No… i love feminism but i also love evaluating people honestly. You can do both.
Humans are squishy and complicated and hard to fit into boxes without cutting important limbs off (first hand experience btw). Literally the only thing all men have in common is a Y chromosome AND THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS TO THAT.
By saying “all men are ___”, you’...... reply
I recently broke off my friendship with one of my really close friends (of like 2-3 years). Let's call him B. He used to be this really really nice guy who was awkward but super kind and caring. When we first met, he was genuine and full of life. About a year into our friendship, this other guy joined our friend group (let's call him A). I had know...... reply
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hopefully one of them catches your eye! 1 reply
no, not all forms of generalisation are bad. it depends on the context in which the statement is being made
many generalisations are used in a way not to point fingers at an entire group, but instead to make a point. take ACAB for example; obviously not EVERY single cop to exist is bad, and there may still be a small minority of cops that don't pa...... reply
I realized why I was struggling to word how I wanna answer this. I don't wanna generalize how I feel about generalizing things LOL. So ig yes? But also no, because there are exceptions. I think generalizing is bad, but there's an asterisk.
I don't like generalizing because I feel like it oversimplifies things. Especially if you're generalizing an ...... reply
depends on context, like pretty much all language. generalizations serve a cognitive and rhetorical function because you can't think or talk about everything on a case by case basis and efficiently function in life or conversation. it's good that you're able to recognize the difference in power dynamics in the instance you mentioned, because that's...... reply
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Ppl in comments don't know the meaning of 'short leash'...
They believed that he was literally gonna be on an actual leash,
and say the title is 'misl...... reply
Like even generalizations against the rich, white people, cishet, men?
Asking because I woke up to a reddit post under the subreddit r/changemyview titled, "CMV: Modern day feminism generalizes against men in ways that would consider racist, xenophobic, or bigoted if used against other groups - especially when using offender statistics" and OP tried to paint how the way people generalize men online would come of as wrong if the same language was used to talk about other minorities. Someone in the comments pointed out how generalizations are more accepted to groups that are seen in power, like the rich, white people, cishet people etc. and though the commenter understand this precedance they still dislike generalizations at large.
Most pointed out to OP though that, what they are claiming is modern feminism in their post, is just an extreme being rewarded online and by the algorithm. Most feminists aren't like this in the real world.
I was just curious on your guy's thoughts on the generalizations part? Do you guys think some forms of generalization aren't that concerning like generalizing groups that have systemic power? For me I've never questioned it.
Or do you guys think all forms of generalization is bad and that more nuanced and accurate language should be encouraged/used instead?
They know what it is. Because they're likely rapists themselves. They'd have raped the woman first if she hadn't raped them. As rapists, they view getting raped by a woman as a reward. And it's not that they don't believe woman can be abusers or groomers or rapists, it's just as rapists themselves who will harm others, they don't view those actions...... 1 reply
im not the best at wording my thoughts but yeah i also think theyre using it in the sense that they want the woman to be aggressive and in charge. men always view the woman as being 'weak and submissive' when having sex so if the woman is in charge they would be 'overpowering them' and that would hurt their fragile masculine egos so instead of call...... reply
No they don't. And they don't care to figure out what it really means. They just think it means an aggressive older woman you're right.
Take the invincible incels for example.
There's a character called Anissa, an extremely strong woman with powers but still a villain, who rapes the main character, Mark in the comic books. And all the men just spa...... reply
When men say “I wish I was raped by an older woman” they’re referring to children that are raped by adult women/ their teachers which would still be rape even if the child “wanted” it (just gross). We truly have the porn industry to thank for all this bull tbh…they think rape is something aggressive so when they don’t do something sex...... reply
I cannot BELIEVE I forgot about Lesbian Visibility Day, which is celebrated on April 26th, and it's already the 27th where I live. My lesbian card should be revoked for this.
But I figured it might still be the 26th somewhere in the world, so happy International Lesbian Visibility Day to all my fellow lesbians!! ️
In celebration of this day, ...... 1 reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!