about first kiss
27 03,2019
Halooo fellow indonesians aku mau buat grup line bl + animanga syaratnya cukup harus heboh, aktif, jangan biarin grupnya mati, be respectful, usia 20 ke atas yaa (im 26) reply or message if interested!!
about first kiss
about a line group chat
26 03,2019
Hello! I've been reading yaoi since a decade ago (lol yes i'm quite old) but none of my friends share my interest in it. I'm looking forward to meeting new friends here who love yaoi and want to scream with/at me about it! If you're interested, drop your Line ID and I'll add you! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
about first kiss
26 03,2019
hi dudes, i got very pissed off about something today, so i'm going to make some topics to make my thoughts organized and brief.
•brazil is a big mix of races all bc of the colonization shit (the europeans raped our natives and the black women who were slaves here), so it's impossible to define a characteristic of a brazillian person.
•because of that, it's common to tell "what a person are" by the color of their skin, and not by where they came from (ethnically). it's a pretty shitty method.
•today i saw some ppl discussing on twitter if zayn from oned is white or not: some saying he isn't, bc he has pakistani ancestry and others saying he is white bc he has light skin and bc "he doesn't look like a pakistani and was born in england".
•so does it means a black woman, who is sure where she came from but is born lighter skinned, is automatically less black than the others born with darker skin? and what if a white girl fucking burns her skin with tan and shows off her toasted ass, it makes her less white just bc her skin is darker? IT'S LITERALLY WHAT THAT GIRL WAS SAYING.
•this doesn't make sense. this kind of ppl don't realize how fucking racist they're being, they don't have a single bit of empathy, they don't even put themselves in other people's shoes but have the courage to say shit like this. they're literally judging a book by its cover.
idk if i was clear and if it makes sense, i don't even know if i'm right, but now i want to know your point of view. is your country racist and xenophobic like this too or it has a remaining of hope? tell me about any experiences please, i'm very curious about others perspectives and opinions.
•brazil is a big mix of races all bc of the colonization shit (the europeans raped our natives and the black women who were slaves here), so it's impossible to define a characteristic of a brazillian person.
•because of that, it's common to tell "what a person are" by the color of their skin, and not by where they came from (ethnically). it's a pretty shitty method.
•today i saw some ppl discussing on twitter if zayn from oned is white or not: some saying he isn't, bc he has pakistani ancestry and others saying he is white bc he has light skin and bc "he doesn't look like a pakistani and was born in england".
•so does it means a black woman, who is sure where she came from but is born lighter skinned, is automatically less black than the others born with darker skin? and what if a white girl fucking burns her skin with tan and shows off her toasted ass, it makes her less white just bc her skin is darker? IT'S LITERALLY WHAT THAT GIRL WAS SAYING.
•this doesn't make sense. this kind of ppl don't realize how fucking racist they're being, they don't have a single bit of empathy, they don't even put themselves in other people's shoes but have the courage to say shit like this. they're literally judging a book by its cover.
idk if i was clear and if it makes sense, i don't even know if i'm right, but now i want to know your point of view. is your country racist and xenophobic like this too or it has a remaining of hope? tell me about any experiences please, i'm very curious about others perspectives and opinions.
about discuss psychopaths
So as many of you know, Killing Stalking is just about to end. SPOILER: the psycho guy dies. One of the things that people in the chaotic comment section argues about is whether or not the guy deserved to die.
How should people deal with psychopaths? It's a biological flaw, right? Something is different and wrong with their brains. A superficial google search tells us that psychopathy is a brain wiring dysfunction. Psychopaths lack empathy and have a poor sense of preservation, which make them not care too much/ at all about the consequences of their actions. Oftentimes, they are very narcissistic, and like instant rewards for their actions.
So we can't blame psychopath babies for being born with the brain they have, can we? They're not inherently evil, they're just wired differently. And it's true, many criminals are found to be psychopaths.
But I've also read articles about people diagnosed with it who successfully and continuously receive help, and are living their lives normally. I'm trying to be a neutral as possible here. What if I have a child someday, and I notice him exhibiting psychopatic behaviors?
I guess the responsible thing to do is for parents to seek for professional help when their kids are acting all sorts of crazy. Pay attention to them and all that.
But what about those psychopaths that don't have attentive parents? What about those that grew up in abusive homes? There are plenty of criminals who didn't even know they're psychopaths. Make no mistake, Im not saying psychopaths shouldn't be punished based on their wrongdoings. Fuck no. Biological flaw or not, they can still choose to not do something. Let's go back to Killing Stalking, and take Sang Woo as an example. Say he wasnt injured in the fire and was able to face a trial.
