So when did you start to like BL, be it reading or watching BL related?
For me, it was all because of Taehyung and Jungkook of BTS, when I started shipping them way back 2018, on my second year of middle school.
For me, it was all because of Taehyung and Jungkook of BTS, when I started shipping them way back 2018, on my second year of middle school.
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I'm so used to censored art that when there's actually a drawing of a dong instead of a lightsaber I get jumpscared. Is it just me?
about i like crying
I like oneshots. Share your favorite oneshots with me pls :)
I'm genuinely curious, I just don't understand why it is so famous and so loved
about my friends left me
Before starting I would like to mention that I am South Asian, our culture is very different from the west so keep that it mind. Also it’s gonna be very very long so just skip it if you don’t wanna be bothered.
So I had this huge group of friends for 8 years. We had been friends from 5th grade and never really had any fight or falling out between us. My family situation wasn’t really the best so these friends meant a lot to me. A while ago this girl who is sorta liked the leader of our group called me saying she wanted to study with the same chemistry private tutor I was studying. Now his salary is very high so me and 2 of my friends were taking lessons from him at my house. She asked if she could study with us and I was like yes of course but she said she wanted to change the location from my house to hers because it’s beneficial for all 3 of them. Now I would have agreed but I had this online class right after the private tuition session so I told her that and she was like okay and never contacted me about this situation again. We kept texting normally after that and she never brought it up. After a while the other two friend (they're twin siblings) stopped coming to the tution because of their financial problems so I had to stop the lesson altogether as I wasn’t rich enough to take lessons from him alone. Now I started learning chemistry from an uni student online and after a while all of them (the twins and the leader) started taking his online classes as well but right before our test exams he fell sick and at this point we are in deep trouble because our syllabus wasn’t finished. Now I contact those three asking if they want to go to the chemistry teacher we used to take lessons before but they all reject it, the twins mention their financial problems and the leader didn’t really say much about it. I was studying alone at home for the exams when I listened from another of my friends that they started taking lessons from THAT very teacher I suggested taking lessons from but they just excluded me. Now I try to contact them about this situation , thinking maybe there was some misunderstanding only to find out they have blocked me on social media, I called them but they didn’t pick up and since we didn’t have any real life classes I wasn’t able to confront them directly. That was the end of it. Everyone got busy with exam preparations. After the test exam there was a month gap till the actual board exam and during that time we never talked. I heard from my best friend who is also close friends with them that there was a reason why they acted like that but she can't say it to me. She also mentioned how the group leader cried in a call with her saying I was the reason she couldn’t study to that chemistry teacher and all. Even after hearing everything my best friend kept being close friends with them because I didn’t want to be the one to make her choose. Months passed and on the last day of board exam one of the twins approached me. We were hanging out together as a huge group and all of them were part of that group. She didn’t apologize or anything, she was like would you accept my request if I sent you one, I was like okay. Now see we had been friends for years and for the most part I was a huge pushover who would go along with everything the others were saying and I didn’t want to lose people I have considered as my precious friends for so long. Then we all started preparing for uni admission exams, months passed. I met up with my best friend, all of us were planning to meet up on the day of Eid. Even the leader was going to come, my best friend kept going on about how awkward it would be, how much she appreciates the leader friend , how she wished everything to be normal again.. She even said she could make me apologise to the leader but the leader won't apologize. At this point I got angry at her because she kept taking her side and when I asked why she said she couldn’t tell me the reason. Then we went home and had another fight, I said I didn’t want her to just drop them but I would like it if she didn’t take their side in front of me when to me clearly they were the ones in the wrong. On the Eid day we went to hang out and the best friend didn’t say a word to me. I came home and asked if she was going to stop talking to me over this. She said yes and how she was pretending to be my best friend for a while. That really hurt me, we stopped talking altogether but I didn’t remove her from my social media. Months passed and one day she suddenly texted me. I noticed that she was the one who removed me from all her social media accounts. I told this story to like 2-3 people as I didn’t want to involve everyone in this mess. After that I got busy with uni. Another eid came, I saw some of my friends got together. They invited all of my ex friends but not me, when I asked a friend about it she said she thought I wasn’t in town so they didn’t invite me, another one said they had no idea that I wasn’t invited.. There is going to be this big hang out of the whole group and people who have no idea about the situation invited me. Should I go there? Like I don’t want to stop hanging out with people who I am still friends with but I am hesitant as I have such a messy situation with so many of them. Should I cut ties with everyone who hung out with others and excluded me? I am really hesitant about it since they could be telling the truth. And I have like no friends besides them, making real friends is hard and I have such long history of friendship with so many of them. Also I got little to no closure from this whole situation, why do you think they did what they did? There was a time I shed lots of tears over the friendships that ended and it physically hurt me to think that they just cut ties with me over something so trivial.
