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17 06,2026
Is there any (dark skin x dark skin) main leads? there is always (white skin x dark skin) leads, with the MC always being the whiter one.
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I want to confess something cruel inside me that I've been hiding. It contains sensitive content about gender and sexuality, and if you're someone who struggles or struggled before, maybe it's not good for you to read my confession because I could be insensitive and slightly homophobic along the lines. But if you're okay with that, then you may proceed. Just please, if you disagree with me, I beg you not to attack me too harshly. And I know it's probably best to send it to R*ddit, but I think this is the right place to do it.
Well then, I'll try my best to keep it compact.
I've (20F) grown up in a conservative religious family, where gender determines how we act and what we do. I've always been able to accept it, not ever questioning why I'm born as a female and not a male, because it's always been like that for me.
As I grew up, I eventually realized that I'm attracted to both girls and boys. I first noticed it when I was young and developed a crush on a girl. Later, I also realized I was still attracted to boys, and after another crush on a girl during middle school, I became certain that I was bisexual (or maybe pansexual, because gender has never really mattered much to me).
Even when I discovered my sexuality quite young, I accepted it with no problems. I never felt the need to come out because I don't really see why people need to know what I'm attracted to.
At the same time, however, my brother struggled with his gender and sexuality. I could see how much it affected him. I understood his frustration, especially the feeling that maybe life would've been easier if he had been born a girl. Eventually, he made peace with it and accepted himself, even when my parents didn't. I accepted him too, and he also knows about my sexuality.
However, despite all that, there is still something that bothers me. While I'm open about people in the LGBTQ+ community, I've never been able to understand one particular thing: gender identity.
Like I said before, I've always accepted my gender because it simply is what it is. I learned about intersex people when I was younger, and I understand how people can be categorized as intersex biologically and medically. What I don't understand is why some people say they feel different from the gender they were assigned at birth, which often leads them to identify as transgender or nonbinary.
No matter how I look at it, I can't seem to understand why they feel different. I understand when people express frustration with their gender because of their sexuality and sometimes wish they had been born another gender. But people who are confused about their gender itself genuinely confuse me. Sometimes I want to blurt out, "What is there to be confused about?" But I know I can't say that because I don't really know what they're experiencing internally.
I've seen a few manga and films that use the topic of "gender confusion/questioning." I've tried to understand through it, because I can see things through their POV, but I still can't. I would think like, "I don't get why they're confused when they don't really have intersex problems; it's just a mental thing. Can't they just go to therapy and work it out?". And whenever thoughts like that cross my mind, I get mad at myself, because I know mental and psychological issues are real things and affect all of us, and we can't judge other people just like that. But I can't keep lying to myself that whenever I see that topic, these thoughts don't cross my mind, these horrible thoughts. It's like I'm being insensitive and inconsiderate, and I feel horrible every time. I'm scared of becoming narrow-minded and hurting someone because of my ignorance.
I know I look like a fool, but this is a big deal for me. Because since I was a kid, I've been able to easily accept and understand things, so why is this one thing that I can't seem to understand? What should I do to make myself more understanding? Am I hopeless? Are you disgusted?
Well then, I'll try my best to keep it compact.
I've (20F) grown up in a conservative religious family, where gender determines how we act and what we do. I've always been able to accept it, not ever questioning why I'm born as a female and not a male, because it's always been like that for me.
As I grew up, I eventually realized that I'm attracted to both girls and boys. I first noticed it when I was young and developed a crush on a girl. Later, I also realized I was still attracted to boys, and after another crush on a girl during middle school, I became certain that I was bisexual (or maybe pansexual, because gender has never really mattered much to me).
Even when I discovered my sexuality quite young, I accepted it with no problems. I never felt the need to come out because I don't really see why people need to know what I'm attracted to.
At the same time, however, my brother struggled with his gender and sexuality. I could see how much it affected him. I understood his frustration, especially the feeling that maybe life would've been easier if he had been born a girl. Eventually, he made peace with it and accepted himself, even when my parents didn't. I accepted him too, and he also knows about my sexuality.
However, despite all that, there is still something that bothers me. While I'm open about people in the LGBTQ+ community, I've never been able to understand one particular thing: gender identity.
Like I said before, I've always accepted my gender because it simply is what it is. I learned about intersex people when I was younger, and I understand how people can be categorized as intersex biologically and medically. What I don't understand is why some people say they feel different from the gender they were assigned at birth, which often leads them to identify as transgender or nonbinary.
No matter how I look at it, I can't seem to understand why they feel different. I understand when people express frustration with their gender because of their sexuality and sometimes wish they had been born another gender. But people who are confused about their gender itself genuinely confuse me. Sometimes I want to blurt out, "What is there to be confused about?" But I know I can't say that because I don't really know what they're experiencing internally.
