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05 04,2026
Oh my god since my last post blew up and people just ran with the title and literally understood nothing about my rant. TBH I regret putting it on my title since I just wrote it thinking it matched.
I’m unsure if even people will understand this, though some replies in my last post actually understood what I was trying to say.. thanks for that!! You are queens!!
The feelings evoke too much on me when I was writing (very much so because I was frustrated af). I’m not looking for any male centered people to interact with the post since it’ll be hard for them to actually relate to it or even take one step to understand. It’s like asking the enabler for the abuser why they are defending the abuser.
And if u don’t want to understand that’s fine u can just ignore it.
So firstly, everything in the WORLD is male centered, we live in a patriarchal world that literally means everything was always for men. I KNEW yaoi is male centric because wow I’m so shocked because it features fictional MALES! I didn’t know that!!! Wha?
My frustration was people thinking women (NOT GAY MEN LIKE THE REPLIES SAID) are male centered for reading yaoi which was literally created for women. And vastly my point was ME, someone who doesn’t even like men and has very much distaste, hate towards them, getting called words that means you actually give a fuck abt men. That was my frustration! Because I don’t.
Not that gay men reading yaoi are male centered??? Nor about how I somehow didn’t know that yaoi is male centered ??? Also I do not know where people bring up yuri for, that’s something entirely different and I literally read the genre if I do find someone that I’d enjoy - just like any other sort of manhwa or genres. But my frustration was on people not really the whole yaoi itself
But after my post I realized how many women who were reading yaoi actually very indeed male centered and upholds the men are better idea + zero of understanding the patriarchy as a whole. I saw posts mentioning that and I didn’t agree with it until now. TBH that just sucks but as a true women supporter I already knew the biggest enemy is actually just women themselves.. and yeah if you didn’t understand this well it’s fine no need, thanks for your time
And I’m not gonna go in the misandrist explanation of why hating men is not the same as hating women it’ll just be useless topic. And I only mentioned irl gay men because unlike straight men, some of them actually do see women as humans and not objects. Are some of them still misogynistic? Yeaaaa
My thought was more like yaoi characters shouldn’t be represented as real life gay/queer people because yaoi is more of a coping mechanism that women authors BASES of cishet males! Not actual gay people and their struggles. Does that mean every yaoi female author writes it wrong? Nah, because there are still really good works produced by them that actually can represent gay men. I’m talking abt literally yaoi that are just hella smutty and toxic af that most of us actually do read and is hella popular which shouldn’t define gay people as a whole. Because they are fictional yaoi characters that authors based on straight ass men.
Will there be readers that understand this post? Hopefully! and if you still didn’t get it or wanted to try and understand it’s fine no need.
I’m unsure if even people will understand this, though some replies in my last post actually understood what I was trying to say.. thanks for that!! You are queens!!
The feelings evoke too much on me when I was writing (very much so because I was frustrated af). I’m not looking for any male centered people to interact with the post since it’ll be hard for them to actually relate to it or even take one step to understand. It’s like asking the enabler for the abuser why they are defending the abuser.
And if u don’t want to understand that’s fine u can just ignore it.
So firstly, everything in the WORLD is male centered, we live in a patriarchal world that literally means everything was always for men. I KNEW yaoi is male centric because wow I’m so shocked because it features fictional MALES! I didn’t know that!!! Wha?
My frustration was people thinking women (NOT GAY MEN LIKE THE REPLIES SAID) are male centered for reading yaoi which was literally created for women. And vastly my point was ME, someone who doesn’t even like men and has very much distaste, hate towards them, getting called words that means you actually give a fuck abt men. That was my frustration! Because I don’t.
Not that gay men reading yaoi are male centered??? Nor about how I somehow didn’t know that yaoi is male centered ??? Also I do not know where people bring up yuri for, that’s something entirely different and I literally read the genre if I do find someone that I’d enjoy - just like any other sort of manhwa or genres. But my frustration was on people not really the whole yaoi itself
But after my post I realized how many women who were reading yaoi actually very indeed male centered and upholds the men are better idea + zero of understanding the patriarchy as a whole. I saw posts mentioning that and I didn’t agree with it until now. TBH that just sucks but as a true women supporter I already knew the biggest enemy is actually just women themselves.. and yeah if you didn’t understand this well it’s fine no need, thanks for your time
And I’m not gonna go in the misandrist explanation of why hating men is not the same as hating women it’ll just be useless topic. And I only mentioned irl gay men because unlike straight men, some of them actually do see women as humans and not objects. Are some of them still misogynistic? Yeaaaa
My thought was more like yaoi characters shouldn’t be represented as real life gay/queer people because yaoi is more of a coping mechanism that women authors BASES of cishet males! Not actual gay people and their struggles. Does that mean every yaoi female author writes it wrong? Nah, because there are still really good works produced by them that actually can represent gay men. I’m talking abt literally yaoi that are just hella smutty and toxic af that most of us actually do read and is hella popular which shouldn’t define gay people as a whole. Because they are fictional yaoi characters that authors based on straight ass men.
