Big moodTM. I suck at conversations but i came here anyway to say ...fuckkkk... your profile pic is Kirishima? Kirishima Eijiro? thats my BABY! 2 reply
In my country at least, straight girls have their own world and it's very rare to find common interests so falling for them is difficult, I'm more towards to find them pretty or have an admiration and that's it. But if I ever did I think that instead of "trying to change their sexuality" keeping distance and forgetting is the best, because it would...... 1 reply
First thing's first: there are straight people and there are """straight""" people.
Crushing on straight friends is sadly inevitable, but it's almost always short lived. The awkwardness limits your feelings and any romance in your head fizzzles out uneventfully. If you can't keep your emotions in check, the friendship is doomed. It's not healthy fo...... 1 reply
Wow neat! I'd like to hear about your adventures in Korea! My ID is like my username: Jayachem. I live in the US, so irl chats are out of the question ; u ;. You sound only over there, so I hope you make lasting friendships soon! 1 reply
Ah there are many layers to this question, so I'll try to answer it as best as I can!
1. As a gay person, I realized my attraction at a very young age.
2. I don't have much experience with romance being only 17 yo and gay, but I'll admit I've had crushes in straight people. It's never anything serious as I already accept that it would never happe...... 1 reply
So it was a shounen-ai about two best friends. I remember there were only 4 or so chapters and each one corresponds to a season. The story revolved about how the other guy fell in love with his best friend. I think the best friend actually liked teasing him about it? There was even a pocket warmer scene?
I’ve always wondered about this actually! Uhhh ... probably not if I’m honest. When I was 16, I went through a phase where I thought I was being really weird for liking yaoi/yuri/shounen ai, but then I realized how it really calms me down and makes me feel better (lmaooooo this sounds weird but I’m sure other ppl can relate to the fuzzy feeli...... reply
Yo, well my friends know about me reading Yuri and we all look at those pegi18 pictures together (bc god bless those damned hot girls) lol
But in my family no one knows except for my brother because he just assumed I liked it since I'm gay.
But honestly, mosy yuri/yaoi are literally porn so no I don't think it's weird to not tell your family. reply
Well lately I've stopped reading Yuri (ye I can't read yaoi, not my jam) because the one I read have no updates and I can't seem to find something that is good enough to please me.
But I would certainly never stop reading bc some people tell me to. Do what you want bro, no one has to say anything G about your life. Live your life, fujoshi! If you e...... reply
My 1st Yaoi manga is from the Kuroneko Kareshi series. I really got hooked on this series and once I started there was no going back from Yaoi. I must say, it was pretty good for my 1st time. reply
Try exercising or picking up a new hobby. I've dealt with severe depression since my early teens, and the only thing that seems to calm my mind down is a long walk or bicycle ride. Drawing and writing are also great ways to relieve some negative emotions and ease your mind. Most importantly, talk to people about your thoughts. Even if you can't tal...... reply
At 13 my first Yaoi manga experience was Viewfinder and it still remains my favorite to this day! (But I mean how can you not love them? lol) ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ (≧∀≦) 1 reply
My all time favourite mangakas!!
• Hagio Moto > Really great at psychological. Deeply disturbing, but very well written. Her work is very classy and romantic. Made the first shounen ai ever in 1974. Yes, She is one of the founder of yaoi manga. One of their work : www.mangago.me/read-manga/zankoku_na_kami_ga_shihai_suru/
• Nakamura Asumiko > ...... reply
This is a hard question for me to answer because although I get them pretty often, I never really have to deal with them. When I catch myself having intrusive thoughts I just think "yikes" and move on with my life. The only real way to deal with them in my experience is to accept that they will happen and not let them affect you too much. They suck...... 2 reply
Learn to shut your mind off, take a step back, and ground yourself in the moment. Basically I tell myself, if you can't think good thoughts then you're not going to think anything at all.
Once you can do that, you can go back and look at what your thoughts are telling you, if there is some issue that you need to be dealing with in your life. But f...... reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