So I had this huge group of friends for 8 years. We had been friends from 5th grade and never really had any fight or falling out between us. My family situation wasn’t really the best so these friends meant a lot to me. A while ago this girl who is sorta liked the leader of our group called me saying she wanted to study with the same chemistry private tutor I was studying. Now his salary is very high so me and 2 of my friends were taking lessons from him at my house. She asked if she could study with us and I was like yes of course but she said she wanted to change the location from my house to hers because it’s beneficial for all 3 of them. Now I would have agreed but I had this online class right after the private tuition session so I told her that and she was like okay and never contacted me about this situation again. We kept texting normally after that and she never brought it up. After a while the other two friend (they're twin siblings) stopped coming to the tution because of their financial problems so I had to stop the lesson altogether as I wasn’t rich enough to take lessons from him alone. Now I started learning chemistry from an uni student online and after a while all of them (the twins and the leader) started taking his online classes as well but right before our test exams he fell sick and at this point we are in deep trouble because our syllabus wasn’t finished. Now I contact those three asking if they want to go to the chemistry teacher we used to take lessons before but they all reject it, the twins mention their financial problems and the leader didn’t really say much about it. I was studying alone at home for the exams when I listened from another of my friends that they started taking lessons from THAT very teacher I suggested taking lessons from but they just excluded me. Now I try to contact them about this situation , thinking maybe there was some misunderstanding only to find out they have blocked me on social media, I called them but they didn’t pick up and since we didn’t have any real life classes I wasn’t able to confront them directly. That was the end of it. Everyone got busy with exam preparations. After the test exam there was a month gap till the actual board exam and during that time we never talked. I heard from my best friend who is also close friends with them that there was a reason why they acted like that but she can't say it to me. She also mentioned how the group leader cried in a call with her saying I was the reason she couldn’t study to that chemistry teacher and all. Even after hearing everything my best friend kept being close friends with them because I didn’t want to be the one to make her choose. Months passed and on the last day of board exam one of the twins approached me. We were hanging out together as a huge group and all of them were part of that group. She didn’t apologize or anything, she was like would you accept my request if I sent you one, I was like okay. Now see we had been friends for years and for the most part I was a huge pushover who would go along with everything the others were saying and I didn’t want to lose people I have considered as my precious friends for so long. Then we all started preparing for uni admission exams, months passed. I met up with my best friend, all of us were planning to meet up on the day of Eid. Even the leader was going to come, my best friend kept going on about how awkward it would be, how much she appreciates the leader friend , how she wished everything to be normal again.. She even said she could make me apologise to the leader but the leader won't apologize. At this point I got angry at her because she kept taking her side and when I asked why she said she couldn’t tell me the reason. Then we went home and had another fight, I said I didn’t want her to just drop them but I would like it if she didn’t take their side in front of me when to me clearly they were the ones in the wrong. On the Eid day we went to hang out and the best friend didn’t say a word to me. I came home and asked if she was going to stop talking to me over this. She said yes and how she was pretending to be my best friend for a while. That really hurt me, we stopped talking altogether but I didn’t remove her from my social media. Months passed and one day she suddenly texted me. I noticed that she was the one who removed me from all her social media accounts. I told this story to like 2-3 people as I didn’t want to involve everyone in this mess. After that I got busy with uni. Another eid came, I saw some of my friends got together. They invited all of my ex friends but not me, when I asked a friend about it she said she thought I wasn’t in town so they didn’t invite me, another one said they had no idea that I wasn’t invited.. There is going to be this big hang out of the whole group and people who have no idea about the situation invited me. Should I go there? Like I don’t want to stop hanging out with people who I am still friends with but I am hesitant as I have such a messy situation with so many of them. Should I cut ties with everyone who hung out with others and excluded me? I am really hesitant about it since they could be telling the truth. And I have like no friends besides them, making real friends is hard and I have such long history of friendship with so many of them. Also I got little to no closure from this whole situation, why do you think they did what they did? There was a time I shed lots of tears over the friendships that ended and it physically hurt me to think that they just cut ties with me over something so trivial.
about anime ships
Attach the most outlandish and obnoxious uses of 3D you've seen in a comic and some context if it makes it funnier or more WTF.
This is more specific to full color manhwas and manhuas but do you guys ever get annoyed that they're so mass produced and rushed that all the backgrounds and props are 3D models especially when it's a more exaggerated style so it looks really out of place. I wouldn't care if the artist traced the 3D models or edited them to have the right shading and lighting but it just looks so off and out of place it's jarring when it's slapped in their raw with that clunky ass gray tone and shadow. But then sometimes it's the stupidest shit like why can't you draw a book? It's just a rectangle I don't care if you draw it poorly and under detailted learn how to draw objects please or you'll never get better. Or like one time it was a throne just draw a fancy chair. I think we've all seen the shitty horses.
This is more specific to full color manhwas and manhuas but do you guys ever get annoyed that they're so mass produced and rushed that all the backgrounds and props are 3D models especially when it's a more exaggerated style so it looks really out of place. I wouldn't care if the artist traced the 3D models or edited them to have the right shading and lighting but it just looks so off and out of place it's jarring when it's slapped in their raw with that clunky ass gray tone and shadow. But then sometimes it's the stupidest shit like why can't you draw a book? It's just a rectangle I don't care if you draw it poorly and under detailted learn how to draw objects please or you'll never get better. Or like one time it was a throne just draw a fancy chair. I think we've all seen the shitty horses.
