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i've been running into this trope ALOT lately, where a top acts fucking immature and gets extremely jealous to the point he takes it out on the bottom with ''angry sex'' when it's js rape smh. there's a limit to how jealous and possessive a person can get, esp an ADULT. when it gets too much it's not hot you just need a therapist. oh and what i meant as ''a lazy plot boost'' is when they realize they like a person js cuz they feel jealous of another person getting close to them....it's just stupid bc how tf can you base your feelings off of jealousy? u might just be obsessive with abandonment issues smh, it's totally normal to feel jealous and possessive towards your partner but basing your whole love off of that? nah...if you really love them you'd trust them and respect them as a person.
and also why is it always the top getting all mad, obsessive and selfish? why, can't a bottom act like that as well? he's just supposed to stay indifferent all the time?? i've heard so many tops say ''i just want to lock you up'' ''you're mine and only mine'' ''get away from that guy, don't talk to him'' wayyy more than bottoms
it's becoming a VERY frustrating trope these days, only one i've read that was healthy enough to not resort to these cheap tricks was our sunny days tbh
and also why is it always the top getting all mad, obsessive and selfish? why, can't a bottom act like that as well? he's just supposed to stay indifferent all the time?? i've heard so many tops say ''i just want to lock you up'' ''you're mine and only mine'' ''get away from that guy, don't talk to him'' wayyy more than bottoms
it's becoming a VERY frustrating trope these days, only one i've read that was healthy enough to not resort to these cheap tricks was our sunny days tbh
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In my opinion it's original animes, animes with no mangas or books or games. Just pure original animated movies and shows. I think we are not getting enough of that nowadays.
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04 04,2026
Specifically about a person being able to change? How do you view it especially in a context where someone might have done something bad.
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Asking some questions on the forum so we can get a couple of conversations started
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04 04,2026
Any Google Chrome users experiencing only being able to access account through incognito all of a sudden? Cleared my cache might be my fault but I continuously try to login regular chrome tab and on sign in page it says if using chrome, to open and sign in through incognito??
Again maybe my fault but idk I’ve cleared my cache and cookies before and it’s never done this
Again maybe my fault but idk I’ve cleared my cache and cookies before and it’s never done this
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04 04,2026
Can you guys recommend me some good video essays that aren't just a waste of time? I feel like in the last few years video essays lost substance so i want something I can watch and that actually educates me or makes me think
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04 04,2026
Is it me only but literally each and every bl nowadays have rape,cheating,abuse,same childhood trauma and nonco every one of them?And people are brushing them off like it's nothing and they literally justify the actions with some trauma shit and give same ass excuse that it will be better in upcoming chapters
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I had a friend. We’d been friends for 9 years when she suddenly said she hated me. It’s been a few months since then. I asked her why, but she didn’t even know. She said I suddenly seemed annoying, the way I look, my gaze, my voice, how I talk, my body language, everything about me felt disgusting to her.
I mean, I kinda understand her because I don’t like my voice either. Then I talked to my mom, she gave me a new perspective and helps me open my eyes that people change, and that’s okay. I’ve forgiven her. After a year, she suddenly wanted to be friends again, lol. I didn’t hold a grudge tho, so I accepted her back.
But I still want to know how to tell when people suddenly start disliking us, so I can mentally prepare. Ngl, this shit hurts a lot than you think ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
I mean, I kinda understand her because I don’t like my voice either. Then I talked to my mom, she gave me a new perspective and helps me open my eyes that people change, and that’s okay. I’ve forgiven her. After a year, she suddenly wanted to be friends again, lol. I didn’t hold a grudge tho, so I accepted her back.
But I still want to know how to tell when people suddenly start disliking us, so I can mentally prepare. Ngl, this shit hurts a lot than you think ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
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04 04,2026
I've been looking for a girl knight references and I've been scrolling for so long and all I see is ai generated... Istg Pinterest used to be the best for art references but now it's filled with ai.
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04 04,2026
all my "Already Read" list are gone, does it happen to everyone?
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04 04,2026
Given the open opportunity of watching this movie in my aunt's house and the sheer ignorance of the residents.. I was able to actually watch this at last to silence my curiousity.
In the dance aspect, as a non dancer I can feel the rift, tension and different projection of passion from the leads. I also love the female partners of each. They have good chemistry in dance with the leads and are reasonable women. Really open to challenge and helpful to one another.
Romantically though, there is tension but the development of emotions felt random
In the dance aspect, as a non dancer I can feel the rift, tension and different projection of passion from the leads. I also love the female partners of each. They have good chemistry in dance with the leads and are reasonable women. Really open to challenge and helpful to one another.
