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09 05,2026
does anyone knows a cute cozy game ? like… an adventure one, like verdant but it’s not out yet :( or maybe like stray. i like adventure games but all i can find is elden rings or god of war… ion wanna play smth like that, but something colourful, that makes u wanna play it
PLS HELPPPPP
PLS HELPPPPP
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09 05,2026
Ik this wont interest many ppl but I am so heartbroken, my dog ran away today and it had been few hours since then, we drove/walked around our neighborhood but didnt saw him , hes 9 years old and his eyesight isnt that great anymore so I am so so worried, in like an hour it will get dark here and what then.. and its literally all my dads fault, he was doing yard work infront of our house gate and saw my dog infront sniffing, but then forgot ab him and went ab his business, its been know we should watch out for him in cases like that, I am trying to be hopeful but i dont know, so I am asking if yalls dogs also run away and how much after did yall found em? we notifed municipal police, and made a post ab him on our neighborhood group :(
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09 05,2026
i have my birthday in like 1 month. also, i don't care much about my birthday i know i can't lose 30 kg by that time T_T. but I really need to lock in. do you have some underrated and unhinged tips to lose weight and fat?
i am mostly struggling with starting the fitness journey. i have been struggling with being SO FUCKING FAT since like, FOREVER. i want to be thin gang like it's so bad. i just want to be fitter and leaner. and no, not that ozempic body, thankfully im out of the shackles of the pr0-4na tumblr side. but I still need to be HOT like i genuinely want to be HOT for me. i love being attractive sorry if it sounds shallow but i wanna see my full potential. and I know there's no peak, i'm forever evolving, but I need to start somewhere.
so please, I just need some motivation on starting fitness journey. basically some pep talk and good useful underrated wierd unhinged tips that helps you to get that bawdy TEA!
i already know the calories deficit, 10K steps, hitting protein and fiber intake of the day, sleep etc. i'm just struggling to start like i need to start i know but it's so hard for no fricking reason.
also, some youtubers (with free challenges calender or programs) which are good for beginners, it can be cardio, pilates, bodyweight, HIIT, yoga anything. i lost all core strength T_T need to restart pilates for core strength( pilates is #1 for core strength, i can vouch for it istg). also, can y'all share your workout split that works for you. also, no i dont go to gym, i don't have all-female gyms nearby and the co-ed gyms are NOT it. i have deep fear of indian men (yes yo' girl indian T_T this country is not for the weak, i feel it's not for the strong either. being a woman in india who's FAT and queer and not have skin as white than chalk? literal HELL.) i js do NOT fw indian men, lord save me T_T. also, why gyms so expensive and i don't have spare time to go spend 1hr in gym to pay hefty fee (i don't have dumbbells, only resistance bands :D).
also, i'm lacto-vegetarian btw ;)
any advice is appreciated. you can also share your personal weight loss or fitness journey.
xoxo
mr rover <3
i am mostly struggling with starting the fitness journey. i have been struggling with being SO FUCKING FAT since like, FOREVER. i want to be thin gang like it's so bad. i just want to be fitter and leaner. and no, not that ozempic body, thankfully im out of the shackles of the pr0-4na tumblr side. but I still need to be HOT like i genuinely want to be HOT for me. i love being attractive sorry if it sounds shallow but i wanna see my full potential. and I know there's no peak, i'm forever evolving, but I need to start somewhere.
so please, I just need some motivation on starting fitness journey. basically some pep talk and good useful underrated wierd unhinged tips that helps you to get that bawdy TEA!
i already know the calories deficit, 10K steps, hitting protein and fiber intake of the day, sleep etc. i'm just struggling to start like i need to start i know but it's so hard for no fricking reason.
also, some youtubers (with free challenges calender or programs) which are good for beginners, it can be cardio, pilates, bodyweight, HIIT, yoga anything. i lost all core strength T_T need to restart pilates for core strength( pilates is #1 for core strength, i can vouch for it istg). also, can y'all share your workout split that works for you. also, no i dont go to gym, i don't have all-female gyms nearby and the co-ed gyms are NOT it. i have deep fear of indian men (yes yo' girl indian T_T this country is not for the weak, i feel it's not for the strong either. being a woman in india who's FAT and queer and not have skin as white than chalk? literal HELL.) i js do NOT fw indian men, lord save me T_T. also, why gyms so expensive and i don't have spare time to go spend 1hr in gym to pay hefty fee (i don't have dumbbells, only resistance bands :D).
also, i'm lacto-vegetarian btw ;)
any advice is appreciated. you can also share your personal weight loss or fitness journey.
