I've been having this issue lately, people say to "break the task down to little bits and peices" but it doesn't seem to help in my case because I can still feel how huge of a responsibility the task is no matter how small I try to break it down
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Next month, I'm going to take an exam for college. My family says that I have a really high chance of getting in, but that's not the point. If I do get in, my parents plan for me to reside in the school because the college has multiple dormitories. I'm really excited but the thing is, my older sister is already admitted to the school. She's a senior there and in addition to that, she was just recently diagnosed with depression and anxiety but she has been getting help and support from close family, including me, but despite all of this, my sister is exhaustingly not self aware, she does not know how to prioritise certain tasks, doesn't respect my personal space, and breaks down when someone raises their voice slightly at her, also goes into panic attacks because she procrastinates her school work and gets reminded of it constantly but doesn't do it. My parents and extended family want me to be in the same dorm as her, but I DON'T. I do understand that depression and anxiety are both hard things to tackle. But I want my sister to trust in herself and overcome it on her own. It almost feels like my parents want me to be in the same dorm as her to look after her because they have no trust in her at all. I do know it sounds selfish, but I think its going to be extremely draining for me to take care of her, and yes, I AM aware that she's family and I should go the extra mile. I don't even know anymore brah. Just tell me your honest opinion on what you think and maybe I'll consider everything.
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Next month, I'm going to take an exam for college. My family says that I have a really high chance of getting in, but that's not the point. If I do get in, my parents plan for me to reside in the school because the college has multiple dormitories. I'm really excited but the thing is, my older sister is already admitted to the school. She's a senior there and in addition to that, she was just recently diagnosed with depression and anxiety but she has been getting help and support from close family, including me, but despite all of this, my sister is exhaustingly not self aware, she does not know how to prioritise certain tasks, doesn't respect my personal space, and breaks down when someone raises their voice slightly at her, also goes into panic attacks because she procrastinates her school work and gets reminded of it constantly but doesn't do it. My parents and extended family want me to be in the same dorm as her, but I DON'T. I do understand that depression and anxiety are both hard things to tackle. But I want my sister to trust in herself and overcome it on her own. It almost feels like my parents want me to be in the same dorm as her to look after her because they have no trust in her at all. I do know it sounds selfish, but I think its going to be extremely draining for me to take care of her, and yes, I AM aware that she's family and I should go the extra mile. I don't even know anymore brah. Just tell me your honest opinion on what you think and maybe I'll consider everything.
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this is embarrassing but how to tell my person that I like them indirectly, please help a girl out!!!
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Does anyone know how to like, upload pages? I mean I know how to do that, but how to you create it? I know how to upload but I don't know how to make the page to upload the chapters to..
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i've been a gacha kid since i was 12 and i decided to revisit the community to see what they were up to and oh my god??? the tweening and the art developed SO MUCH and the movies are top quality too??? like i'm not kidding the art is on par with alot of good manhwa artists and even better too!!! you guys are supposed to be cringe teenagers
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(TW: su!cidal thoughts) I realized recently I feel so much shame being perceived by others. I'll meet with an old friend and the entire next month I'm completely crushed by shame that they saw me. It's not just because of my lack of achievement, being seen at all humiliates me. I can't imagine living without this shame, it's been growing for as long as I can remember and trying to get rid of it feels impossible and dangerous to myself. I'm stuck now trying to figure out whether to accept the loneliness I feel all the time and try to live completely by myself or to keep meeting with people even though every time nearly kills me. This question's been on my mind for months and I haven't been able to do anything because of it. What would you do next if you had my mind? (yes, I'm seeing a therapist)
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OMG GUYS AO3 IS FINALLY OUT OF THE BETA STAGE AFTER 17 YEARS. I find it so funny they do this right after changing it to omega for April fools lmao
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I made the mistake of accidentally rubbing my clitoris on the kitchen countertop this morning, and now my pussy is dripping at work. Someone come here ASAP and make it stop. Email me.
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Just wanted to share some positive. Life is going so good for me! I've been going out regularly, i also went to kennel (if that's the correct word) to look for a dog (I'm still looking ( ╹▽╹ )) and my dad gave me free use of his card so I can buy whatever i want! I love my life
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What’s the best site to use to pirate movies? I wanna watch Scream but YouTube’s missing some scenes I think. Thanks!
