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04 07,2026
I need thoughts on my situation, I've had severe issues with how I looked like and body dysmorphia since I was young. I love my online friends and want to meet them so badly but once they ask if I can hang out when they're near my area (They didn't go so far just for me, just for something else and happen to be near me) I get this overwhelming sense of feeling like they would think I'm ugly compared to pictures they've seen. I don't use heavy filters or anything that doesn't look like me and I'm excited/happy to meet them irl but I just can't bring myself to meet them. I'm trying to work on it but I just hope they won't be disappointed in me when I can finally tell them the truth (Not looking for sympathy or compliments, I'm well aware it's a me problem and just wanted to look for other people's thoughts)
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yall i need help trying to find a bl!!!
ive been looking for this one work passively for over a year now, and alot of the sites ive checked dont have a work that fits the criteria quite right
basically, i remember basically nothing except these few key details (that are probably wrong):
-im pretty sure i read it on batoto (rip soldier), which it was released on that site during 2022-2023(?)
-it had a very basic cover, like basic bl type shit cover, because i distinctly remember that i wouldve never clicked on it if i wasnt bored. it had some pink in it, like white and black and the two main characters, typical cover art shit
-definitely has multiple volumes, might be 2-3(?)
-it only had the yaoi and smut tag back then(??????), but the first volume definitely had no smut (following volume/s had regular smut)
-i remember being shocked it didnt have a comedy tag because i Remember it being really funny (???) (humor is subjective)
-i think one guy mightve had a beard
-im pretty sure they lived together in an apartment and the story resolved around that in some kind of way(?)
-pretty sure it was underrated
other than that, i remember literally nothing else about the plot i just wanted to read it again if i ever found it but guys, im positive this work does exist out there (or possible once existed) if anyone has any leads, id be glad to hear you out!! ╥﹏╥
ive been looking for this one work passively for over a year now, and alot of the sites ive checked dont have a work that fits the criteria quite right
basically, i remember basically nothing except these few key details (that are probably wrong):
-im pretty sure i read it on batoto (rip soldier), which it was released on that site during 2022-2023(?)
-it had a very basic cover, like basic bl type shit cover, because i distinctly remember that i wouldve never clicked on it if i wasnt bored. it had some pink in it, like white and black and the two main characters, typical cover art shit
-definitely has multiple volumes, might be 2-3(?)
-it only had the yaoi and smut tag back then(??????), but the first volume definitely had no smut (following volume/s had regular smut)
-i remember being shocked it didnt have a comedy tag because i Remember it being really funny (???) (humor is subjective)
-i think one guy mightve had a beard
-im pretty sure they lived together in an apartment and the story resolved around that in some kind of way(?)
-pretty sure it was underrated
other than that, i remember literally nothing else about the plot i just wanted to read it again if i ever found it but guys, im positive this work does exist out there (or possible once existed) if anyone has any leads, id be glad to hear you out!! ╥﹏╥
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04 07,2026
Hi folks!
I have nothing better to do with my life, so I want to make a list of manhwa that use the infamous castle-sama - ESPECIALLY any shiny variants like blue, green, etc ones.
I would tremendously appreciate some help in getting it off the ground and built up brick by brick!
Thank you so much!
Link:
https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/3774218/
ps: plz don't be mean to me, I will cry (but if that's your kink just give me like some appropriate amount of dollars and I'll be good I guess idfk what even is the internet)
I have nothing better to do with my life, so I want to make a list of manhwa that use the infamous castle-sama - ESPECIALLY any shiny variants like blue, green, etc ones.
I would tremendously appreciate some help in getting it off the ground and built up brick by brick!
Thank you so much!
Link:
https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/3774218/
ps: plz don't be mean to me, I will cry (but if that's your kink just give me like some appropriate amount of dollars and I'll be good I guess idfk what even is the internet)
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04 07,2026
i was talking to my guy friend and he mentions about going to gym, then he asks me how much do i weigh. i told him he shouldn't ask for girl's weight and stuff but he was like its not a big deal or sum but stil told him. i told him "51 kg" and he goes "oh i can lift 50 kg in gym"
am i overthinking this??
am i overthinking this??
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04 07,2026
I’m sure by now you’ve seen a circulation of the people that climbed the Empire State Building for the “when the power of love conquers the love of power, the world will know peace.” And can I just say…that was just an extravagant, exhibitionist public proposal.
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i only let the manhwa marinate till they reach their endings. only then can i read them. but i'm not talking about personal preference.
it's literally the only way i can remember the plot and the details (well, most of them at least)
because a single chapter or a three chapter update every week is still not going to be enough for me to keep up with the plot.
and you guys are achieving this with several titles! several! Σ(  ̄□ ̄||)
it's literally the only way i can remember the plot and the details (well, most of them at least)
because a single chapter or a three chapter update every week is still not going to be enough for me to keep up with the plot.
and you guys are achieving this with several titles! several! Σ(  ̄□ ̄||)
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Hey guuuuys, it's me… agaiiin, with another thought that I feel like I wanna get out there. Also, I wanna note that it's not just Lesbian or, well, yuri manga, but also Gay ones too that unfortunately fall under this. Now, this isn't a new thought; this has come back to me a lot. Unfortunately.
