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08 08,2026
I like philosophy and nonfiction books but I'm okay with fiction books if they deal with interesting topics (feminism, race, gender, politics, queerness, or whatever else) also poetry books and history books are welcomed!!!
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08 08,2026
whenever I try to goon, it feels like I'm getting violated, like I'm getting raped. Then I actually go through with it (the gooning) and it makes so sad I self harm, and the cycle starts all over again. Goon-self harm- stop gooning for a while-goon-self harm
It wasn't like this before, started last year I think. I'm wondering if other people have this experience as well?
It wasn't like this before, started last year I think. I'm wondering if other people have this experience as well?
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07 08,2026
over the years ive come to realize theres a lot of people who get defensive when you express opinions on manga/hwa/hua (especially negative), sometimes even coming off as aggressive
i think about this a lot and its probably why i rarely interact on the site
does this just happen to everyone? is there no escape from insufferable people? is it so wrong to be hatepilled towards a piece of work? am i actually just an evil person who is too blunt?
i think about this a lot and its probably why i rarely interact on the site
does this just happen to everyone? is there no escape from insufferable people? is it so wrong to be hatepilled towards a piece of work? am i actually just an evil person who is too blunt?
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07 08,2026
Anyone got a name I could use? I’ll take masculine, feminine, and gender neutral names
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07 08,2026
I’d like to hear the opinions of the adults here, preferably people by 20+.
A while ago, I watched a video about a 14-year-old girl who was in a relationship with a 19-year-old boy and became pregnant. When she was interviewed, she said that no one had forced her or pressured her into anything. She said that she wanted it and had always dreamed of becoming a mother from a young age, rather than living the same lifestyle as other teenagers.
Another case I heard about was more about them not knowing what protection was or how to use it, and then the pregnancy happened. (Both were at the same age of 15)
Of course, those aren’t the only cases of teenage pregnancy I’ve heard about. There are many others, and it seems to be becoming more common, even in my country. So, it made me wonder:
What do you all think about teenage pregnancy? Who do you think should be responsible? the teenagers themselves, their parents, or a combination of both?
does your view change depending on the circumstances, such as the age gap, whether the pregnancy was consensual or non-consensual, and whether the teenagers are actually prepared to raise a child?
Things like whether they’re mature for their age, whether they have support from family or others, or whether they choose adoption or abortion?
I’m genuinely just curious to hear your thoughts and opinions. I’d like to understand and learn from different perspectives!
A while ago, I watched a video about a 14-year-old girl who was in a relationship with a 19-year-old boy and became pregnant. When she was interviewed, she said that no one had forced her or pressured her into anything. She said that she wanted it and had always dreamed of becoming a mother from a young age, rather than living the same lifestyle as other teenagers.
Another case I heard about was more about them not knowing what protection was or how to use it, and then the pregnancy happened. (Both were at the same age of 15)
Of course, those aren’t the only cases of teenage pregnancy I’ve heard about. There are many others, and it seems to be becoming more common, even in my country. So, it made me wonder:
What do you all think about teenage pregnancy? Who do you think should be responsible? the teenagers themselves, their parents, or a combination of both?
does your view change depending on the circumstances, such as the age gap, whether the pregnancy was consensual or non-consensual, and whether the teenagers are actually prepared to raise a child?
Things like whether they’re mature for their age, whether they have support from family or others, or whether they choose adoption or abortion?
I’m genuinely just curious to hear your thoughts and opinions. I’d like to understand and learn from different perspectives!
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07 08,2026
Have you guys ever had a fake friend? Well, here's my experience.
I went through some mental health stuff and ended up dropping out of school for a bit. My friends were supportive in their own way, but never really asked why. I didn't mind that, it's not really their job to fix me.
One day I was kinda struggling and at a point where I just wanted to die, and I told one of them. First time I'd ever opened up like that. She said she'd pray for me and left me on delivered. After that I just kind of stopped venting to her.
My other friend already knew I was struggling, she'd give advice but nothing I hadn't already heard before, and she used to stick up for me when people talked crap, so I did appreciate her. But after I dropped out, we just naturally drifted, calls got less frequent, texts got shorter. I know she was busy with school too, so it wasn't all on her.
When I’d ask to hang out, they’d say they were busy but then post them hanging out with other friends on their story. They also never came to my birthdays, they said they were busy but again, I saw them posted up with other friends. They'd also talked crap about me before, multiple times actually. It used to bother me a lot, but after a while I just kind of got used to it.
Now that I've graduated, it feels like we've drifted even more. And it's a little awkward since we still live in the same town and run into each other sometimes.
Anyway, are my friends fake, or am I just reading into it too much? And did you ever have fake friends? What was your experience with them like.
I went through some mental health stuff and ended up dropping out of school for a bit. My friends were supportive in their own way, but never really asked why. I didn't mind that, it's not really their job to fix me.
One day I was kinda struggling and at a point where I just wanted to die, and I told one of them. First time I'd ever opened up like that. She said she'd pray for me and left me on delivered. After that I just kind of stopped venting to her.
My other friend already knew I was struggling, she'd give advice but nothing I hadn't already heard before, and she used to stick up for me when people talked crap, so I did appreciate her. But after I dropped out, we just naturally drifted, calls got less frequent, texts got shorter. I know she was busy with school too, so it wasn't all on her.
