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My brother and mother have a strain relationship and it's def making things awkward between fam members... Their arguments can be summarised to this:
>Mom asked bro to do stuff
>Bro didn't do it within acceptable time limits
>Mom berated bro, continue talking and talking till the conversation turned into something else entirely
> Bro got frustrated, he either ignored her or talk back
>Everyone mad, returned to their room and pretend like nothing happened
We've been in this loop for awhile now...eventually, my lil bro shut us out. The amount of relief and happiness I felt when we talked like normal siblings were alarming to say the least. I get it that we've already have chores schedules and he should take responsibility but my god the things my mom said... Genuinely fucked up sometimes, got me questioning if she actually love us or not..
I get that she's fed up raising us like a single mother, but I wish she didn't use us as emotional outlet.. I'm worried about my brother's mental health but I also want him to understand that he can't just ignored important chores like taking care of his own cat.. I don't think he's gonna listen to me either, pushing this topic might actually make everything worse but I'm the only mediator at home. What can I do to make him open up? Any advice is appreciated
>Mom asked bro to do stuff
>Bro didn't do it within acceptable time limits
>Mom berated bro, continue talking and talking till the conversation turned into something else entirely
> Bro got frustrated, he either ignored her or talk back
>Everyone mad, returned to their room and pretend like nothing happened
We've been in this loop for awhile now...eventually, my lil bro shut us out. The amount of relief and happiness I felt when we talked like normal siblings were alarming to say the least. I get it that we've already have chores schedules and he should take responsibility but my god the things my mom said... Genuinely fucked up sometimes, got me questioning if she actually love us or not..
I get that she's fed up raising us like a single mother, but I wish she didn't use us as emotional outlet.. I'm worried about my brother's mental health but I also want him to understand that he can't just ignored important chores like taking care of his own cat.. I don't think he's gonna listen to me either, pushing this topic might actually make everything worse but I'm the only mediator at home. What can I do to make him open up? Any advice is appreciated
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Sometimes I forget that people are actually addicted to porn. I feel like smut with alot of plot makes me wanna stay but watching people go at it for ten thousand chapters are boring. I even tried watching porn and I realized I was just watching it with a straight face like I felt absolutely nothing while watching it.
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Am I the only one who thought that Dr Grace x Rocky had soooo much yaoi potential like
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Let's be honest here, you could look in your hb/hg's eyes and your mind would say I could take that... Or it's just me
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Like genuinely speaking, a lot has been going on in Hollywood and ppl still make edits out of them actresses/actors like I'm lowky shocked that ppl still idolize them after *cough* *cough* some "ALLEGATIONS".. Some fans are just straight up NOC men..
Like name me some ppl there beside Zendaya and Tom Holland I'll be waiting
Like name me some ppl there beside Zendaya and Tom Holland I'll be waiting
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Is it a red flag is the person you're talking to and like tells you to keep the fact that you guys are talking a secret from everyone he knows? What does it mean?
To sum it all up, I've developed a crush on this guys that's a year older than me and we started talking. He has been nice to be —in fact, too nice. He greets me everyday, talks to me even though he's already at 1%, sends me reels that's about love and wtv, tells me that he would be my home and someone that I can lean my head on when I'm too exhausted from my acads, talks to me for hours everyday, sends me his silly pictures, voice messages, his cute stickers, and sulks at me whenever I forget to reply to him. He even dedicated the song "tingin" to me one time.
What I don't understand is why he told me to keep "us" a secret when we're not even anything. No label, not friends (?) or anything. Just talking. I have no idea what's going on cuz this is my first time actually taking someone this seriously. This may sound cringe but, I think he's the first person that I've ever seriously loved. Even though we weren't actually together — not even an m.u.
Things have been quite suspicious lately cuz I've been noticing that his friends keep smiling at me — in like a way that they know something's going on and that it's all just a game. What I found out about this guy, though, is that he's probably still not over his ex. His greatest love, his first love.
I'm not sure if I'm just overthinking but, I think he's just toying with my feelings. But part of me still wants to believe that he's not that kind of person.
I've already asked my friends about this and they all told me to stay away from him because it's clear that he's hiding something. I believed them. Because I don't want to fall deeper and I just want to focus on my studies.
I'm sorry if this was confusing. I really am not in my right mind right now cuz I'm also unsure. What I know, though, is that I still love him and I love him genuinely.
• sorry for the rant and messy grammar T_T
To sum it all up, I've developed a crush on this guys that's a year older than me and we started talking. He has been nice to be —in fact, too nice. He greets me everyday, talks to me even though he's already at 1%, sends me reels that's about love and wtv, tells me that he would be my home and someone that I can lean my head on when I'm too exhausted from my acads, talks to me for hours everyday, sends me his silly pictures, voice messages, his cute stickers, and sulks at me whenever I forget to reply to him. He even dedicated the song "tingin" to me one time.