Will there be readers that understand this post? Hopefully! and if you still didn’t get it or wanted to try and understand it’s fine no need.
05 04,2026
So it's a smut manhwa, that guy and girl were highschool friends and when they got in college they kinda split up. There was a rumour that guy was a fuck boy and that girl didn't want to be close with him because of that reason but they'll still do some things iykyk. Guy has a dark hair and girl as I remember light hair pls pls helppp ╥﹏╥ ╥﹏╥
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05 04,2026
can i have recs where the ml has long hair in a modern setting and not historical? even better if he ties it in a bun and has genuine long hair, not a wolf cut or a shaggy cut just long hair....even better if he has cool piercings
the ones i've read are i'm not drunk and 1 to 10.....esp like the ml from i'm not drunk he's so fucking hot
this is what he looks like
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_m_not_drunk_1/uu/to_chapter-1/pg-75/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_m_not_drunk_1/uu/to_chapter-6/pg-54/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_m_not_drunk_1/uu/to_chapter-16/pg-20/
the ones i've read are i'm not drunk and 1 to 10.....esp like the ml from i'm not drunk he's so fucking hot
this is what he looks like
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_m_not_drunk_1/uu/to_chapter-1/pg-75/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_m_not_drunk_1/uu/to_chapter-6/pg-54/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_m_not_drunk_1/uu/to_chapter-16/pg-20/
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05 04,2026
was trying to turn on my broken computer so that i can see my pass on my space but it wont open for some reason then i told myself might as well make a new acc, when i found out that they turned it into an invite only
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05 04,2026
All of my want to read, reading, and already read list are gone and have been gone for like months. I had so much stuff that i dont remember that names too lowkey might just stop reading all together cuz idk when or if its going to be fixed and i had years worth of stuff man…
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This can be any kind of manga/ manhwa/ manhua in any genre that you are currently reading, and I would love to know why the story resonates with you.
I'll give mine (I have a couple but I'll keep it to three):
1) My Sadistic Master. Consensual BDSM is a win in my book and I love seeing two people form a healthy bond for their kinks (and each other). Currently my comfort BL.
2) My S-Class Hunters. All-time favorite manhwa, focuses on family/ chosen family and helping others as well as focus on MC's development and goals (plus everyone is pretty, men and women in equal measure). It's also insanely funny.
3) Frieren. She probably clicks for me the most in terms of just wanting to journey through life with close friends.
I'll give mine (I have a couple but I'll keep it to three):
1) My Sadistic Master. Consensual BDSM is a win in my book and I love seeing two people form a healthy bond for their kinks (and each other). Currently my comfort BL.
2) My S-Class Hunters. All-time favorite manhwa, focuses on family/ chosen family and helping others as well as focus on MC's development and goals (plus everyone is pretty, men and women in equal measure). It's also insanely funny.
3) Frieren. She probably clicks for me the most in terms of just wanting to journey through life with close friends.
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05 04,2026
I never thought I would see the day. I feel like I grew up with ao3 mane. I'm so proud of them. I'll wear my 'here since beta' badge with honor.
AO3 IS UP NOW
AO3 IS UP NOW
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05 04,2026
My period cramps are so bad right now that I feel sick I'm out of painkillers and I don't have a hot water bottle either... I don't know what to do
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05 04,2026
Who between Zhenya and Taekjoo & Ilay and Tae is your favorite couple?
I’m asking this question to novel readers since we’ve already been through the good, the bad and the ugly, and have seen these 2 couples being lovey-dovey after their tumultuous starts, so I’ve been wondering:
Do you have a favorite?
I’m not even talking about what story you like better, just the pairings.
I can’t readily decide, but I’m sure some of you do have a fave.
I’m curious to see who people prefer.
I’m asking this question to novel readers since we’ve already been through the good, the bad and the ugly, and have seen these 2 couples being lovey-dovey after their tumultuous starts, so I’ve been wondering:
Do you have a favorite?
I’m not even talking about what story you like better, just the pairings.
I can’t readily decide, but I’m sure some of you do have a fave.
I’m curious to see who people prefer.
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And the reason is because they didn't even animate the octopus scene. It's a literal fanservice btw of a highschool (?) student. Like fym ur sad and disappointed it isn't following the manga??? Damn I never read the manga so don't know how weird this could get but I'm glad the anime is taking the cute romance approach so far. This is why so much ppl hate on BL fans man.
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05 04,2026
If you had to list three must read manhwas of all time, what would they be? For sure I'd say: Homeless/No Home, Murderer Llewellyn's and whale star.
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05 04,2026
a while back all of my stuff from my want to read, reading and already read completely disappeared and i just havent read anything since then or even touched this site.
did anyones stuff ever come back to them or did anyone else have this happen?? only 9 of mine came back...
did anyones stuff ever come back to them or did anyone else have this happen?? only 9 of mine came back...
