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I FINALLY FIGURED IT OUT THE REASON MY MESSAGES KEPT LINKING TO MY ACC WAS BECAUSE I ADDED "!!" TO MY USER YALL

Like fr wtf is that?

How is trans real
How can genitals not determine gender but surgery can affirm it. How can someone be a he/him lesbian.

What does genderfluid mean, and is it offensive to say you’re in the female mood? I know you’re not supposed to control it but like what does it mean when you “feel masculine”.

Dylan Mulvaney’s song prompted me to ask this. I don’t take offense (as a woman) in that her lyrics depict being a woman is just about shopping and sex, and I don’t actually think thats all that dylan feels. So what do trans woman like actually feel?

I’m not denying trans people are real I just have no idea what it feels like and I’m trying not to be biased, I’m sorry if I invalidated you/your experience, there is nothing wrong with doing stereotypical female things (as mentioned in dylans song). But like how would one define a woman despite saying the obvious, the way I see it is if you’re trans you just wanna be seen as a different gender (which is the whole metric is identifying as such) Gender is a social construct so it’s not even a real thing right, it’s just how you want to be seen by society.

Also what the hell does pansexuals do. I know the meaning and as I’m typing this I assume you can still be attracted to people but I guess you don’t “fall in love” until you really get to know them (correct me if I’m wrong)

I know minimal history on transsexuals, that there is a science for it but younger trans people kinda dismiss the term. I halfway know the trans med idea: based in that gender dysphoria is in a sense a mental illness that’s “cured” by surgery. (Could be very wrong!!)

One last thing being “genderless” is something I really don’t understand. I dont necessarily feel too attached to the female gender but I don’t really question because of the XX. I’m wondering if someone could explain what that would feel like, being genderless/they/them

Ultimately I will respect people’s pronouns as in most cases (lol neo) it’s easy and using a new name is also very simple. But I still have these questions and I’m just a silly curious person on what it’s actually like not being cis.

Pls

Okay, I wanna say that I am not crazy.

I really don't know how to say this but. Everytime I'm awake at night something is pulling me, like forcing me to go to sleep. What's crazy is that during it I can't breathe. Idk if it's a dream but it feels so real. Everytime I try to stop it it's like forcing my eyelids to close. LIKE BABE I CANT FUCKING BREATHE. I fight back cause it's always putting me into a nightmare or sleep paralysis dream. I don't know tho cause the paralysis dream is allowing me to move. I always stay in my bed. Everytime it happens I can hear my heartbeat making thump and it gets louder everytime. Also everytime it happens i can force myself to wake up. I close my eyes and stop thinking abt it and i wake up. I'm so scared idk what to do, idk if it's like my body telling my ass to go to sleep. Someone tell me pls.

Thoughts on

For context, Roman Empire here means something you think about a lot
Something that weighs on you mind. Be it life, characters, love, academics whatever
Just something you spend a lot of time pondering about

So, this is a bit of an older one, not too far back tho, shoujo or josei set in korean historical environment, not transmigration but isekai.

MC works at a call center and has an impeccable work smile, spends a long time with an unsatisfied, unreasonable customer but remains very polite, turns out this 'customer' is an emperor who in some weird way communicated with her, unclear how, she ends up in that period of the past, where he hires her to be his 'translator' empress aka to do problem management while he curses and threatens to kill everyone, she's there to defuse the situation basically. Comedy aspect was strong.

First of all, I have high respect for people who could create a whole story and comics, that's just so awesome in my opinion. To be able to create characters and lead them to some journey and keep up with chapters every week. People forgot how tough work it is.

From manuscript, storyboard, drawing, coloring, background, post editing and so on in a span of 1 week. I think the only thing we could do is to respect the creator and critizcize the story. It's fine to react like "this character is such and such", "this shouldn't happen, it's mess up" and so on than do things like "this author is dumb shit why make story like this", "this author is a bad person" and makes your way out to real life scenarios.

