Its completely normal and more common than you think, experiencing sudden turnoff or an inability to masturbate when you are in a new relationship. And you have to accept that what you're feeling is valid cuz there is nothing wrong with having a moral boundary reply
Can you think of a trigger or a reason for this feeling? I don't mean you need a reason to feel this way. Some people feel this way because of their brain chemistry and should be treated like any other sick person, because depression is not in your control. I hope you're not blaming yourself for feeling this way. reply
U're just too good a person I have no problem imagining them TT
But maybe try not to think about them? Like if u start thinking bout them change ur mind's direction reply
Okay this might be tmi but whatevs its mangago tf. So does anyone else can’t masturbate when theyre romantically involved with someone? Like i’d wanna go off using a material but then i’d think of that person and get turned off bc it feels disrespectful to think of them during my intimate situations?! Like no shit i cant get off bc i’d think of them and fuck that feels wrong. HELP
We're on the same boat, i fear Personally, i really like to indulge in music and go out on walks or just sit outside for a bit, it gives me a moment to address what's going on inside in a somewhat private location (my home is kinda small and i get emotional easily lol) doing this doesn't necessarily "fix" my problems, but it does help a little bit ...... reply
Let me tell you the solution that has worked best on me .
Actually it's not a mental illness or anything. It's just a pattern followed by your brain , it keeps recalling only bad memories , trynaa make you sad .
Solution: Call your name loudly in your inner monologue. Basically call yourself , whenever sad thoughts occupy your mind . Almost like ...... reply
I`m sorry to hear you feel that way. I also felt very similar to that last year and the year before that. In my case it was burnout and the start of a depression.
The depression caused me to feel mostly numb with sudden and (seemingly) random bursts of deep sadness which sounds similar to what you described. And while I didn't want to die at that ...... reply
i want to give an advice but im literally in the same situation too so idk if it was a good one if there's something stuck in your mind that you really want to talk about, it's better to vent/let it out. either with your friends or a family, tho you can even vent anonymously on internet if you're too embarrassed or smth 1 reply
Anything Harada is gonna be difficult to stomach. Don’t read it if you already dropped it. It’s usually pretty easy to tell if you like Harada and even easier to see if you hate her work. There’s plenty of BLs that you’d enjoy more, no need to force yourself! reply
Nii chan as a story could have been great but instead the abusive situation the child is in as a some sort of forbidden romance to the point I've seen multiple people on TikTok defend the fucking pedophile. It's no well written, it could have been like lolita but it failed and it exploited the boy and showed him getting raped by that grown ass man....... reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