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05 04,2026
Man I’m so done with this bullshit, everything is already male centered literally the whole fucking world is. How the fuck do dumb retards think having an interest for yaoi is the same as being a pickmeisha whore. I hate men I hate men they r fucking evil worse than devils. Like I can’t give one single fuck about these disgusting bastards and the BL community is like the ONLY community that exist and is dominated by women(thank gosh). Gay men and yaoi men aren’t even the same shit one is fictional for coping fantasy bc the cruelty of the world and the other one is the Irl of the shit. The only thing they both have in common is that these toxic yaoi characters and irl males are still bastards in the end of the day.
I only can be friends with gay men, not straight bastards and a gay man that actually cares for women will straight up tell you men ain’t fucking shit. I love my gay friends and even then the misogyny is leaking from em. But hey at least some of them know men are disgusting beings. Sometimes I wonder if yaoi female readers genuinely give a shit abt irl men. Being called a fetishizer for reading yaoi when I wish all men would just die.
I only can be friends with gay men, not straight bastards and a gay man that actually cares for women will straight up tell you men ain’t fucking shit. I love my gay friends and even then the misogyny is leaking from em. But hey at least some of them know men are disgusting beings. Sometimes I wonder if yaoi female readers genuinely give a shit abt irl men. Being called a fetishizer for reading yaoi when I wish all men would just die.
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04 04,2026
I'm about to apply for college and I chose to do law, and my family fully supports this decision and even suggested for me to take international law instead of domestic, any thoughts on this matter and how I should prepare? (I'm studying law in Asia but taking my master degree in Europe.)
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My favorite right now is idols!!! I find it very cool and interesting, and their interactions and dynamics between other characters. Romance or not! I also love fangirling on the idols too even if they're not real. It honestly just wants me to love the characters more haha. Recommendations are fine!
First time writing a question thing on here, sorry if I do anything wrong.
First time writing a question thing on here, sorry if I do anything wrong.
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04 04,2026
Well I want to rant and share my experience reading mangas/manhuas/manhwas. Here the list of my hated plot
1. I hate mangas/manhuas/manhwas that has reincarnated mc and gets killed and betrayed by their partner. After that vowed to never return and love that guy but then falls in love with the same guy cause he treated her differently. Umm wtf girl that guy killed you??. Why are you falling in love with your killer, abuser ? Girlie I think you need help from the psychiatrist or whatever.
2. Another thing that I hate is mc being reincarnated and vowed to make revenge. This type of plot is very common but the only thing that keeps the story if going is revenge like her gift of 2nd life is only revenge, I don't really like this kind of plot maybe for some they would like but not for me.
3. Another kind of story that I hate is fast paced revenge like literally fast paced. It's nice tho cause its fast and mostly very short but because of how fast the story goes. Loopholes of the story occurs that gives me many questions after reading the ending or last chapter.
4. Another is reincarnated mc vowed to protect their loved ones but gets diverted to the improvement of their talents (like singing etc.) with no progress about who is the killer , who kills whom like that how does singing protect your family???
1. I hate mangas/manhuas/manhwas that has reincarnated mc and gets killed and betrayed by their partner. After that vowed to never return and love that guy but then falls in love with the same guy cause he treated her differently. Umm wtf girl that guy killed you??. Why are you falling in love with your killer, abuser ? Girlie I think you need help from the psychiatrist or whatever.
2. Another thing that I hate is mc being reincarnated and vowed to make revenge. This type of plot is very common but the only thing that keeps the story if going is revenge like her gift of 2nd life is only revenge, I don't really like this kind of plot maybe for some they would like but not for me.
3. Another kind of story that I hate is fast paced revenge like literally fast paced. It's nice tho cause its fast and mostly very short but because of how fast the story goes. Loopholes of the story occurs that gives me many questions after reading the ending or last chapter.
4. Another is reincarnated mc vowed to protect their loved ones but gets diverted to the improvement of their talents (like singing etc.) with no progress about who is the killer , who kills whom like that how does singing protect your family???
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04 04,2026
Can anyone PLEASEEE give me a yaoi manga manhwa manhua whatever recommendations where the bottom is a brat. Like I feel like i’ve read all of them out there but i know haven’t! Especially when the bottom has dyed hair and piercings, like a more experienced bratty bottom!! Also i’m looking for high ego nerd bottoms where they’re basically all full of themselves and they end up getting pounded and put in their place!! yeah basically just need recs where the bottoms are bratty and bitchy thanks! :3
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I am bored as hell and choosing to ignore the absolute unit of a mountain that is my want to read list, so I want some one-shot recommendations.
It can be any genre (for example action, psychological, comedy, etc.), if you're recommending a romance it can be any pairing (ie. straight, BL, GL), BUT PLEASE DON'T RECOMMEND ANY PORN WITHOUT PLOT STORIES. Also I hate reading doujinshis (the shipping kind [SatoSugu, FarCille, uhmm idk any straight ships but I think you get what I mean, yeah?]) so none of those either, please.
It can be any genre (for example action, psychological, comedy, etc.), if you're recommending a romance it can be any pairing (ie. straight, BL, GL), BUT PLEASE DON'T RECOMMEND ANY PORN WITHOUT PLOT STORIES. Also I hate reading doujinshis (the shipping kind [SatoSugu, FarCille, uhmm idk any straight ships but I think you get what I mean, yeah?]) so none of those either, please.