When I’d ask to hang out, they’d say they were busy but then post them hanging out with other friends on their story. They also never came to my birthdays, they said they were busy but again, I saw them posted up with other friends. They'd also talked crap about me before, multiple times actually. It used to bother me a lot, but after a while I just kind of got used to it.
Now that I've graduated, it feels like we've drifted even more. And it's a little awkward since we still live in the same town and run into each other sometimes.
Anyway, are my friends fake, or am I just reading into it too much? And did you ever have fake friends? What was your experience with them like.
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07 08,2026
why are eng official sites chapters always like 3x more pricy than on kr sites. (<- thats also why i never read eng tls officially but i buy them in kr)
not everyone is an american my currenxy is 1/3 of a dollar at best fml
not everyone is an american my currenxy is 1/3 of a dollar at best fml
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07 08,2026
Obviously I have to ask for your birthday (d/m/y) for this so only reply if you're comfortable with that info being public lol
about discuss a movie
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07 08,2026
As long the co creator is using ai like it’s nothing the story is meaningless the themes of the story are null when the creator doesn’t even respect them.
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Okay so now after a few years, I've managed to save enough for making a purchase of few books.
Now I'm in this moral dilemma where I have to choose between buying complete tgcf volumes OR Jjk volumes. Jjk is teeny tiny bit more expensive but still in my budget and I want both of them SO FUCKING BAD.
And mind you, I've read them both online but still. My lil bro (10 years old) is hyping me for Jjk and my lil sis (16) is hyping me for tgcf I'll fucking cry, they are no help.
Also I have a bond with tgcf on spiritual level so if you tell me not to buy that I'll cry. But then again, I want Jjk too????? Aahh????
Now I'm in this moral dilemma where I have to choose between buying complete tgcf volumes OR Jjk volumes. Jjk is teeny tiny bit more expensive but still in my budget and I want both of them SO FUCKING BAD.
And mind you, I've read them both online but still. My lil bro (10 years old) is hyping me for Jjk and my lil sis (16) is hyping me for tgcf I'll fucking cry, they are no help.
Also I have a bond with tgcf on spiritual level so if you tell me not to buy that I'll cry. But then again, I want Jjk too????? Aahh????
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07 08,2026
I don't have a lovelife, situationship, crush nor anyone I'm interested with. Im F(29). Am i doomed? I have high sex drive and ive been with someone last February 2026. After a 2 months FB with him, He had to leave because of his job. I cut of contact with him and after that nothing. Btw ive been single for 9 yrs already and i only had 1 boyfriend (now ex) in my entire life. I did had FB's through the years im single but its not a lot. 3 at most. Im just so disappointed with myself for still being single. Not because i cant but because im afraid to accept anyone and get hurt. I think im doomed forever single. Am i alone in this predicament?
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I just dislike drake and Kendrick. I hateeeeee how the beef ended and no one questioned why the allegations against drake were used in a rap beef and not actually told to the police
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I know this site is mostly for the asian, brown and black who reads, so I'm curious if there are some lost souls here who just stayed cause this site is kinda convenient to use. I mean i got no issue with them, I just wanna know how they feel yk (not bullying op just found it funny)
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07 08,2026
According to my mother, I hated drinking breastmilk. While my sister got it all hours of day, I only got it once, and it was a process that would take about more than an hour bc I just refused to do so. I basically mostly drank bottle milk, picky eater from birth ig.
I also used to beg my twin to get me out of the crib bc she was able to escape easily since she was tall, but I was short af and couldn't do shit so I instructed and commanded her like a sservant to assist me at like 2 years old, and she just got it ig, bc we were caught doing this multiple times.
I also sucked my thumb, not a pacifier. That's probably where I picked up biting my nails.
Lastly, I speared my poop on the wall multiple times and got thrown once bc of it apparently.
I think I was an annoying baby but apparently I behaved well in public
I also used to beg my twin to get me out of the crib bc she was able to escape easily since she was tall, but I was short af and couldn't do shit so I instructed and commanded her like a sservant to assist me at like 2 years old, and she just got it ig, bc we were caught doing this multiple times.
I also sucked my thumb, not a pacifier. That's probably where I picked up biting my nails.
Lastly, I speared my poop on the wall multiple times and got thrown once bc of it apparently.
I think I was an annoying baby but apparently I behaved well in public
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I know this site is mostly for the gals and the gays who reads, so I'm curious if there are some lost souls here who just stayed cause this site is kinda convenient to use. I mean i got no issue with them, I just wanna know how they feel yk
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Like girls play with Barbie dolls and wear dresses whiles boys play in the mud, and with cars type of thing. Raising a girl and a boy with that kind of divide or would you raise them in both types of 'worlds'?
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07 08,2026
Please send me pictures of rooms, diys, or specific items to decorate my room. I really REALLY like maximalist decor with warm colors and yellow lighting but i also really like some medieval inspired decor. I'm thinking of getting one of those bunk beds with only the top bed so I can put a desk under it but they all come in white (i would have preferred a brown wood type bed but whatever) so any idea to decorate the bed too are welcomed!!!!