Throughout my years of searching and exploring far and wide for good lesbian, sapphic comics (including gay ones), I always seem to find something interesting or that feels like it's gonna be a nice read. Then, halfway through, I get hit with one of the leads going after their sibling or vice versa. Like, come on now, what... what the fuck? Why was this needed, and why was this even allowed in the first place? Also, what does it gotta do with the story? Is it important? Is this a life lesson for the characters and the reader to learn from? (likely not) Is this a warning for the reader or the characters to be aware of?
I'm not talking about like maybe a character has a tragic past with incest of any kind being involved, and how it affected her or his experience with how they deal with love, life, perspective of reality, or whatever. It's literally thrown in there as like a plot device in the middle of a story with lackluster research behind it or the author's secret-not-so-secret fetish, sometimes both. I know it's not just in LGBTQ manga and manhwa; it's also seen in other comic genres. It's, not gonna lie, a problem because most of the time it's fetish material and not talking about the harms of it. I see it a lot with the Lesbian, Gay, whatever Yuri/Yoai like A LOT, and I personally hate how it's been popping up more. Like, it's not only comics; it's in other media too (that one foreign show or movie I saw an ad for like 7 years ago about a guy who was in love with his male cousin, on YouTube, like...what the fuck??) like what's up with that?
I don't think this is a question anymore, more like a rant, but like I still feel like it's an important thing to notice and ask: why is fetishized incest in queer media or media at all? Really makes me sick, man. I'm just pissed off.
Throughout my years of searching and exploring far and wide for good lesbian, sapphic comics (including gay ones), I always seem to find something interesting or that feels like it's gonna be a nice read. Then, halfway through, I get hit with one of the leads going after their sibling or vice versa. Like, come on now, what... what the fuck? Why was this needed, and why was this even allowed in the first place? Also, what does it gotta do with the story? Is it important? Is this a life lesson for the characters and the reader to learn from? (likely not) Is this a warning for the reader or the characters to be aware of?
I'm not talking about like maybe a character has a tragic past with incest of any kind being involved, and how it affected her or his experience with how they deal with love, life, perspective of reality, or whatever. It's literally thrown in there as like a plot device in the middle of a story with lackluster research behind it or the author's secret-not-so-secret fetish, sometimes both. I know it's not just in LGBTQ manga and manhwa; it's also seen in other comic genres. It's, not gonna lie, a problem because most of the time it's fetish material and not talking about the harms of it. I see it a lot with the Lesbian, Gay, whatever Yuri/Yoai like A LOT, and I personally hate how it's been popping up more. Like, it's not only comics; it's in other media too (that one foreign show or movie I saw an ad for like 7 years ago about a guy who was in love with his male cousin, on YouTube, like...what the fuck??) like what's up with that?
I don't think this is a question anymore, more like a rant, but like I still feel like it's an important thing to notice and ask: why is fetishized incest in queer media or media at all? Really makes me sick, man. I'm just pissed off.
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Y'all can tell me repetitive overused tropes too! Because I'm too tired to read ass writing over and over again lmfao
What never sat right through me is how ANY Historical genre manwhas often use Medieval-Europe or Joseon periods in choosing their timelines and the cultural presence isn't even there(most of the time lol). So is it alright to use informal language Infront of a royal with full of high ranking aristocrats? Is it alright to wear a simple maid wear looking outfits and being a Duke's daughter? To mention that author may simply forget how to research accurate historical norms... Fan languages, etiquette, mannerisms etc. that's a standard in writing good stories.
And notice how plots are repetitive, overused and is predictable??
- Lotus innocent MC who absolutely cannot do anything wrong
- Reincarnated not actually a villainess business
- runaway after spending the night of the ML who's a yandere btw (high risk of pregnancy)
- overcomplicated angst over some simple misunderstanding and refusing to communicate
- love triangles that usually end up in a poly relationship
- OP FMLs which everything goes smoothly in their way without any obstacles for their revenge reincarnation
- BABY reincarnation tropes which gives me the ick most... You're a grown ass 27 year old Korean woman that died from (overwork, rammed by a truck/car or killed by a jealous co-worker) and taking interest on some over a KID prodigy mage?? Helps the duke dad with their illness, usually reveals their high intelligence at the age of 2 and is also fluent and eloquent on speaking.
- TRASH DUKE OF THE NORTH
I can pile up more but just thinking about it makes me boil in rage.
What never sat right through me is how ANY Historical genre manwhas often use Medieval-Europe or Joseon periods in choosing their timelines and the cultural presence isn't even there(most of the time lol). So is it alright to use informal language Infront of a royal with full of high ranking aristocrats? Is it alright to wear a simple maid wear looking outfits and being a Duke's daughter? To mention that author may simply forget how to research accurate historical norms... Fan languages, etiquette, mannerisms etc. that's a standard in writing good stories.
And notice how plots are repetitive, overused and is predictable??