How should he be punished? There's no question about him being jailed, he fucking deserved it. But should he be subjected to death penalty? I thought maybe he should serve his lifetime sentence in a facility where he can also get treatment. There are existing laws about sentencing people with mental illness, afterall. But what do you guys think?
How should people deal with psychopaths? It's a biological flaw, right? Something is different and wrong with their brains. A superficial google search tells us that psychopathy is a brain wiring dysfunction. Psychopaths lack empathy and have a poor sense of preservation, which make them not care too much/ at all about the consequences of their actions. Oftentimes, they are very narcissistic, and like instant rewards for their actions.
So we can't blame psychopath babies for being born with the brain they have, can we? They're not inherently evil, they're just wired differently. And it's true, many criminals are found to be psychopaths.
But I've also read articles about people diagnosed with it who successfully and continuously receive help, and are living their lives normally. I'm trying to be a neutral as possible here. What if I have a child someday, and I notice him exhibiting psychopatic behaviors?
I guess the responsible thing to do is for parents to seek for professional help when their kids are acting all sorts of crazy. Pay attention to them and all that.
But what about those psychopaths that don't have attentive parents? What about those that grew up in abusive homes? There are plenty of criminals who didn't even know they're psychopaths. Make no mistake, Im not saying psychopaths shouldn't be punished based on their wrongdoings. Fuck no. Biological flaw or not, they can still choose to not do something. Let's go back to Killing Stalking, and take Sang Woo as an example. Say he wasnt injured in the fire and was able to face a trial.
How should he be punished? There's no question about him being jailed, he fucking deserved it. But should he be subjected to death penalty? I thought maybe he should serve his lifetime sentence in a facility where he can also get treatment. There are existing laws about sentencing people with mental illness, afterall. But what do you guys think?
about first kiss
24 03,2019
What was the your first anime/manga? Did you know what was that? Or just find in internet and tried it? Or did soemone recommend it?
about discord server
24 03,2019
Heyo~
So I've seen a lot of huuuuuge discord servers where it can be kind of hard to talk or get a word in. That's why we've got a small server where we can talk about yaoi, or shoujo, or whatever the hell you want really. It's an open space to just chat and be friendly~ We're aiming to have around 8 to 10 people so we can all get to know each other and become friends :D
If you're interested, comment below and I'll send an invite!
So I've seen a lot of huuuuuge discord servers where it can be kind of hard to talk or get a word in. That's why we've got a small server where we can talk about yaoi, or shoujo, or whatever the hell you want really. It's an open space to just chat and be friendly~ We're aiming to have around 8 to 10 people so we can all get to know each other and become friends :D
If you're interested, comment below and I'll send an invite!
about have sex
23 03,2019
I just want to know what is your situation linked to this subjet. If you're someone who's aware of bullying (was), if you're being bullied (was), if you are a bully (was), i would like to hear your point of view or even your story.
To be honnest, I became interrested into the bullying subjet because I realized that a kid in my class in middle school was bullied by some students (isolated). Back then, I didn't liked him and I moked him for being who he was. I thought he was weird.
So I want to understand more about the situation he, the bullies and me where in.
thanks in advance.
To be honnest, I became interrested into the bullying subjet because I realized that a kid in my class in middle school was bullied by some students (isolated). Back then, I didn't liked him and I moked him for being who he was. I thought he was weird.
So I want to understand more about the situation he, the bullies and me where in.
thanks in advance.
about penpals
23 03,2019
Hey fellow mangago comrade,
Im Aki, some of you probably remember me from posting a whatsapp group a couple weeks ago asking yall to join it. well some did and we became friends. I have never thought that this yaoi loving group can be so entertaining, encouraging and plainly fun.
So I decide to make another group, a big one where people from mangago gather and talk about yaoi as you want without getting judge, share your stories with either visually or verbally, and be there for our fellow fujuoshi.
My goal for this group is to let yourself be you and hv someone to talk to. So feel free to join my discord group n enjoy yourself there.
link: https://discord.gg/eVqYRZf
Im Aki, some of you probably remember me from posting a whatsapp group a couple weeks ago asking yall to join it. well some did and we became friends. I have never thought that this yaoi loving group can be so entertaining, encouraging and plainly fun.
So I decide to make another group, a big one where people from mangago gather and talk about yaoi as you want without getting judge, share your stories with either visually or verbally, and be there for our fellow fujuoshi.
