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My bf and i had a huge fight and we decied to forgive each other.
I was trying to login to my insta from his phone when i saw a recently log in account that i didn't know of on his phone (yk how insta usually show a recently login account? And you can just tap it to relogin..)
so i check his DM and there it is.. he send a dm to his ex.. i mean that girl didn't even answer him (maybe blocked by her idk honestly i was too out of it when i found out)

They didn't talk, but i feel betrayed..
Not only he send her text asking for her well being, he also didn't deleted his chat history with her...

It hasnt been two weeks yet when a new roommate joined our dorm. I introduced myself to her but she wasnt really up to for a conversation so i shrugged it off thinking shes the quiet type. Turns out to be the SNEAKY type. The day before esterday, my wallet went missing, it was morning and the First day of exams too so I had little time finding it. I quickly messaged my sis (also my roommate) asking if she brought it w her but she said no. My sister told me where she last put it. Clearly wasnt in the spot she mentioned when I looked for it. It was rlly suspicious cuz it normally takes less than a minute finding my wallet whenever I misplace it. So I went to my exam room pissed and anxious about the missing belonging that it made me finish the first subject in mere 20 minutes (70 items). I sprang back to dorm (literally 1 mins away from university) before I take my next exam, told my other roomie (whos already been at the dorm for a few months long) through chat. When I looked at the place my sister put it, the wallet was there. Well, it wasnt there earlier, Im sure of. When I counted the money in there, few coins were missing (i recall that she has a coin bank (piggy bank) and she puts spare coins for her savings). I was mad w the fact she went sneaky w my PERSONAL belonging (i wouldnt mind if it were a dish soap i bought). she was fake sleeping and had her face stiffly covered w a blanket. It was really awkward for her ig when I told my other roomie outloud that I had a police uncle along w mentioning exagerrated stories to scare her off from doing it again. Give me tips on how to respond to her action better if she ever did somethin similar again.


lil observation after the coin fiasco: And last night, she returned drunk and reeks of cigarette. She doesnt go to my university (my dorm isnt a univ dormitory)

One crazy situation was when my mom, who had met my exes before, went to a café and saw all of them sitting at different tables with their friends. She started laughing so hard that my super protective sister walked in, totally caught off guard, and said, "What the fuck? Is this some kind of reunion? Why wasn’t my sister invited? We might as well call this an AA meeting. You were already alcoholics, and after the breakup, you turned my sister into one too."

I told my plus size "friend" her activism is making shopping exhausting?
Look, i’m a skinny and just wants to grab cute clothes and go but lately, every trip with her turns into a whole thing. she guilt trips me for shopping at stores she’s boycotting, calls me ‘part of the problem’ if i don’t wanna protest with her, and says i ‘don’t get it’ because i can fit into anything. i finally snapped and said ‘maybe if you spent less time yelling at stores and more time at the gym, you wouldn’t need to demand they change for you.’ now she’s crying and our friends are calling me a fatphobic monster.
AITA for being honest, or is she just mad because im right?

there’s this one about roommates who pretend to do the deed to get cheaper rent or something. i believe they pretend to be a couple but then of course it turns real blah blah blah. i fear i have too much to go thru so if anyone knows what im talking abt lmk!!

does anyone else read manga, most of the time romance/yaoi (NOT yuri, i have never read a bad yuri in my life! open to recommendations) , because you know it's bad? you go into it with no hopes for anything other than brainrot

like a carcrash. it's terrible and you can't look away, and honestly.. you don't want to? when I see a bad manwha/manhua/manga it makes me excited to not have to think critically for the next few hours.

Can someone recommend me bl similiar to bl motel, our sunny days, punch drunk love.. I am looking for something healing, has like more than 30 chapters

I know this is random but during that time when kids finally find out that their parents had sex to have them if any of you were also IVF like me did that just make you laugh because you didn’t have to deal with that? Also on another note did anyone else get irritated with the fact that people would think you’re a test tube baby when actually we are Petri dish babies?

i asked my friends 2 days ago on how to look more gay and they said "nipple piercing" and they thought i wouldnt get it but i did... ARE PIERCINGS NORMALLY THIS ITCHY?? i did get piercings before but they never itched so can anyone tell me if they experienced itchiness or i should go ro a doctor

Just finished when life gives you tangerine I need a gwan shik in my life. What are your thoughts on the drama

If you could be a side character in any manga/manhwa/manhua which story would you choose?

