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15 05,2026
I have this issue that keeps going on with me, I want to be religious but I cant no matter how hard I try, I dont want to stop being "religious" but I dont feel anything towards it. I feel like I'm doing something wrong like I feel so guilty for not being able to feel anything, and society and the community is so cruel i dont know what to do anymore. Its not like i wanna leave but i dont feel anything, its been like this since I was young does anyone have any advice for what to do??
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15 05,2026
hi guys; recently i've been questioning the life path i'm on and my mental health has honestly taken a toll, so i was wondering if anyone who's struggled with this could share their personal experiences. i'm an undergrad rn but in my high school years i honestly had a good idea of what i wanted to do in life and i had worked so so hard to get to where i currently am, but now that i'm in this position i've suddenly started to doubt whether i'm where i truly belong. my major isn't in like super high demand and could be potentially replaced by ai, i've been rejected from a majority of the programs/internships i applied to this year whereas my peers got in, and i've been having borderline depression symptoms (still force myself to attend lectures and stuff though). just feeling like a failure overall rn, so would anyone be okay with talking abt how they overcame smt similar like this?? or just share smt good that happened to u today like an obstacle u overcame or smt u achieved
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14 05,2026
Continuing my reply series (≧∀≦) btw if I don't reply it's either because I'm asleep or blocked (<most likely) but I will try reply to everyone
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14 05,2026
I honestly don't know the plot of the story. The only thing I know) remember about it is an edit I saw once on YouTube. I searched for the edit but couldn't find it sooo.....
Anyway, the edit was a scene where the fl(a child) caught her brother with her teacher (tutor?) Kissing on the balcony.
The fl and her brother have black hair and I think golden eyes. The teacher, she has a long wavy blue hair.
That's all I could remember but I really wanna know the title so please help me find this
Anyway, the edit was a scene where the fl(a child) caught her brother with her teacher (tutor?) Kissing on the balcony.
The fl and her brother have black hair and I think golden eyes. The teacher, she has a long wavy blue hair.
That's all I could remember but I really wanna know the title so please help me find this
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14 05,2026
yeah the title is funny but hear me out, i'm bi. but sometimes i feel like I'm so fricking gay. like, i don't even want men or something (also bc men are so fucking uncompetetive when it comes to dating i've given up before even trying). and i love women (★v★) lately i am feeling like i can't find men attractive anymore, not bc their looks or anything (well, most of them are chopped anyway) but more bc of their personality. it's like they NEVER consider women as true humans, even the most feminist of men will still look at women as women first and not consider them as true humans (for some reason, they're incapable of this, idk) and women are so nice and amazing and i love them! but i do feel attraction to men's faces/features though. it's like i see men as muses, i love the idea of them, but i never myself give them the liberty of being “them”. they should be perfect men in order for me to be like, yeah i like this guy. maybe i'm a #womaninmalefields. with women, i'm more of an observer, if I like a woman, i like her completely, i don't put her in bounds, i enjoy her company, i like listening to her opinions. with men, it's like i am walking on eggshells, that he'll say something that is so baffling i won't even believe he's serious. it feels like i'm constantly watching my footsteps or being conscious around them. it feels like a cognitive dissonance, to like someone whom i also am afraid of, in general.
this makes me drift towards women, but where i live, being open in a wlw relationships is not only problematic, people find it either “not real” or fetishize it. the jokes of “scissoring” or the boys thinking i look at women the same way they look at women, and how they degrade women and think they're complementing them. while straight women either dismiss me being bi or question me endlessly on what is my type in women, or if i like them, and if not, why? also, I find it wierd when straight women flirt with me in a friendly manner, i know they're joking and it's fine mostly, but it would be so wierd if *i* do the same, bc then it would feel awkward, as i DO INFACT am capable of romantically liking women. so my flirting is seen as serious while theirs is not.
i'm sorry if it felt like a rant. bc it was lol. it's like i'm battling with this dilemma of finding men attractive while also knowing they are in general, VILE people who don't look at women as humans. and finding women attractive but feeling like an odd one out bc i am scared to be in a relationship with a woman in the society i live in, it won't be considered serious enough, or real enough, and i'm a person who doesn't like doing casual relationships, so what if we're commited and parents are against it? and society shuns is? we get beaten up or worse things like that? i need to get financially independent. i don't even know how to approach a woman bc it feels so scary, what if she's not into women and feels threatened by me?(people in my area don't have good image of people attracted to same gender, they find it 'wierd')
i end up being in this place where i feel like i'm not straight enough for the heterosexuals and not gay enough for the homosexuals. and i feel like i have no hope for romance in my life.