xoxo
mr rover <3
about tried to kill yourself
Ik I only read BL and dungeon/hunter type story without romance but it feels like I read all the story or they're on hiatus especially on BL. BL stories feels like full of grape so I lose interest, or they're all on hiatus. Do authors coordinates this like "hey we should end seasons at the same time":((
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09 05,2026
I've never felt as much anger as I did when reading love bite I hated that fucking story
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09 05,2026
ok so everyday i read or watch yaoi. yaoi novels, manga, drama, drama cds.. whatevs. i also go as far as to buy physical copies of yaoi to bring with me, doesnt matter where, i carry it. its gotten like to a point if i dont see two men french kissing on my screen i wont function properly. but i feel like ive been TOO fixated on yaoi and schools a month away and im so fucking scared my fixation on yaoi will hinder my academic performance since ever since i started to read yaoi (circa 5yrs ago?) i barely even try in school like for th past 2yrs every mid-semester i just give up and read yaoi on my phone (with wifi from my friend's or the school wifi) and its not like i get bad grades, i get like a 3.7-4.0 gpa easily since i do well on tests and projects n shit BUT LIKE IM LITERALLY GRADUATING CAN I STILL KEEP THIS UP???
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09 05,2026
Is it unreasonable to ask a partner to have regular tests (like for sexually transmitted diseases and such) done when you’re in a committed relationship?
I trust them but I feel like this is something mandatory? Like a prenuptial agreement kinda thing. Or am I wrong to want that?
I trust them but I feel like this is something mandatory? Like a prenuptial agreement kinda thing. Or am I wrong to want that?
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Looking for a newer yaoi with a suicidal or depressed Top. He gets in a relationship with the Bottom and during the relationship he makes up these rules or scenarios in his head like ‘if the Bottom rejects me I’ll kill myself’ or ‘if he doesn’t show up for this date I'll kill myself.’ The Bottom never knows until near the end of the comic when the Top finally tells him all the moments where he almost decided to die but the Bottom kept going against what the Top thought he'd do so he kept living on and getting more mentally stable as time passed. The Bottom is like crying and sad/horrified realizing the Top had been wagering his life on the Bottoms actions the whole time but it has a happy ending.
Please! I've been looking for this comic and Googling all types of things and I haven't been able to find it for like a month now..
Thank you in advance!!
Please! I've been looking for this comic and Googling all types of things and I haven't been able to find it for like a month now..
Thank you in advance!!
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09 05,2026
I thought watching The Ultimatum: Queer Love edition would make me feel sad about not really having stable relationships, but it's honestly just making me feel happy and appreciative of being single ong.
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09 05,2026
Since a lot of peoples lists have been wiped I’ve been trying to find a bl manga that I read before but I cannot remember the title. From what I remember the mc was some type of witch? And they were rare in their world and hunted down so mc was trying to hide/was on the run a lot. I think the ml was able to be some type of familiar and could turn into a cat? I don’t remember if it was mc or the ml or if this was actually part of the plot but the witch part is definitely right and they both had dark hair. Sorry it’s so vague, I don’t remember much which is why I want to re read it so if anyone knows or remembers the title I would really appreciate it!
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09 05,2026
Does anyone know the title where the femald lead was reincarnated as a child of murim clan. She has 2 uncles one who has madness, the other one always sleeps. Her father has disease where he keeps on forgetting.
She can diagnose when she submerges people in water and the herbs that she needs will show how to cure that person. She tried to diagnose her father but no herbs appeared.
She can diagnose when she submerges people in water and the herbs that she needs will show how to cure that person. She tried to diagnose her father but no herbs appeared.
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Basically, I love how you can ask the community on here or novelupdates for recs.
Sometimes i find myself wishing that ao3 has the same function, it can even be expanded. Like imagine on the homepage or perhaps make an entirely new section where you can ask for recs and add fandom/tags the same way but it wldnt be like posting a fic to the site.
Or if you're looking for a fic n you cant seem to find a fic (either because you forgot the tags used/the author didn't properly tagged/the author deleted their fics and acct), you can post a message and ask the community abt a fic.
So many times I'm trying to find a fic from years ago only to find the author kamikaze-d. Like I had a fave dkbk author called MilkCreamTea and wanted to go down memory lane, and after many sleepless nights searching, found out that they deleted their ao3, twitter, socials and only found their works cuz some angel posted a google drive on reddit.
Plus I have no clue on how to give a suggestion like this to ao3.
Sometimes i find myself wishing that ao3 has the same function, it can even be expanded. Like imagine on the homepage or perhaps make an entirely new section where you can ask for recs and add fandom/tags the same way but it wldnt be like posting a fic to the site.