You wouldn't play a serious role in the story but which characters and which world would you wanna end up in?

I had tears of joy when i found a vid of my old bf kinda just complimenting me and telling me stuff that boosts my motivation to live. I often rewatch it cus im not over bro (its fine he's ashes now) but hahaha so far this is my best fave tears of joy memory, i had tons more but i dont wanna make this thread too long and i wanna hear wholesome stories!

I made this account in like 2020? 2021? And haven’t changed anything about it since, I don’t even like Komi anymore

I have been trying to grow my hair out for 5 years now and it has never reached past my shoulders cos I keep getting frustrated with it and end up having it cut short again. I consistently had waist long hair as a child up to 2020 (maintenance was ez i have straight and fine asian hair). And since then ive tried pixie cuts, faded undercut, short bobs, and now the longest ive gotten now is shoulder length hair. And my scalp hurts.

Im someone who doesnt like getting any hair in my face cos it gets itchy then i get breakouts so i always tie my hair or wear a headband. I have always tied my hair loosely so headaches wont be an issue but lately when i tie my hair it feels so heavy. Why does it feel heavy? Its giving me a headache. Ive tried headbands but the firm ones dont fit on my not-so-round head and both that and the stretchy fabric ones alone dont exactly stop my hair from hitting my face when i bend down and i hate it. So tying is necessary.

I've been trying to grow out my hair so i can i can just tie all of it up away from face and vision and to look neat and ready to go even if i just got up from bed. But now my headaches are discouraging me.

So ive been thinking ill go pixie cut again so i dont have to tie hair at all, feels lighter and cooler too. Less shampoo needed too. But styling is annoying. Bed hair is annoying. I dont like to wear caps or beanies to do the job when i have to go out cos its hot where i live. Plus the growing stage is awkward and untiable front hair equals itchy face.

Maybe i should just go bald since i hate the inconveniences of hair in the first place
(But at the same time i wudnt want to get stared at by passing ppl outside)

Anyone else feel the same?

With the amount of women/straight women reading bl you’d think they’re reading it because they’re both men but they don’t treat bottoms as men. Bottoms are constantly portrayed AND treated like women(in a weird caricaturistic/misogynistic way) … not to say that men that are feminine are automatically seen as women, I don’t think that’s the case much irl. I’m talking about in the bl realm. This is just something I’ve noticed a lot and I wonder if anyone else agrees or noticed the same thing. I’m always finding they’re throwing the word “slut” around for sexually active bl bottoms but rarely for bl tops. (The bottoms are usually untouched virgins too…) like it’s so weird especially since the audience is primarily female it weirds me out how people are accepting this. Like the dynamic of straight women reading bl is so weirdly interesting to me (like how some find it more acceptable men get raped in comics than women) Are women reading bl treating bl bottoms as self inserts?? Do you guys find this weird? What’s your thoughts!?

So I was reading this BL and he was licking his ear & his piercing and I was like "dayum that was hot" but I ick so hard after because that's kinda gross

coz i bet not everyone clean their ears everyday (i do to the point its bleeding but yeah most of people don't, base on my observation)

Okay i have the most amazing friends ever and they genuinely helped me get over things, also i learned to rely ob myself more and yadah yadah character development actually so anyways i like tried to gift them nitro but they refused to accept it and so im thinking maybe friend gift cards yk appreciation cards but i dont wanna come off as too obsessive or wtv. I just really REALLY want to express my thanks to them. Its just i love them sm for still believing in me even when all hopes seemed lost or like certain dramas- blah blah. Just generally they were so patient and understanding. Theyre so kind towards me so PLEASE how do i show my appreciation towards them if they wont accept any gift thats money-related?

I feel like people are misusing the word “toxic” when it comes to bl… you guys like ABUSIVE bl not toxic…when I think of toxic I think of two characters hating each other but wanting to fuck each other at the same time. You guys think toxic as one big muscular guy RAPING and beating on the tiny twink guy. Bitch that’s a fucking criminal…I just want two people to fight each other a little bit and then fuck like hello?? Is that too much to ask for…basically it’s an enemies to lovers type of thing with a little bit of fighting for me. But for you guys…you guys just enjoy “sexy” guys raping other tiny little helpless guys which is…certainly a thing to enjoy… BUT PLEASE STOP MISUSING TOXIC YOU LIKE ABUSIVE CRIMINAL SHIT NOT TOXIC “I hate you but you’re so sexy I wanna fuck you” SHIT. We are not the same…