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ok so basically its set in a dystopia world where these government bots roam around "helping" civilians. mc sees his bestfriend get killed by one of these bots in broad daylight but everyone forgets abt it, acting like nothing happened. he then goes on a little journey to find out whats REALLY going on. the genre is thriller horror mystery?? also the bots kill humans to turn them into some sort of fuel l.
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Just realized this year marks the tenth year I've been on this site. Everybody pls give me a short 1 to 5 chapter story I should read to celebrate. Thanks! ✧｡٩(ˊᗜˋ )و✧*｡
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A line that's forever stuck with me is when Mo Guanshan said to He Tian, "Don't look at me with eyes of charity" and also him saying to He Tian "standing with you makes me feel like failure!".
He's so precious, I love little mo!
He's so precious, I love little mo!
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I don't understand how people date. My first relationship, very first relationship, was a seriously toxic one. And now I don't want to date again. I don't know how to describe it, but I'll like someone, but I'd just wanna flirt and tease each other without labels bro, this is embarrassing to admit but I hate commitment because I just can't take people seriously when they get so butt hurt over the smallest shit and start arguments. Whenever I like someone, I don't like going far with it, especially if they're the type of person to get heavily jealous. I'm a laid back person, I rarely care about anything, and I want a partner like that, but these days people are SHIT, HOW DO YOU DATE IN THIS GENERATION? I'M NOT DOWNLOADING WIZZ BRO. Maybe I just want more people to talk too, but bruh, seriously, how do you date in this generation? ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
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IM desperately trying to figure out if i can transfer my lists here onto other places cause ever since it got wiped ive be so weary of saving things i read. Not only that but the website i was using to watch anime got shutdown so the watchlist for that is gone.. sigh is this the end of an era..
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I know it’s a pretty controversial manga… also why did it get removed from this site?
I just gave it a reread, I loved it in 2020 and I still love it now. As someone who experienced csa and Stockholm syndrome, I love reading csa media and I feel like Nii-Chan is prob one of the best written ones out there.
I feel like a lot of ppl argue that it’s romanticized bc the abuser and the victim actually end up in a relationship, and view ther relationship as “normal”.
But that shit really happens irl, so I don’t get why depicting that makes it romanticized. Also I heard that it’s also considered romanticized bc it had intimate scenes but I’d argue that there’s a contrast in all the intimate scenes, the scene where Yui was a child was not a very detailed scene in comparison to when Yui and Kei r actually tg and it’s far more detailed. I think it reflect the shift in their dynamic, although their relationship is still fucked up I think it’s interesting.
I also wanted to bring up the intimate scenes bc ppl called Harada a shotacon bc of the rape scene when Yui was a child… but it wasn’t even detailed, so im confused on how she’s a shotacon for that and the scene that depicted Kei’s experience w csa also wasn’t detailed.
Harada does gloss over a lot of topics in her works which is very questionable, but I haven’t seen any evidence for the accusation of her being a shotacon beyond Nii-Chan… which doesn’t even romanticize csa so I just want to know if there’s any actual substance behind that accusation besides Nii-Chan?
I just gave it a reread, I loved it in 2020 and I still love it now. As someone who experienced csa and Stockholm syndrome, I love reading csa media and I feel like Nii-Chan is prob one of the best written ones out there.
I feel like a lot of ppl argue that it’s romanticized bc the abuser and the victim actually end up in a relationship, and view ther relationship as “normal”.
But that shit really happens irl, so I don’t get why depicting that makes it romanticized. Also I heard that it’s also considered romanticized bc it had intimate scenes but I’d argue that there’s a contrast in all the intimate scenes, the scene where Yui was a child was not a very detailed scene in comparison to when Yui and Kei r actually tg and it’s far more detailed. I think it reflect the shift in their dynamic, although their relationship is still fucked up I think it’s interesting.
I also wanted to bring up the intimate scenes bc ppl called Harada a shotacon bc of the rape scene when Yui was a child… but it wasn’t even detailed, so im confused on how she’s a shotacon for that and the scene that depicted Kei’s experience w csa also wasn’t detailed.
Harada does gloss over a lot of topics in her works which is very questionable, but I haven’t seen any evidence for the accusation of her being a shotacon beyond Nii-Chan… which doesn’t even romanticize csa so I just want to know if there’s any actual substance behind that accusation besides Nii-Chan?
