmosphere feel awkward.
After talking with the others, the general feeling is that she’s prioritizing her relationship over her friendships and failing to maintain balance. Most of my friends are trying to be understanding because this is her first relationship, even though they don’t agree with how she’s handling things.
Personally, I don’t think being in a first relationship excuses treating your friends poorly. It feels like years of friendship are slowly being pushed aside.
What do you guys think I should do?
And if there's any other thoughts and opinions please feel free to share, I'd like to hear all of them!
Personally, it felt rushed and unnatural to me, but at the end of the day, it’s her life and her decision. She would often tell us about him and how they talked constantly, day and night, almost every day. However, before they officially became a couple, I warned her to slow down and really get to know him first because I had a bad feeling about the situation. I wasn’t trying to attack her or ruin her happiness. I just wanted her to be careful and make safe decisions.
Unfortunately, after I gave that advice, she started acting distant toward me. It felt like she interpreted my concern as criticism of her or her boyfriend, even though that was never my intention.
Since getting into the relationship, it feels like she has started prioritizing her boyfriend over her friendships. It’s not just me who feels this way, the rest of our friend group has noticed it too. We’ve considered talking to her about it, but we feel like she wouldn’t be open to hearing our concerns right now and would instead see it as an “attack.”
Even though they’ve only been dating for about a month, she stayed at his place for five days straight, and now it already seems like they’re unofficially living together between both apartments. She recently got a new apartment, and his belongings are already there.
Another issue is that whenever our friend group plans a hangout, she automatically brings her boyfriend without asking anyone if we’re comfortable with it. She just assumes it’s okay, which has made some of us uncomfortable. It’s gotten to the point where some of us are wondering whether she still sees us as important friends or if her entire focus is now on her boyfriend.
I’ve also noticed a major shift in her personality and behavior since entering the relationship. Some of the things she says or does now completely contradict opinions she strongly held before dating him. Sometimes she agrees with our advice and says she understands, but then she ignores it and does whatever she wants anyway.
There was also an incident involving a farewell hangout for one of our friends who is moving away. She initially chose a Sunday for the gathering even though two people in the group already couldn’t attend Sundays. She didn’t really check whether they were okay with the date, which made those friends feel excluded and unimportant.
Later, the date changed, which stressed her out because she had already booked a room in her apartment building. Since she couldn’t rebook it, we decided to move the gathering to another friend’s house instead.
During the group discussion, most of her responses centered around concerns about her boyfriend’s schedule. Like how he would have to rearrange things or drive her back and forth. But originally, this was meant to be a friend-focused gathering, so many of us didn’t understand why her boyfriend needed to be involved at all.
At the actual hangout, she brought him along and introduced him to everyone. Maybe I’m being overly critical, but the two of them mostly stayed in their own bubble. There was a noticeable separation between them and the rest of the group.
They didn’t really engage in conversations or make much effort to connect with everyone, which made the atmosphere feel awkward.
After talking with the others, the general feeling is that she’s prioritizing her relationship over her friendships and failing to maintain balance. Most of my friends are trying to be understanding because this is her first relationship, even though they don’t agree with how she’s handling things.
Personally, I don’t think being in a first relationship excuses treating your friends poorly. It feels like years of friendship are slowly being pushed aside.
What do you guys think I should do?
And if there's any other thoughts and opinions please feel free to share, I'd like to hear all of them!
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Guys please let me know about some sites where I can watch anime I just want to watch something in peace, every site ik is either down or just straight up scam im desperate
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Due to new laws being implemented in Korea is why all these sights are getting taken down....
Cam read more here: https://kcomicsbeat.com/2026/04/27/newtoki-and-booktoki-pirating-sites-suddenly-shut-down/
Sobbingggggggggg, what about my raws???
Cam read more here: https://kcomicsbeat.com/2026/04/27/newtoki-and-booktoki-pirating-sites-suddenly-shut-down/
Sobbingggggggggg, what about my raws???