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Genuine question, where are the people who have been reading bl/yaoi for more than a decade? I assume you all have a family by now and if so, how did that affect your BL/yaoi reading or obsession?
I have been reading BL/yaoi for about a decade and im in my early 20s now and i dont think Ill stop reading it even if get married or stuff like that but im curious about others' experiences. Like do you let your partner know u read something like this, or just hide it.
I have been reading BL/yaoi for about a decade and im in my early 20s now and i dont think Ill stop reading it even if get married or stuff like that but im curious about others' experiences. Like do you let your partner know u read something like this, or just hide it.
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Which artist from your country do you think deserves more attention and has some dope songs that you want others to enjoy?
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DUMPED ALL YOUR SCREENSHOTS OF MANGAS THAT YOU HAVE IT'S A CONTEST WHEN YOU ENTER YOU MUST FOLLOW THE RULES :WHEN YOU ENTER THE CONTEST YOU MUST FOLLOW THE WINNER ACC BUT THE PERSON WITH THE MOST MANGA SCREENSHOTS OR PICTURE WILL GET FOLLOWED BY EVERYONE THAT LOST THE CONTEST I WILL DO CONTEST EVERY 2 TO 3 DAYS I USUALLY BE ONLINE SO MESSAGE ME FOR QUESTIONS!
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Not the BDSM one, this freaking mind control one like uke would die if he don’t follow don’s command I read one where one of these so called commands was PRESENT which means to squat and show uke’s genitals omg it’s so cringey ☠☠☠☠☠
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Ive been trying to find a translation for the name of it but i cant anywhere T~T I'll put the image in the comment thingy if you dont want to click the link
https://twitter.com/HNKouki/status/1728366410844475862/photo/1
https://twitter.com/HNKouki/status/1728366410844475862/photo/1
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I'm bored and I want to know what kinda shit yall being through
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Just curious. I realized I often focus on the top, or both if they're switches. It definitely depends on the comic though. My favorite BL manga/manhwa are the ones where it isn't even obvious who the top/bottom is until a few chapters in because they don't have your stereotypical traits. When that happens I usually focus on them both equally
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Guys please help I have no clue how to kiss and honostly the sound of slobbering on someones lips sounds disgusting and tongue on tongue!! Maybe I'm just immature and havent had a REAL kiss yet but I saw this girl on tiktok say you have to choose either a top or bottom lip but isn't that uncomfortable and nasty I dont think I'd enjoy that at all. Please share your experiences with kissing and what you did and don't leave out any details!!!
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I asked my friends about this but they all just called me crazy
So like I'm always thinking of a trillion things at once but also like.. Not thinking at all?? I feel like i can hear people, or like my inner voices having conversations in the back of my head
And it always gives me crazy headaches it's so overwhelming
Pls tell me I'm not the only one
So like I'm always thinking of a trillion things at once but also like.. Not thinking at all?? I feel like i can hear people, or like my inner voices having conversations in the back of my head
And it always gives me crazy headaches it's so overwhelming
Pls tell me I'm not the only one
about still a virgin
For favorites I would say 'only one bed' is pretty funny at times. I also love BDSM ヾ(☆▽☆)
For least favorite I think disliking non-con is a given. I also don't like when human waste is involved....just no...One trope that I don't see many people mentioning is when the couple falls asleep right after they did the do and it drives me up the wall because it's nasty. WASH IMMEDIETELY AFTER BECAUSE OTHERWISE YOU GET DISEASES!
For least favorite I think disliking non-con is a given. I also don't like when human waste is involved....just no...One trope that I don't see many people mentioning is when the couple falls asleep right after they did the do and it drives me up the wall because it's nasty. WASH IMMEDIETELY AFTER BECAUSE OTHERWISE YOU GET DISEASES!
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lets say omegaverse was real would homophobia still exist or nah? like if men could get pregnant would there still be people against it??(like those people that argue being gay is unnatural since men can’t have kids would they find some other way to justify being homophobic..?) would religions also be affected? also would being intersex be more common..?
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i feel like i can like I don’t necessarily crave relationship (lovers) so I’m fine without it as long as i have my hobbies, my family, and friends i get to hang out with its not bad at all? Like I don’t get honestly how some ppl hve a meltdown like not getting a relationship when it comes i think it’ll come everyone is different i guess but im trying to say any type of life you live in can be “okay” as long as you’re not reallly alone i feel even a cat can make u okay :) i luv my cat
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Ive been curious to see if other peoples cats also do this.
I got fake nails recently and whenever me and my cat are cuddling, shell start grooming herself like usual and ill put my hand in front of her cause why not, she starts grooming me too. I noticed she likes to chew on my fake nails? Im not sure why. She didnt do it before, she did occasionally chew on my fingers but she specifically goes for my nails after i got them.
Why? Cat experts please tell me
I got fake nails recently and whenever me and my cat are cuddling, shell start grooming herself like usual and ill put my hand in front of her cause why not, she starts grooming me too. I noticed she likes to chew on my fake nails? Im not sure why. She didnt do it before, she did occasionally chew on my fingers but she specifically goes for my nails after i got them.
Why? Cat experts please tell me