Romantically though, there is tension but the development of emotions felt random
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04 04,2026
Tablet or laptop? I've been thinking hard about this one.. i'm planning to give present for myself on my birthday and been wanting to bought Laptop. But then i'm kinda quick to feel bored person, so buying laptop seems too excessive cuz its heavy. But i need it. In other hand, Tablet sounds better cuz its more easy to bring everywhere unlike laptop but the downside is i keep thinking that Tablet is not fit if i need to do work-related stuff. Especially i like to do things like editing, and i also plan to play game. But people around me seems using Tablet more than Laptop and i feel like i get fomo if i don't get one... but at the same time if i bought Tablet, it wouldn't be satisfy me yknow what i mean ughhh i'm so fricking confused
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04 04,2026
would anyone want to start a discord server, or is there one i can join. Where we can talk about anime, bl, or just anything? With people who are 21+.
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like genuinely, i opened my homepage and i found out my 600+ to read mangas are now down to 11. i mean...somehow the already read list is changed to 1700+....but I've been trying to find all the manhwas I've read in the latest days and couldn't find it on that list...
it would be such a shame that my whole reading list is gone from the platform...since i rarely read now and I'm trying to find what I've read years ago.
I'm wondering if there's other people experiencing this...
(mangago pls help)
it would be such a shame that my whole reading list is gone from the platform...since i rarely read now and I'm trying to find what I've read years ago.
I'm wondering if there's other people experiencing this...
(mangago pls help)
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04 04,2026
For those who don't know, catcing print is when you judge a man's dih size based on the buldge on their pants.
I personally think it's a great movement done by women. Not because I'm a pervert or anything, but because men will never understand the struggles of harassment women go through until they experience it themselves.
I see so many videos of men complaining about it online, but if only they put the same effort in defending women from it too. Now they're saying "we should all be equal!..." BUT WE LIVE IN A PATRIARCHY! The only reason why toilet paper is free is because everyone shits, but tell me why women, who suffer from menstrual pain for almost their whole lives, have to PAY for basic needs. It is ridiculous how men forget how privileged they are based on their gender.
In the end, these men will be just fine because there's so many people OUTSIDE of social media who have no clue what catching print is, unlike for women, its a worldwide experience that they get judged by the sizes of their chests/hips.
I personally think it's a great movement done by women. Not because I'm a pervert or anything, but because men will never understand the struggles of harassment women go through until they experience it themselves.
I see so many videos of men complaining about it online, but if only they put the same effort in defending women from it too. Now they're saying "we should all be equal!..." BUT WE LIVE IN A PATRIARCHY! The only reason why toilet paper is free is because everyone shits, but tell me why women, who suffer from menstrual pain for almost their whole lives, have to PAY for basic needs. It is ridiculous how men forget how privileged they are based on their gender.
In the end, these men will be just fine because there's so many people OUTSIDE of social media who have no clue what catching print is, unlike for women, its a worldwide experience that they get judged by the sizes of their chests/hips.
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ughh does anyone have any yaoi recommendations where it’s a love triangle but instead the two tops fall in love with eachother instead of falling in love with the bottom? I feel like the ones I read so far are either toxic, or just extremely short and there’s barely any out there.. every plot nowadays is literally just copy and paste especially the manhwas… please help a girl out!!
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04 04,2026
Haven't felt worse in a hot second.
I got punched in the face with a stomach virus after eating some seafood, ejecting both up and down, then shortly after recovery caught some sort of flu like my body had been eager to see a new partner.
I've been mentally drooling looking at food, ordering some, only to take a whiff and find it unappetizing and when I tried to force shovel it to my mouth, I became more disappointed.
Everything tastes like chewing on wax and the too few times something does taste good, I can't eat much before my body decides it'd like to plan a holiday to the bathroom for the 3rd time.
fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuccccccccccc
I got punched in the face with a stomach virus after eating some seafood, ejecting both up and down, then shortly after recovery caught some sort of flu like my body had been eager to see a new partner.
I've been mentally drooling looking at food, ordering some, only to take a whiff and find it unappetizing and when I tried to force shovel it to my mouth, I became more disappointed.
Everything tastes like chewing on wax and the too few times something does taste good, I can't eat much before my body decides it'd like to plan a holiday to the bathroom for the 3rd time.
fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuccccccccccc
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04 04,2026
You got offered 10 million dollars but you have to stay in island alone with your least favorite character for a year and you cannot kill or murder them, both of you have to survive together