this makes me drift towards women, but where i live, being open in a wlw relationships is not only problematic, people find it either “not real” or fetishize it. the jokes of “scissoring” or the boys thinking i look at women the same way they look at women, and how they degrade women and think they're complementing them. while straight women either dismiss me being bi or question me endlessly on what is my type in women, or if i like them, and if not, why? also, I find it wierd when straight women flirt with me in a friendly manner, i know they're joking and it's fine mostly, but it would be so wierd if *i* do the same, bc then it would feel awkward, as i DO INFACT am capable of romantically liking women. so my flirting is seen as serious while theirs is not.
i'm sorry if it felt like a rant. bc it was lol. it's like i'm battling with this dilemma of finding men attractive while also knowing they are in general, VILE people who don't look at women as humans. and finding women attractive but feeling like an odd one out bc i am scared to be in a relationship with a woman in the society i live in, it won't be considered serious enough, or real enough, and i'm a person who doesn't like doing casual relationships, so what if we're commited and parents are against it? and society shuns is? we get beaten up or worse things like that? i need to get financially independent. i don't even know how to approach a woman bc it feels so scary, what if she's not into women and feels threatened by me?(people in my area don't have good image of people attracted to same gender, they find it 'wierd')
i end up being in this place where i feel like i'm not straight enough for the heterosexuals and not gay enough for the homosexuals. and i feel like i have no hope for romance in my life.
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I meant stories that you've finished and you think that was so well written, the pacing was great or it was just a really good story.
So when you see people complaining on the comsec, it makes u want to respond to them and ask "did you actually read the story"
oh maybe that was confusing but I can't explain it in a better way
So when you see people complaining on the comsec, it makes u want to respond to them and ask "did you actually read the story"
oh maybe that was confusing but I can't explain it in a better way
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14 05,2026
Hey just looking for friends to share common interest with ages 16+ like people to talk about didn't things if you watch anime or like Kpop responde to this even if you don't like it you can still respond .
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14 05,2026
heyy im sure most of us have their stories removed from their reading list like a while ago and i just wanna ask if any of u guys have got it all back? its been months and my reading list still hasnt come back totally… like i have 700+ in my already read but now its left with 100+…
im thinking of just readding it manually but ive read so many ive forgotten most of them now… shld i wait? idk guys pls help
im thinking of just readding it manually but ive read so many ive forgotten most of them now… shld i wait? idk guys pls help
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14 05,2026
im planning to draw my fav to put on a custom pillow cover but im not sure which canvas size, quality, dpi..?? i should draw them in on ibispaint. pillow size is 100x50 cm. if anyone would be so kind to tell me(づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ
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14 05,2026
I hv a few manhwa panels that i ss before , but over time i forgot their names . So i need help with finding their names cus i wanna reread them :')
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14 05,2026
I wanna get it but idk if it's worth the money. Anyway show me your miis
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14 05,2026
What's going on? Did Mangago do some updates again, because suddenly my reading and tbr lists got messed up. I just fixed it up after last time... (/TДT)/
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I'm sure y'all have some manhwas that y'all hate so much, so what's your reaction if the author of that manhwa is actually problematic?
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14 05,2026
yeah im talking to u reading this question rn, go do something productive with ur time
yes this is me projecting OKAY
yes this is me projecting OKAY
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14 05,2026
I feel like every day, the content being out in most romance is the same slop and It isn't always the authors, I think pll don't realise that problem. I've seen some creators notes and beta designs where the characters seems more unique in personality and heck even more masc! The amount of times where I see the beta version of an uke is actually often masc just kinda saddens me. They don't have much creative freedom. Like any series, authors often get limits to how much episode they can have and some even get pushed to make more. Can't say much to the full details in webtoon industry but it's still well known they overwork their staff. This is obvious with their hiatus and health issues. One series I'm currently reading was supposed to gave 45 but it got cut off 10+ chapters or smth so their latest chapters sucks and the ML suddenly did a whole personality switch..
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14 05,2026
What makes you hooked from just the first chapter or even the prologue of a story? Like what gets your attention REAL QUICK