- Lotus innocent MC who absolutely cannot do anything wrong
- Reincarnated not actually a villainess business
- runaway after spending the night of the ML who's a yandere btw (high risk of pregnancy)
- overcomplicated angst over some simple misunderstanding and refusing to communicate
- love triangles that usually end up in a poly relationship
- OP FMLs which everything goes smoothly in their way without any obstacles for their revenge reincarnation
- BABY reincarnation tropes which gives me the ick most... You're a grown ass 27 year old Korean woman that died from (overwork, rammed by a truck/car or killed by a jealous co-worker) and taking interest on some over a KID prodigy mage?? Helps the duke dad with their illness, usually reveals their high intelligence at the age of 2 and is also fluent and eloquent on speaking.
- TRASH DUKE OF THE NORTH
I can pile up more but just thinking about it makes me boil in rage.
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04 07,2026
I'm sorry but faraway home is kinda overrated....
People be spamming the "if I were a woman loving you wouldn't be a sin" everywhere sobbing like it's Shakespeare writing but I'd say it's pretty common and even better done in other stories that do have the religion and homophobia setting
People be spamming the "if I were a woman loving you wouldn't be a sin" everywhere sobbing like it's Shakespeare writing but I'd say it's pretty common and even better done in other stories that do have the religion and homophobia setting
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04 07,2026
Big soccer fan here. Super curious what everyone on this site thinks. Who do you guys prefer in the Messi vs Ronaldo rivalry debate? Wanna see if there are other World Cup lovers around here too. For me, I’m 100% Team Messi dude just on another level. Just asking because I want to hear everyone reasons
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04 07,2026
Is it just me totally losing motivation to keep up with GMMTV lately? Feels like they’re always going for quantity over quality these days. I’ve been way more into other company now, plus CBL and JBL
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Me (F) am sick but my gf (F) asked me to eat her out so obviously I couldn’t refuse like mama’s gotta eat, so I went down on her but she was on her period which is like okay I don’t mind I always loved twilight and a little blood never hurt anyone, but halfway thru I feel like a slimy red thing on my face, I think nothing of it cuz I’m sick, but anyways I stop at some point and like I sit up to see a red thing hanging from my chin, I’ve always ate my boogers so I lowkey thought that it was my booger and stuck it in my mouth, but right at that moment my gf looks up and yells at me to spit it out, on her command I do and we inspect it together, it was too bouncy to be boogers so we googled it and turns out it was her endometrium lining and that sometime it pops out during periods.
Later my gf tells me to throw it away so I listen but lowkey I really wanted to know what it tastes like (my adhd lol) so I lowkey fried it in oil and put some salt and garlic powder on it and took a bite, it was good ASF but I knew she wouldn’t eat it so I chewed it up in my mouth on my way over to the bedroom and kissed her on the mouth so I could push it down her throat.
Well she said it was tasty (and sexy) at first but when I told her what it was she flipped out on me for some reason and wants to break up with me, idk what I did wrong I just wanted her to enjoy something I liked, was I really in the wrong? Or is she over reacting, I’m so heartbroken
Later my gf tells me to throw it away so I listen but lowkey I really wanted to know what it tastes like (my adhd lol) so I lowkey fried it in oil and put some salt and garlic powder on it and took a bite, it was good ASF but I knew she wouldn’t eat it so I chewed it up in my mouth on my way over to the bedroom and kissed her on the mouth so I could push it down her throat.
Well she said it was tasty (and sexy) at first but when I told her what it was she flipped out on me for some reason and wants to break up with me, idk what I did wrong I just wanted her to enjoy something I liked, was I really in the wrong? Or is she over reacting, I’m so heartbroken
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I don't care how the plot moved or what tbh, but I think (Spoiler for Naruto if u plan watching it) BUT NEJI DEATH WASN'T NEEDEDDD!! I get like Itachi and whomever, but out of all characters its my boy neji
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04 07,2026
hello ! as the title suggests, im looking for omegaverse recommendations ! i'm currently reading "you are my world" & would love to see some similar, specifically with a buff or strong omega that doesn't fit the stereotype of the typical weak, frail, petite omega ♡
i have read "megumi and tsugumi" already and its a favorite, but anyways... please send me some recommendations ! i don't mind if its manga, manhwa, manhua, or a webcomic / webtoon ! it can be short, long, purely smutty, or more romance & slow burn.. i just like seeing omegas out of stereotype ♡ thats all !
thanks a ton ! ~♡
( also, alpha x alpha, top omega x bottom alpha, etc, are all welcome as well ! i prefer m/m & f/f so please no m/f pairings since i won't read it T T )
i have read "megumi and tsugumi" already and its a favorite, but anyways... please send me some recommendations ! i don't mind if its manga, manhwa, manhua, or a webcomic / webtoon ! it can be short, long, purely smutty, or more romance & slow burn.. i just like seeing omegas out of stereotype ♡ thats all !
thanks a ton ! ~♡
( also, alpha x alpha, top omega x bottom alpha, etc, are all welcome as well ! i prefer m/m & f/f so please no m/f pairings since i won't read it T T )
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04 07,2026
How to freak to get in on r/boyslove I have a manhua or manhwa looking for but they won't let me post? To identify