I've seen a few manga and films that use the topic of "gender confusion/questioning." I've tried to understand through it, because I can see things through their POV, but I still can't. I would think like, "I don't get why they're confused when they don't really have intersex problems; it's just a mental thing. Can't they just go to therapy and work it out?". And whenever thoughts like that cross my mind, I get mad at myself, because I know mental and psychological issues are real things and affect all of us, and we can't judge other people just like that. But I can't keep lying to myself that whenever I see that topic, these thoughts don't cross my mind, these horrible thoughts. It's like I'm being insensitive and inconsiderate, and I feel horrible every time. I'm scared of becoming narrow-minded and hurting someone because of my ignorance.
I know I look like a fool, but this is a big deal for me. Because since I was a kid, I've been able to easily accept and understand things, so why is this one thing that I can't seem to understand? What should I do to make myself more understanding? Am I hopeless? Are you disgusted?
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17 06,2026
to add to the holy trinity of "what was your first"
mine was tgcf hehe
mine was tgcf hehe
17 06,2026
Please help me find this yaoj manhwa where the mc and ml where friends and then they went for a drink and have a one night stand but the ml thinks that he have done it with a girl and only the mc knows that it's the two of them and he lies that the ml has done it with a girl and then the ml wants to experience it but with the mc so that he can recall the experience that day, that's all i know about it so please help me find it it's kind of uncensored too i think
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17 06,2026
I need help, what manhwa is this? I only remember that the FL translated some kind of old ancient language and then the head priest (maybe?) told her to call him grandfather?? its an old manhwa and I'm hoping to read it again.
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17 06,2026
Is it just me or is everything on here like loading crazy slow, especially the pages.
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17 06,2026
I remember back in 2020 my of my first manwha was Dam of the forest although i haven't finished it yet its alr completed, I'm curious on what were people's first manwha was. what's yours?
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Has anyone else noticed a shift in the ratings on here?
This may be me noticing patterns that don't actually exist, but I swear only a few months ago, most popular mangas/manhwas would be rated 9.0+ and now they are all much lower.
If this is true and anyone has any thoughts on why I would also love to hear your thoughts. But if this is untrue I'm just being silly don't make fun of me lol!
This may be me noticing patterns that don't actually exist, but I swear only a few months ago, most popular mangas/manhwas would be rated 9.0+ and now they are all much lower.
If this is true and anyone has any thoughts on why I would also love to hear your thoughts. But if this is untrue I'm just being silly don't make fun of me lol!
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16 06,2026
My fuckass Android decided that it's finally time to die, now I'm left with an old family phone and it's an iPhone and lemme tell you how annoying it is to used,you can't download YouTube on that fuckass phone and gotta use safari too what's worse is that I can't listen to music cuz you gotta have a computer to transfer all your music on the apple music and gues what my PC is broken
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16 06,2026
Look I understand the time, effort, and hardworking it goes into being scanlators trying to deliver chapters in good quality and translation WHICH IS WHY I DONT UNDERSTAND why these three groups: Kaizen, desire scans and Myth Toons keep uploading over each other?????
its kind of ridiculous to waste your own efforts instead of just delegating the bls. LIKE PLEASEEEEE im tired of seeing this threesome happening under almost most of the bls im readingggggg. guys lets not do this anymore lets talk it out.... or maybe im the only one caught 4th wheeling this poly relationship lmao
its kind of ridiculous to waste your own efforts instead of just delegating the bls. LIKE PLEASEEEEE im tired of seeing this threesome happening under almost most of the bls im readingggggg. guys lets not do this anymore lets talk it out.... or maybe im the only one caught 4th wheeling this poly relationship lmao
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16 06,2026
Mangago.me
Yaoiotaku.com
Okunenanime.com
Hmm....
Anyone willing to volunteer to explain this
Yaoiotaku.com
Okunenanime.com
Hmm....
Anyone willing to volunteer to explain this
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16 06,2026
hiii i’ve been trying to find this yaoi for a few days I cannot for the life of me remember the name, it was black & white and the mc was named something along the lines of woojoo/whuju. He was like the manager of the ml and the ml was like some famous author(?) or maybe an idol i don’t remember but please help
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I remember watching Undertale comic voice over when I was a child and now everytime I see one it's just straight up barely censored porn?? Like legit look up voice over comics and look at what you get. Especially this fuckass channel called Nopik or whatever
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16 06,2026
Im not thoroughly educated on the omegaverse, so please enlighten me...
Do female omegas have heat cycles and ALSO menstruation?
Thinking about that makes me wanna kms tbh lol
Do female omegas have heat cycles and ALSO menstruation?
Thinking about that makes me wanna kms tbh lol
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16 06,2026
I’ve heard of many ppl not having a dream or a plan for their future since they don’t have a passion yet. My dream is to become a psychiatrist because I love learning about human’s minds and understanding people, it may be common nowadays for people to want to be psychiatrists but there’s a reason why. It’s just so interesting. How about you? Do have a dream or not yet and why?
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16 06,2026
I cant remember the title but it was a oneshot(?) With gojo x reader where youre his wife. Its a holiday and he gifts you a lingerie set and blindfold(?). He leads you into the living room where yo proceed to give head to him, toji, sukuna, nanami, and geto, followed by a crazy orgy. Pls tell me yall have read it too
