Recently I attended an lecture about christianity by a korean pastor, he said many things but one thing sticked with me, that is how he described jesus is always with everyone he would lead people to the right path and always help, “ Few years ago in korea there was really old shopping mall the owner wanted to do a big event but people told him t...... 4 reply
We are just figuring out our life. And,I don't think that God will hate you for liking a girl. After all,we are His creations. There are criminals who don't regret their works,don't hate themselves. Here you are just loving a person, so don’t hate yourself. I am straight. But I have never been in love and I don’t think that I will ever love a g...... reply
i think standards should be based on what exactly you need or would make you feel that you are being loved. it is bare minimum if it's about things that couples should be 'really' having like proper communication and respect toward each other because that's literally what a relationship should have to work, right? it's not decided but society, just...... reply
It's not too much, it's too little, you are asking for crumbs.
You have to know EXACTLY what you want, or you are gonna get whatever and think this is just life. I think there is no such thing as high standards, the only reason why some people can't get what they want while claiming to have high standards, is they don't actually believe they can h...... reply
you should have high standards, especially nowadays when people don't even ask for the bare minimum, like no buying flowers is not princess treatment or paying for the meal anywhere isn't princess treatment, it's the bare minimum.
imo if you low standards, men (or anyone for that matter) thinks your easy, trust having high standards is great for y...... reply
i'm not sure why, as a society, we created this term high standards when it's just attributes that we want for our partners to have. it's not asking for too much. it's basically one of the foundations of your relationship. is it unattainable? no. but is it possible? maybe.
ofc, most people desire to have a fulfilling love. a partner that checks a...... 1 reply
I'm sitting here laughing my ass off because I saw FINDOM and I had no idea what that was. I was genuinely concerned some people out there were into fish play or something. Turns out its just FINANCIAL DOMINATION lmfao 2 reply
What actually counts as having high standards when it comes to love? And when do those standards become too low—or are just the bare minimum? Does it all come down to personal preference, or are there certain standards that everyone “should” have?
For example: if i’m looking for a partner who needs to be smarter than me in different areas, or must talk and understand our language good and overall just mature. Is that asking for too much?
WTF is a kinktober list
Is this like a challenge where we have to read certain stuff in certain days? A challenge where we need to make a list with certain things in it on certain days? Is someone else making a list to share with everyone?
Just like genuinely what? 2 reply
It's better to get an assessment first.
First things first, you need to talk to your PCP.
Inform them of how you're feeling and how you'd like further help; they can then refer you to where you need to go. ( Make sure your insurance covers it; you don't want to spend unnecessary money )
Ideally, at the place referred, they'll do either an onl...... 2 reply
It depends on what you need help with. If you mainly feel that you need someone to talk to and work through what you’re experiencing, a therapist can help with that. If it’s more serious and you feel that simply talking through your experiences or situation isn’t helping, seeing a psychiatrist may be recommended. However, a combination of bot...... reply
A year ago, I remember going on a spree marking a whole bunch of novels as “want to read”. I picked up reading again and so I came back to this site yesterday and my “want to read” is completely empty. On top of that, I could’ve sworn I left comments (only seen by myself) under some novels noting what chapter I left off on and what was happening last. Those were gone too
I was wondering if it was bc I was inactive for over a year or smthn…? Idk I’m so confused (T_T)
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