My goal for this group is to let yourself be you and hv someone to talk to. So feel free to join my discord group n enjoy yourself there.
link: https://discord.gg/eVqYRZf
about learning korean
22 03,2019
Hello people who are reading this. I'd really like to learn Korean but because this is going to be my first language that I have to learn on my own, I'm not so sure how to do that. I know there are many apps out there which want to help you with learning languages, do they really help? And if yes which do you recommend?
Anyways, I'd be really thankfull if someone can help me out a bit! :)
Anyways, I'd be really thankfull if someone can help me out a bit! :)
about favorite genre of yaoi
I would love to know what kinds of Yaoi others love the most, other than the obvious. I love psychological, drama, rape, fantasy, yazuka, smut, mature/adult. Sometimes I'll go for the sweetly romantic ones, but once in a while.
I'm always curious about what others would call their favorite types of yaoi, whether its even a named sub-genre or not! Tell me :)
But please zero allowed kink shaming, don't answer or put down negative comments to anyone's answer. If you don't like someones likes, then dont answer.
This is a free openminded question! I've liked shota, rape, hardcore bdsm, threesomes, torture, stockholm, urethra play, etc. Sooo... I'm definitely asking about what others like completely sincerely.
I'm always curious about what others would call their favorite types of yaoi, whether its even a named sub-genre or not! Tell me :)
But please zero allowed kink shaming, don't answer or put down negative comments to anyone's answer. If you don't like someones likes, then dont answer.
This is a free openminded question! I've liked shota, rape, hardcore bdsm, threesomes, torture, stockholm, urethra play, etc. Sooo... I'm definitely asking about what others like completely sincerely.
about penpals
20 03,2019
hi so I love yaoi and all but I really getting sick of the romanticised rape/pedophilia tropes in like half of those mangas or manhwas, most gc i was in were just people who love those stories and i felt weird being in them I know I'm not the only one who is so I was hoping we can make a group chat together and share nice manga/manhwas that are not so awful and make friends who share same opinion on this matter!!
if you want to be added pls leave you LINE ID and I'll add once we have more than 5 people age and gender doesn't matter so it's okay for anyone to reply :D
ps: please don't reply your ID if you enjoy those rape/pedo tropes or tolerate them to save me and your self the awkwardness :)
if you want to be added pls leave you LINE ID and I'll add once we have more than 5 people age and gender doesn't matter so it's okay for anyone to reply :D
ps: please don't reply your ID if you enjoy those rape/pedo tropes or tolerate them to save me and your self the awkwardness :)
about favorite yaoi manga
19 03,2019
1. How did yu become a fujoshi/fudanshi?
2. How open are you about yaoi to others?
.......
1. So mine happened after i watched Yumeiro Patissiere and was looking for similar recommendation at....well, google images. And then I ended up having results where Yuri Hime Wildrose is mixed in. And then my curiosity gave in to a whole new genre. So i started searching about it. I still didnt know about manga sites back then and i dont know about yuri and yaoi as another type of genre so i was like searching for lesbian manga hahahaha. And then the oh so genius google let me stumble up with image results where Koisuru Boukun is mixed in. And it is when it all started. Now i already reached hardcore stuff i cant return hahahahaha
2. So the thing is about google images is...it did help me find this oh so good genre called yaoi but it also got me busted. my parents who were outside the house that time which i thought they have this very poor eyesight. they are not even inside the house! hahaha. but they caught me googling indecent yaoi photos. i didnt even open the pics just scrolling them and they still saw it hahaha. so then we had a talk about it and as long as i dont practice the things i read in real life not until im of age then they allow it *whew*. Since then my whole family knew and i had no reason to cover it anymore. so I'm very very open about my love of yaoi even to perfect strangers. i talk about it but i still read secretly in public. to each their own some may say but i still have a slight decent conscience hahahahaha
2. How open are you about yaoi to others?
.......