Just mess up. Because you're just a reader and you choose to read. Without creators, you wouldn't have time to show off your entitlment and speaking that most of the times we read on pirate site esp on Japanese manga.

People have their own ideas, welp, now you can go ahead and create your own. It's tough, right? but it's always been and you choose it. I don't feel like it feels good to be deny of things you do. "The artstyle is horrendous" and then speak on high moral ground. Who d'ya think you are?

And people who have complains about "twinks" quote quote and said why not make them buff is as equally a fetish of a fujoshi than you think. Instead of considering it as a "plot device", they're projecting realll hard. (I think I've seen more thin guys than buff guys in my life so I don't know where they are coming from.)

Just my two cents. Also take note that some times, the author and artist are two different people. If you don't like the story, you could complain about the author's "choice of things" but you could also appreciate the tough work of people who draw it, they're just doing their job. Really entitlement in its finest.

We all crave good works, so do I, so don't deny people who try it, give them a break and yourself. They might create better works in the future.

This year is my last year in high school which is important to
me bc I have to pass the most difficult exams of my life to get
in the university I want. So I gave up my social life to study all day and night and you know it gets really lonely I even stopped talking to many of my friends bc I didn’t have the time to
hangout. So I’m trying to make online friends but idk how to… like I don’t even know if there is even a site for that I rly need help I’ve been so bored and lonely my other irl
friends can’t even hang out w me bc they’re studying too

So.. Is it weird to randomly cry when you see the MC new born baby? Like I just cry and gasped in the moment I saw the baby. I feel like I had the connection to the character. It's not just sometimes, its like everytime

Am I the only who sees a baby and their parents and think 1) Oh they had segggs 2) he came inside?

Like that's always the 1st thoughts that enter my mind x_x help

And then I picture them doing it NO NO BAD THOUGHTS GO AWAY!!!!! TwT

Like I feel uncomfortable around babies for that reason. Or when a newly wed couples baby is born, I count back 9 months and if the baby was conceived before the wedding date, I'd think either 1) oh they had segggs before marriage, probably got married asap to hide that fact 2) the wife probably did it with some other dude and the guy is just bad at math / ignorant >w<

Does Any of You enjoy being single? In my culture I think it's really weird to like being single esp. as a girl. I'm like 24 now and never dated anyone nor felt the need to.

Tbh it's effing annoying whenever someone just asks me if I have a bf as if they're entitled to that Q. Like betch, if you don't have anyone to refer to me then stop asking only to stare at me judgementally, ask me why, then ask my age. Like I know you're counting down to 30. Stop it TwT

You're really annoying and the only reason I haven't smacked you is cuz you're someone I have to see on an occasional basis and I don't wanna be known as that grumpy old hag who's miserable cuz she's single

Like I realized i enjoy my enjoy my freedom a lot. I don't like feeling beholden to anyone or having to tell someone where I go and such. Idkkk I heard it's... Fun? But I honestly don't get the appeal. Esp since guys are sometimes so effing disgusting. Like the stuff that goes out of their mouths. Like stahhhhpppp it. You're making me question if I'm disgusted at YOU or at MEN in general TwT. Everytime I hear another segggsual innuendo at the office I wonder if I might be gæ TwT stahp it. You're making me confused

Anyone know a good site watch kdramas/movies? ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

Guys PLEASE does anyone know a manga I saw it on a TikTok slideshow then scrolled I regret it so much so its about a normal lil girl walking inan cute outfit with a bag I think? And the next panel is them walking towards a huge Chinese castle it's like this image I'll reply with the image

I need friends

Ngl just found out about it earlier this month and been going after all the red flags, bc why not.

It's a josei, smut, and it follows two childhood friend but as grown ups. She is very busty and has an office job and it's a bit older than him. He looks a bit unkempt and has a bad reputation as lazy and hangs out with a bad crowd. But he is a nice guy and they have this dynamic where she used to look out for him as kids and now they are not kids anymore