Or if you're looking for a fic n you cant seem to find a fic (either because you forgot the tags used/the author didn't properly tagged/the author deleted their fics and acct), you can post a message and ask the community abt a fic.
So many times I'm trying to find a fic from years ago only to find the author kamikaze-d. Like I had a fave dkbk author called MilkCreamTea and wanted to go down memory lane, and after many sleepless nights searching, found out that they deleted their ao3, twitter, socials and only found their works cuz some angel posted a google drive on reddit.
Plus I have no clue on how to give a suggestion like this to ao3.
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i am very much intrigued and attracted to black flags, characters who are irredeemable psychotic beings. when i say black flags, i dont mean rapists exclusively. not rapists. but people who are just so clinically insane that their moral compass is broken and skewed or simply doesn't exist. which makes them borderline uninterested in romance sometimes.
eg. dan from brutal satsujin, oh inseop from for your murder, amy dunne from gone girl, sukuna from jujutsu kaisen.
and the thing is, their attractiveness is extreme to me BECAUSE they're insane. the moment they become "human", i lose interest. why is it so?
eg. dan from brutal satsujin, oh inseop from for your murder, amy dunne from gone girl, sukuna from jujutsu kaisen.
and the thing is, their attractiveness is extreme to me BECAUSE they're insane. the moment they become "human", i lose interest. why is it so?
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09 05,2026
I was reading this manhwa called mute off and basically it has a violent uke who hit the seme with a microphone and slapped him too I think (NOTE: the seme DID NOT CARE AND DOES NOT HATE GETTING HIT BY HIM) . And oh lord the comments....how come these people suddenly turn into members of The Associations of Seme Protection and start going off on how disgusting and how revolting it is and how the uke needs to be trained in the bedroom and seme needs to have a hidden violent side......they sound exactly like misogynists who'd hate on women and call them slurs for slapping their husband oml. These people come on soo strong when it's an uke but quiet down when literally 90% of tops abuse, coerce and manipulate the uke just because he has the upper hand when It comes to physical ability.
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For me a story becomes peak if there's a magic/power system that I can powerscale the characters on. Especially if I can do it in my BL manga/manhwa/manhua. Idk powerscaling to me is very fun heheheh
I think part of my enjoyment of it is because of how some characters/character archetypes are elevated or can be looked at differently when you see them be stronger than other characters/character archetypes. Like a wimpy character or an annoying comic relief character being taken in differently as they are actually strong/stronger/strongest in the story kind of thing.
What about you guys? do you guys like power scaling?
I think part of my enjoyment of it is because of how some characters/character archetypes are elevated or can be looked at differently when you see them be stronger than other characters/character archetypes. Like a wimpy character or an annoying comic relief character being taken in differently as they are actually strong/stronger/strongest in the story kind of thing.
What about you guys? do you guys like power scaling?
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ok so what I mean is that ever since I read omniscient reader's viewpoint i fell in love with it so much I bought the light novels right? So lately I've been so focused on this series that in class as soon as I've finished the task the teacher asked us to do I go and read orv or sometimes just start reading orv. This is affecting me deeply because i've been getting horrible grades not to mention i'm very bad at remembering useful things. Now normally I wouldn't mind and just move on but the problem is that if I continue to do this then i'll not get a job as a vet. Which means I can't help animals in the future. Also not to mention i also keep asking my friends what would they do if orv happened irl. But instead of answering they normally say "ASFDASFD you need to tell the difference between fiction and reality." I also keep wondering how I would survive if the apocalypse happens and stuff like that also whenever I bring up orv with my friends I act as if the characters are real for example "Oh guys do you think I can be a pro gamer instead of a vet?" "Pro gamer like that lol gamer you talk about faker?" "No pro gamer Yoo Joonghyuk?!" or "Man I wish I was as smart as sang-ah or I could be kim dokja's companion." Not to mention that I always say stuff like "The constellation ASFDASFD sponsors you 200 coins." “The constellation ASFDASFD is glaring at you.” I also have an obsession with kim dokja to the point where everything I write on has some sort of kdj on it like a kdj drawing or a saying from my king. This has gotten so bad at the point where on one of my english work it had us draw what fate and romance was so I drew kdj and yjh. And I also wrote an assignment about orv and twsa. I DON’T KNOW IF THIS IS A MINOR ISSUE THOUGH LOLOL ╥_╥
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09 05,2026
I still have some money left from a gift card I got, but I'm not sure what to buy... Any paid games that are actually worth the price?
oh fyi, i already own SDV, little nightmare, dont starve, and Limbo
oh fyi, i already own SDV, little nightmare, dont starve, and Limbo