1. So mine happened after i watched Yumeiro Patissiere and was looking for similar recommendation at....well, google images. And then I ended up having results where Yuri Hime Wildrose is mixed in. And then my curiosity gave in to a whole new genre. So i started searching about it. I still didnt know about manga sites back then and i dont know about yuri and yaoi as another type of genre so i was like searching for lesbian manga hahahaha. And then the oh so genius google let me stumble up with image results where Koisuru Boukun is mixed in. And it is when it all started. Now i already reached hardcore stuff i cant return hahahahaha
2. So the thing is about google images is...it did help me find this oh so good genre called yaoi but it also got me busted. my parents who were outside the house that time which i thought they have this very poor eyesight. they are not even inside the house! hahaha. but they caught me googling indecent yaoi photos. i didnt even open the pics just scrolling them and they still saw it hahaha. so then we had a talk about it and as long as i dont practice the things i read in real life not until im of age then they allow it *whew*. Since then my whole family knew and i had no reason to cover it anymore. so I'm very very open about my love of yaoi even to perfect strangers. i talk about it but i still read secretly in public. to each their own some may say but i still have a slight decent conscience hahahahaha
about get to know you
Im curious as many people seem jealous of those who are naturally thin. I am naturally skinny thanks to a high metabolism so not only do I eat a lot, but I also never seem to gain weight. Sounds great probably, yet I will often loose weight (literal pounds at a time) when I miss a meal. Similarly I was in pre-comp swimming for a while and, although I had excellent form and enough muscle I was unable to swim for long before I completely ran out of energy.
Size 0 clothing is the only cloting that fits and, even then there is probably some extra space. I am also blessed with height, however, so I wear large shirts so that I dont freeze, after all my lanky arms are both long and thin. In other words, the larger the shirt the longer the length and the more it will cover my thin skinned, freezing self. I do keep fit, not super fit (I dont have defined abs. . . Even if my slouch marks create the illusion that I do.) But some of my weight is probably from muscle. Around 107-109 pounds is my average weight so. . . Probably 15-20 pounds of that is muscle.
I eat. I don't always eat a lot, but I can. For example a large pizza can sometimes be finished in a single sitting, other times it takes 2 trips. It often depends on the day, the more I do the more I eat, so the less I do the less I eat. If I think too much one day I can eat 2 dinners, if I am doing something that requires physical strength I will probably eat 2 dinners and a snack, and, if im just lazing around I will probably only eat 1 dinner. That's my personal experience however.
Skinny runs in my family, my mother was stick skinny till she got pregnant, my father is quite thin, I am very thin, and so are my siblings. Fun fact: doctors used to think we were malnourished when we were small because we never seem to gain weight. The special diets never did anything. We do eat well tho; heavy meals, lots of veggies, balanced meals, fruits, and snacks are a lot of what we eat.
Yes, I can eat as much fatty foods, junk foods, and processed foods as I want without gaining any weight. I choose not to, however, as most processed foods, fatty foods, and snacks make me sick to my stomach. Lucky me born with both looks and a keen palate. Ever thrown up a banana after attempting to eat it mushy part and all, what about getting sick 95% of the time you eat fast food, or maybe even drinking unpurified water causing a fever. My whole family is sensitive to these things as well but I am 6× more sensitive than them. As such, I am the honerary bloodhound and tastetester combo of my abode.
I may have gotten slight off track, but do ask questions. A few other thinks that might be helpful to know; this is all my personal experience, I am not a model (and my looks are not magically there because I am skinny), I am not well versed in medicine or medical studies, and I am not a mytical creature (no matter how I may appear). Fun fact: my sister eats 40% of her body weight in junk foods, fatty foods, and snacks with no problem. So it can happen, and it would probably be more If we were rich enough to drown ourselves in snacks. My other sister is able to walk around the house on her hands with little problem, so although her metabolism is just as fast she is able to gain and use muscles much easier than the rest of us. There are differences between person to person.
If you guys are still reading this, I am 100% the type of person able to be a living manga/anime character. I'd probably be the silent, chic, quick-witted, kuudere type. I got the large eater/skinny self part down, suprisingly strong, oddly well versed in anything from cooking to carpentry. I'd always be in the back of class sleeping, I can pull of a frightening glare, I have little presence, and I am quite neat. Not to mention long legs, nice hands, and a small head(with large eyes, although unsymmetrical). *laughs* People have said I'm not a weeb, but who else writes things like this? xD
Size 0 clothing is the only cloting that fits and, even then there is probably some extra space. I am also blessed with height, however, so I wear large shirts so that I dont freeze, after all my lanky arms are both long and thin. In other words, the larger the shirt the longer the length and the more it will cover my thin skinned, freezing self. I do keep fit, not super fit (I dont have defined abs. . . Even if my slouch marks create the illusion that I do.) But some of my weight is probably from muscle. Around 107-109 pounds is my average weight so. . . Probably 15-20 pounds of that is muscle.
I eat. I don't always eat a lot, but I can. For example a large pizza can sometimes be finished in a single sitting, other times it takes 2 trips. It often depends on the day, the more I do the more I eat, so the less I do the less I eat. If I think too much one day I can eat 2 dinners, if I am doing something that requires physical strength I will probably eat 2 dinners and a snack, and, if im just lazing around I will probably only eat 1 dinner. That's my personal experience however.