What I don't understand is why he told me to keep "us" a secret when we're not even anything. No label, not friends (?) or anything. Just talking. I have no idea what's going on cuz this is my first time actually taking someone this seriously. This may sound cringe but, I think he's the first person that I've ever seriously loved. Even though we weren't actually together — not even an m.u.
Things have been quite suspicious lately cuz I've been noticing that his friends keep smiling at me — in like a way that they know something's going on and that it's all just a game. What I found out about this guy, though, is that he's probably still not over his ex. His greatest love, his first love.
I'm not sure if I'm just overthinking but, I think he's just toying with my feelings. But part of me still wants to believe that he's not that kind of person.
I've already asked my friends about this and they all told me to stay away from him because it's clear that he's hiding something. I believed them. Because I don't want to fall deeper and I just want to focus on my studies.
I'm sorry if this was confusing. I really am not in my right mind right now cuz I'm also unsure. What I know, though, is that I still love him and I love him genuinely.
• sorry for the rant and messy grammar T_T
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Hiii guys im meeting the author of wetsand and I was wondering if you got any questions so I can ask :p i need questions ASAP
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…so..uh.. I now this isnt a great place to ask this but uh… is there any alternatives to 988? Uhm.. from my experience and research, 988 is a shitty hotline…and I cant find anything else.
If a good or better hotline is from another country then can I use a vpn for it? I also want it to be very personal and not-recorded (dont want my parents finding out nor my private information getting clipped).
I’m going through a lot and it’d be nice to receive a bit of help, i’ve been ignoring my mental health for years and years by now and I can feel that i’m at a point where I could commit to harm so the best option for me is to get some sort of help (other than therapy due to many reasons).
Also preferably a hotline that also has text on website feature?
Thank you very much..! ( ̄∇ ̄")
If a good or better hotline is from another country then can I use a vpn for it? I also want it to be very personal and not-recorded (dont want my parents finding out nor my private information getting clipped).
I’m going through a lot and it’d be nice to receive a bit of help, i’ve been ignoring my mental health for years and years by now and I can feel that i’m at a point where I could commit to harm so the best option for me is to get some sort of help (other than therapy due to many reasons).
Also preferably a hotline that also has text on website feature?
Thank you very much..! ( ̄∇ ̄")
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I realized I haven’t gotten any new notifications for series I’ve been following that have had updates recently. I remember a while ago this site basically cleared out my currently reading list and I hadn’t received notifications for a while until I went back and added them to my list. Is the same thing happening again?
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hi yall its 4am where im from and im quite literally having a identity crisis rn. ive been questioning myself about my style and where i actually fit in, ik it sounds funny or weird to some but idk it’s a huge problem for me since it gets to a point where id rather stay in than go out with my friends cuz i dont really know what style i should go for and usually just end up staring at my clothes thinking “i dont want to wear any of this”. Ive been rocking quite literally the typical baddie/copy paste latina style since its what i think fits me but i cant help but be interested in jirai kei, esp their makeup. Im ngl im more interested in the jirai stuff rather than what im used to, but i feel like it’ll be too difficult for me to change now and im also scared of getting judged by others. Should I just stick to what I’m used to? (/TДT)/
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Be honest with me, we've all read THAT one manga
I'll starve myself if I got this wrong but ik 90% of y'all read THAT shit once and never came back
I'll starve myself if I got this wrong but ik 90% of y'all read THAT shit once and never came back
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Hi I just logged in after a while and all my stuff is no longer there?? like reading, to read and want to read stuff.. Like I had a really big list omg.. is there a way to fix this maybe? ╥﹏╥
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So there's this bl anime scene I've found in a profile picture of a mrm user , but I can't have an id there (you know mrm doesn't always have their registration desk open ) to ask them the name of it so I'm posting it here :
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Anyone here working or studying in healthcare department? Particularly dentistry? I guess I did mention here that I managed to get into dental school. And uhhh tell me y it's so toxic in here? I have got frnds in nursing and med school, yk wt we got in common ? Toxic seniors and professors. Idk if it's just in my country or this is how they r. Gosh the seniors here got a god complex. And professors have lost the passion to teach.
Sighhhhhhhh i gotta survive this for 5 yrs . I mean pretty sure I will get used to this. But y'all can share ur experiences though. Even though if ur not in healthcare department.
Sighhhhhhhh i gotta survive this for 5 yrs . I mean pretty sure I will get used to this. But y'all can share ur experiences though. Even though if ur not in healthcare department.
