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'Heather' animation
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17 07,2026
I watched "Heather" animation video in yt today. Like 7 animation with same song and cried for every single one. I wanna give hug to all the people who struggle by the same-sex one side love. Wahhhhh.... How are you guys surviving in this cruel world? Im sooooo sad. I hope you guys find the love of your life sooner and get a happy ending, eat lots of yummy food and listen to good music and spend the rest of your life realllllyyyyyyy happy.
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Genuine question
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17 07,2026
btw, i'm NOT making this post to drag the user who had this opinion, just so we're clear i just genuinely want to know what everyone else thinks about it.
Do yall actually think there are users here who think they're celebrities?
Do yall think there are users who treat those same people like they're "gods"?
Because i genuinely don't think so, and that was basically the point i was making when I replied to that user.
I honestly don't know if people here have been in other online communities besides this one, but i feel like there are a few things people are misunderstanding:
Just because someone is in every discussion, answering questions, and giving their opinion on everything doesn't make them a celebrity. That's literally the point of discussion threads: to discuss things. Every user here has every right to give their opinion on whatever they want.
The fact that one user, or a group of users, interact with each other a lot doesn't make them morally superior, doesn't make them a "gang", and doesn't make them celebrities either.
If you've spent time in online communities, this literally ALWAYS happens. People find others they vibe with, so of course they're gonna interact more because they like talking to each other. That doesn't automatically make them separate from everyone else, or some exclusive clique or "gang" like i've seen people imply. That's literally what communities are for.
Another thing is that, logically, if a user is always around participating in everything, people are obviously gonna recognize their username more easily because... they're everywhere?? That's just how familiarity works. It doesn't make them a celebrity, and it doesn't make the people who recognize them "glazers" either.
Another thing I wanted to bring up, and i genuinely don't know if it's true, is the claim that there are users who can say questionable or disagreeable things and people will just glaze them no matter what. Personally, i haven't seen that. The only examples i've seen people bring up have been over really dumb or extremely minor things that honestly felt ridiculous.
I also don't know if there are users who make everything about themselves. I personally haven't seen that either.
Maybe that used to happen before i joined, but from the time i've been here, i genuinely haven't seen anything like that.
but yeah, I'm just curious tho
Do yall actually think there are users here who think they're celebrities?
Do yall think there are users who treat those same people like they're "gods"?
Because i genuinely don't think so, and that was basically the point i was making when I replied to that user.
I honestly don't know if people here have been in other online communities besides this one, but i feel like there are a few things people are misunderstanding:
Just because someone is in every discussion, answering questions, and giving their opinion on everything doesn't make them a celebrity. That's literally the point of discussion threads: to discuss things. Every user here has every right to give their opinion on whatever they want.
The fact that one user, or a group of users, interact with each other a lot doesn't make them morally superior, doesn't make them a "gang", and doesn't make them celebrities either.
If you've spent time in online communities, this literally ALWAYS happens. People find others they vibe with, so of course they're gonna interact more because they like talking to each other. That doesn't automatically make them separate from everyone else, or some exclusive clique or "gang" like i've seen people imply. That's literally what communities are for.
Another thing is that, logically, if a user is always around participating in everything, people are obviously gonna recognize their username more easily because... they're everywhere?? That's just how familiarity works. It doesn't make them a celebrity, and it doesn't make the people who recognize them "glazers" either.
Another thing I wanted to bring up, and i genuinely don't know if it's true, is the claim that there are users who can say questionable or disagreeable things and people will just glaze them no matter what. Personally, i haven't seen that. The only examples i've seen people bring up have been over really dumb or extremely minor things that honestly felt ridiculous.
I also don't know if there are users who make everything about themselves. I personally haven't seen that either.
Maybe that used to happen before i joined, but from the time i've been here, i genuinely haven't seen anything like that.
but yeah, I'm just curious tho
Friends?
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17 07,2026
Guys anyone from south india who wanna be friends? I literally have no friends who read manhwas. Like honestly wtf why haven't I found anyone yet? (╬￣皿￣)凸
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Imperfect victim and punishment
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17 07,2026
So, as far as I know and have interacted with, there’s been two stories that have done the revenge rape trope: cherry blossoms after winter (red guy, I believe) and Pearl Boy (incest brother, one of them idk). And I wanna sort of address it super briefly and the reactions I see to it.
First, fuck Pearl Boy, that weird ass mf doing that didn’t avenge his lover in any way or form but rather perpetuated the abuse that his lover had to face. FUCK YOU. Also cherry blossoms after winter, I just know the author added this as a sort of “aha! He got what was coming!” But I can’t prove it…AND using rape as a form of “punishment” is disgusting and cruel.
Second, the “they deserve it” reactions, no they don’t, no one deserves to be raped or abused. That’s disgusting and the reason we have laws is to determine the right punishment (assuming it does its job) and not cock and ball torture in towns square. Also, SOME people think that just because someone is a horrible person it “cancels” their victimhood and that’s just not true. People have, for so long, thought of victimhood as this state of weakness and subservient behavior but imperfect victims exist and you can be horrible to the T and still be a victim.
Personally, I LOVE my imperfect victims, they’re multi faceted and a better representation of real victims. What other tropes are there like this one that you guys like?
First, fuck Pearl Boy, that weird ass mf doing that didn’t avenge his lover in any way or form but rather perpetuated the abuse that his lover had to face. FUCK YOU. Also cherry blossoms after winter, I just know the author added this as a sort of “aha! He got what was coming!” But I can’t prove it…AND using rape as a form of “punishment” is disgusting and cruel.
Second, the “they deserve it” reactions, no they don’t, no one deserves to be raped or abused. That’s disgusting and the reason we have laws is to determine the right punishment (assuming it does its job) and not cock and ball torture in towns square. Also, SOME people think that just because someone is a horrible person it “cancels” their victimhood and that’s just not true. People have, for so long, thought of victimhood as this state of weakness and subservient behavior but imperfect victims exist and you can be horrible to the T and still be a victim.
Personally, I LOVE my imperfect victims, they’re multi faceted and a better representation of real victims. What other tropes are there like this one that you guys like?