Skinny runs in my family, my mother was stick skinny till she got pregnant, my father is quite thin, I am very thin, and so are my siblings. Fun fact: doctors used to think we were malnourished when we were small because we never seem to gain weight. The special diets never did anything. We do eat well tho; heavy meals, lots of veggies, balanced meals, fruits, and snacks are a lot of what we eat.
Yes, I can eat as much fatty foods, junk foods, and processed foods as I want without gaining any weight. I choose not to, however, as most processed foods, fatty foods, and snacks make me sick to my stomach. Lucky me born with both looks and a keen palate. Ever thrown up a banana after attempting to eat it mushy part and all, what about getting sick 95% of the time you eat fast food, or maybe even drinking unpurified water causing a fever. My whole family is sensitive to these things as well but I am 6× more sensitive than them. As such, I am the honerary bloodhound and tastetester combo of my abode.
I may have gotten slight off track, but do ask questions. A few other thinks that might be helpful to know; this is all my personal experience, I am not a model (and my looks are not magically there because I am skinny), I am not well versed in medicine or medical studies, and I am not a mytical creature (no matter how I may appear). Fun fact: my sister eats 40% of her body weight in junk foods, fatty foods, and snacks with no problem. So it can happen, and it would probably be more If we were rich enough to drown ourselves in snacks. My other sister is able to walk around the house on her hands with little problem, so although her metabolism is just as fast she is able to gain and use muscles much easier than the rest of us. There are differences between person to person.
If you guys are still reading this, I am 100% the type of person able to be a living manga/anime character. I'd probably be the silent, chic, quick-witted, kuudere type. I got the large eater/skinny self part down, suprisingly strong, oddly well versed in anything from cooking to carpentry. I'd always be in the back of class sleeping, I can pull of a frightening glare, I have little presence, and I am quite neat. Not to mention long legs, nice hands, and a small head(with large eyes, although unsymmetrical). *laughs* People have said I'm not a weeb, but who else writes things like this? xD
18 03,2019
Hello there :D
Next week is the start of the Manga Comic Con in Leipzig, Germany. I went there last year and it was really fun. Just want to know if any fellow friends here will attend it this year? :'d
Next week is the start of the Manga Comic Con in Leipzig, Germany. I went there last year and it was really fun. Just want to know if any fellow friends here will attend it this year? :'d
about penpals
17 03,2019
I would like to make a Whatsapp Group for Italian pp, so we could talk about manga/manwha of any kind. Yaoi, Yuri, Shonen and all onnn. If anyone is interested reply me! Wanna make good friends ^^!
about lose weight
15 03,2019
My height is 163(5.4"?)and I am 48kg (I think around 103 pounds?) and I want to lose weight. ( - 5kg)
I know that am on the lighter side of what a 163cm person should be. But for some reason, I look larger than my actual weight. My thighs are very thick and my waist is just wide. But I do a lot of exercise and I play in team sports.
I'm being made fun of for having thick legs, and so I want to at least slim them down if I don't lose weight.
What are the most effective ways to lose weight fast? My goals are the lose 2kg a month at minimum. I'm a beginner at dieting and weight loss, are these realistic expectations?
I know that am on the lighter side of what a 163cm person should be. But for some reason, I look larger than my actual weight. My thighs are very thick and my waist is just wide. But I do a lot of exercise and I play in team sports.
I'm being made fun of for having thick legs, and so I want to at least slim them down if I don't lose weight.
What are the most effective ways to lose weight fast? My goals are the lose 2kg a month at minimum. I'm a beginner at dieting and weight loss, are these realistic expectations?
about penpals
14 03,2019
Hi my name is Aki, Ive been reading manga (yaoi mostly) for almost 12 years. I usually wait for updates everyday and mostly like every genre there is. Eventhough it is enjoyable for me, i kinda always been keeping to myself as I got no friends to really bond over this manga stuff(yaoi mostly). Im wondering if any of you guys wants to join a group chat to hype up our favourite manga ^.^. if there minimum 10 people interested, i will make one (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
about penpals
13 03,2019
Im a 16 year old female with an interest in BL manga, K-dramas, and music and i really want to become friends with people that i can talk to that have similar interests. Please DM if interested (≧∀≦)
about penpals
12 03,2019
Hi, I'm a girl I'm 16 I usually read yaoi, or some psychological drama sometimes. I don't have someone to talk about my interest (and this is actually first time I'm doing this:D) so add me if you want luccciaaa#4367