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mine is snake hole its so fucking ass. All they do is fuck and if they aren’t fucking they are fucking while the top is a snake and the off-brand Luka (Alien stage) is pissing himself while getting fucked
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How to behave in friendships when you are sensitive to every change
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I was about to get cracked but found out dude was a virgin, bro then said since I have more experience I should take the lead and be the dominant one in bed. I told him I didn't like doing all the work and was more on the submissive side. I did offer to guide him into what I like and stuff. but dude got mad. dude had a whole attitude and was complaining about why I wouldn't just take the lead. now I'm feigning to be cracked and irritated.
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If so, how do you think we should deal with it now? And if we don't do anything about it now, how do you think we will manage when it comes back to bite us in the future?
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Something I thought about recently was how representation really affects what your reading
I was reading a horror/psychological manga and it included scenes of child grooming/SA/rape and what was so disturbing I that could genuinely relate some of these SA scenes to scenes in yaoi/bl stories and what's crazy is that one is horror and one is glorified rape but only one of them is actually seen as disturbing and the problems are actually adressed
Yes not all stories are constantly about representation and sure there are reader's who call out these disturbing topics and there are reader's who say fiction is fiction and both are their opinions so I'm not segregating them into morally wrong and right
But this just reminded me how depection really really changes just about everything
I was reading a horror/psychological manga and it included scenes of child grooming/SA/rape and what was so disturbing I that could genuinely relate some of these SA scenes to scenes in yaoi/bl stories and what's crazy is that one is horror and one is glorified rape but only one of them is actually seen as disturbing and the problems are actually adressed
Yes not all stories are constantly about representation and sure there are reader's who call out these disturbing topics and there are reader's who say fiction is fiction and both are their opinions so I'm not segregating them into morally wrong and right
But this just reminded me how depection really really changes just about everything
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Personally I don't read too much horror/psychological yaoi or stories in general beacuse I know what I can handle reading and can't and some of these topics are too dark for me but for those who read it how do you bounce back from it?
Whenever I read books with really dark topics I can't lie and say it doesn't make me feel out of it but I usually try and distract myself with not reading anything for a while etc. Does anyone else get affected by what they read or is it just me?
Whenever I read books with really dark topics I can't lie and say it doesn't make me feel out of it but I usually try and distract myself with not reading anything for a while etc. Does anyone else get affected by what they read or is it just me?
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Aside from medication ofc, like, do you drink? Smoke? Take substances?
What is your guilty pleasure way on coping with anxiety?
What is your guilty pleasure way on coping with anxiety?
I actually am so lost but I swear im not stupid i just need someone to explain. I have a rough idea of whats happening and I really want tot like the story but it actually makes no sense
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When you have a deeply rooted inferiority complex so you try to be very defensive by putting up a superiority complex instead. Like you feel invaluable deep down but on the exterior you make it seem like you're the most valuable or that others are invaluable compared to you, you try to make yourself *feel* superior by skills, appearance or wellbeing so you feel validated. you try so so hard to appear better off than other people to fill in your emptiness. You seek constant validation from people you deem "valuable" (might be physical appearance, public popularity, skills, lifestyle, well being etc) and when one of your friend is "valuable" you feel inferior. You feel the need to distance yourself so they come after you and the more they come after you the more your ego feels satisfied. Because "oh...a valuable person is desperately coming after me" so when you distance yourself and be cold to a certain limit they move on and that gives you a critical hit. They will keep going forward, but you're forever stuck in your delusions and cowardice. I always found myself trying to get validation from men because I deemed them powerful in society, I felt disgusting because I'm a huge misandrist but I realized it wasn't about men but valuable people.
I just realized this and I feel so empty I don't know what to do
I just realized this and I feel so empty I don't know what to do
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Hey I just saw a instagram post that the red fruit shu was giving tei was similar fruit in sy&cp i forgot but I think it can get u pg now why do I think cause now we know that tei won't get pg our shuraka migh turn into that tree that bears that fruit due the NATAM'S will ╥﹏╥ this is my theory what do u guys think ? I'm all ears for ur theory as well feel free to rant
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im fr gonna kms. im p okay with new being gone cuz idrc abt comics that much lately BUT FUCKKKKK THEY HAD TO TAKE DOWN BOOK TOO??? i was planning on reading/catching up on my novels but in the middle of studying for a quiz i see these sites going down and i genuinely wanted to jump
